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"adyapana mattama" anuwa minissu maninna baha
ex: oya commerce related degree ekak karanm ethana thiyenne kata padan kara gaththa deyak misak INTELLIGENCE eka measure kara gnn puluwn deyak nemei, othanin maninn puluwn ekama de uta language skills thiyenawa kiyala, dn commerce degree krpu un quote krnn epa meka, no offense
maths wge degree ekak krnm anna logical/ mathematical INTELLIGENCE eka balann puluwn
oya dekama badiddi adala wennaha satha pahakata, wadak thiyenne financially stabled ndd kiyana eka withrai
elagata
minissu "hasirenne", unge "behaviors", cognitive biases...hama dema enne podi kale hadena widiha anuwa, unge hygiene eka, grooming, morals and ethics..me hama dema enne ohoma, okata "social class" eka kiyalath kiyanawa, ara uda kiww widihata adyapanaya kohoma thibbath "social class" kiynne hadena environment eka matha depend wena deyak boho wita
itha kalathurakin hoda emotional/ interpersonal/ adaptive and logical intelligence ekak ekak thiyena kenek...uta "hoda social class" ekak nathi "ahithakara" environment ekaka hadunath, environment eke thiyena saha minissu hasirena patterns therun aran environment ekata hodama widihata adapt wenn puluwn, dn me mn kiynne uda maths related degree ekak krpu ekata "aniwaren" ehem krnn plwn kiyana eka nemei...
dn methana wadagt de "social class" eka
elagata
dn social class ekai slli wlinui psse wadagath wenne relationship eke "emotional rollercoaster" kalla
methendi thami emotional intelligence eka saha "penuma"
wadagath wenne
meka eka udaharnekin witharak kiynnm nttm pothk lynn wenne pitu 2000 k withara mata
high cognitive empathy ekak saha low emotional empathy ekk thiyena kollek innw, dn u uge mattame inn kellek bandoth ehema masa ganen divorce
uge dark personality traits nisa, uge fragile ego eka feed kara ganna saha power and control kiyana de uta one, so methenta hariyne "empath" kenek (kellek)
aruva nitharama validate krl kella uge ego eka feed knw..drugs gahanawa wge tmi dn aruta, uge ego eka feed kara ganna safe environment ekak hambeka dn,aru congnitive empathy eken methna wena scene eka danagannawa saha uta me tyena safe environment ekak digatama pawathwgnn one...u krnne "empath" va himita abuse cycle ekakata (physical abuse gana nemei kiynne) bajanaya karana eka, aruge ego eka feed wenawa..kella abuse arc eke up eke iddi ekita one validation eka kollagn hmbenw, dn kellath (empath) oya validation eka seek karanwa drug ekak wge...methana thami niyama harima committed relationship eka thyenne...oka iwryk nathuwa eka digata yanawa, dennama dn drug ekata abbahi wela iwri...
en othenta penuma wadagath wenne khmd? mn ara uda mention karapu "abuse" kiyn de psychologically krnn plwn
kollage physical appearance eka 9/10 and kellage 6/10 nm kella hodatama dnnwa ara kollava achieve krnn baha kyl, ehema welawata ara kolla me kellawa bandoth, kella hodatama dannawa kollata anith paththa hreddi meyava replace karala etawdiya lssn kellek bdinn plwn kiyala, ann othana thiyenawa insecurity eka, kella ithin aruta devi kenekt wge salakanawa, meka kella "asaven" karana deyak, ithin kollage ego eka up wenawa, uta uge ego eka feed kragnn safe environment ekak gedara thiyenw saha uge control eke kellava thiygnn plwn uge dominance eka pathuravala, kellage insecurities nisa down wechcha ego eka aye kolla validate karanawa..so methana wena abuse cycle eka oka thami nathuw kellata kana podi wenna gahana eka nemei abuse kiyala mn kiwwe
me eka podi udaharanayk witharai
oka thami sarthaka pawul jeewithe, dn bani meke inn naki bada thadi tatt unclela awilla, adare kiynne brain eke wena "chemical" imbalance weemak withri, ithin eken labena "high" "euphoria" eka emotional roller coaster ekak naththam tika kalekin nathi wela yanawa, ehema nathi wennathuw thiyenn oya uda kiypu widiha wenn one, othana example scenario ekak witharai gaththe, oka thava eka eka widihata wenn plwn
+ adu kule un igengena degree karala high position ekakata giyahama un hasirena adu kule widihen u adu kule kiyala lssnt penawa, me mn caste eka gana nemei kiynne "social class" eka gana, khen hri ara parana satha eliyata enwama thami
"adyapana mattama" anuwa minissu maninna baha
ex: oya commerce related degree ekak karanm ethana thiyenne kata padan kara gaththa deyak misak INTELLIGENCE eka measure kara gnn puluwn deyak nemei, othanin maninn puluwn ekama de uta language skills thiyenawa kiyala, dn commerce degree krpu un quote krnn epa meka, no offense
maths wge degree ekak krnm anna logical/ mathematical INTELLIGENCE eka balann puluwn
oya dekama badiddi adala wennaha satha pahakata, wadak thiyenne financially stabled ndd kiyana eka withrai
elagata
minissu "hasirenne", unge "behaviors", cognitive biases...hama dema enne podi kale hadena widiha anuwa, unge hygiene eka, grooming, morals and ethics..me hama dema enne ohoma, okata "social class" eka kiyalath kiyanawa, ara uda kiww widihata adyapanaya kohoma thibbath "social class" kiynne hadena environment eka matha depend wena deyak boho wita
itha kalathurakin hoda emotional/ interpersonal/ adaptive and logical intelligence ekak ekak thiyena kenek...uta "hoda social class" ekak nathi "ahithakara" environment ekaka hadunath, environment eke thiyena saha minissu hasirena patterns therun aran environment ekata hodama widihata adapt wenn puluwn, dn me mn kiynne uda maths related degree ekak krpu ekata "aniwaren" ehem krnn plwn kiyana eka nemei...
dn methana wadagt de "social class" eka
elagata
dn social class ekai slli wlinui psse wadagath wenne relationship eke "emotional rollercoaster" kalla
methendi thami emotional intelligence eka saha "penuma"
wadagath wenne
meka eka udaharnekin witharak kiynnm nttm pothk lynn wenne pitu 2000 k withara mata
high cognitive empathy ekak saha low emotional empathy ekk thiyena kollek innw, dn u uge mattame inn kellek bandoth ehema masa ganen divorce
uge dark personality traits nisa, uge fragile ego eka feed kara ganna saha power and control kiyana de uta one, so methenta hariyne "empath" kenek (kellek)
aruva nitharama validate krl kella uge ego eka feed knw..drugs gahanawa wge tmi dn aruta, uge ego eka feed kara ganna safe environment ekak hambeka dn,aru congnitive empathy eken methna wena scene eka danagannawa saha uta me tyena safe environment ekak digatama pawathwgnn one...u krnne "empath" va himita abuse cycle ekakata (physical abuse gana nemei kiynne) bajanaya karana eka, aruge ego eka feed wenawa..kella abuse arc eke up eke iddi ekita one validation eka kollagn hmbenw, dn kellath (empath) oya validation eka seek karanwa drug ekak wge...methana thami niyama harima committed relationship eka thyenne...oka iwryk nathuwa eka digata yanawa, dennama dn drug ekata abbahi wela iwri...
en othenta penuma wadagath wenne khmd? mn ara uda mention karapu "abuse" kiyn de psychologically krnn plwn
kollage physical appearance eka 9/10 and kellage 6/10 nm kella hodatama dnnwa ara kollava achieve krnn baha kyl, ehema welawata ara kolla me kellawa bandoth, kella hodatama dannawa kollata anith paththa hreddi meyava replace karala etawdiya lssn kellek bdinn plwn kiyala, ann othana thiyenawa insecurity eka, kella ithin aruta devi kenekt wge salakanawa, meka kella "asaven" karana deyak, ithin kollage ego eka up wenawa, uta uge ego eka feed kragnn safe environment ekak gedara thiyenw saha uge control eke kellava thiygnn plwn uge dominance eka pathuravala, kellage insecurities nisa down wechcha ego eka aye kolla validate karanawa..so methana wena abuse cycle eka oka thami nathuw kellata kana podi wenna gahana eka nemei abuse kiyala mn kiwwe
me eka podi udaharanayk witharai
oka thami sarthaka pawul jeewithe, dn bani meke inn naki bada thadi tatt unclela awilla, adare kiynne brain eke wena "chemical" imbalance weemak withri, ithin eken labena "high" "euphoria" eka emotional roller coaster ekak naththam tika kalekin nathi wela yanawa, ehema nathi wennathuw thiyenn oya uda kiypu widiha wenn one, othana example scenario ekak witharai gaththe, oka thava eka eka widihata wenn plwn
+ adu kule un igengena degree karala high position ekakata giyahama un hasirena adu kule widihen u adu kule kiyala lssnt penawa, me mn caste eka gana nemei kiynne "social class" eka gana, khen hri ara parana satha eliyata enwama thami
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