Top 10 Quotes from Quran about Women

Mononoke

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yes not normal for this time. now all happening with rules and regulation.
there are rules for everything as what age to consider as adults...at what age to marry.
u are talking about 1400 years ago. that was a costome to marry like that in that time.its not suitable for this time.becoz the costome changed.
im desperate because i want to let all know the truth than just criticizing.

Look this has nothing to do with customs. a 9 year old girls body is not ready to have sex, her organs aren't developed. You are actually doing physical trauma to her by have having sex with her. This fact doesn't change just because you go back 1400 or 14000 years.
 

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    in islam there is no any age mentioned that at what age a girl or bot should marry.there are two things consider.
    Mental maturity and pyhsical maturity.
    so it was depend on that time and based on her. there is no exactly age mentioned anywhere so still its not sure about her age.if both like each other and have parents permission whats the wrong with age.if its done by any other u may well talk about it as Romeo Juliet.
    didnt lord buddha married at the age of 16??????and left his wife on the time she gave birth to their baby. if u tell this to anyone they may feel it is very rude...isnt it??????i read about her story how she grieved when her husband left her with the new born. i dont want to insult ur religion and i respect jesus alaisalam,ebraham,noah and budda as well.
    if in todays life if any one leave the wife and kids will this society accept it?????/

    see everything judging by society. even its allowed gay marriage in western world now. who is limiting everything??????????/// if any girl married at the age of 16 now will u accept.........

    there are people who married at small age...in india.,nepal still these types of things are happening. because he married a girl with her will and her parents u cant judge or insult him.can u ignore alll the good deeds he did simply telling this.this is the only thing people can talk about prophet(if they agree it means that they should agree with all)or u will bring quran verses out on context.
    all the scientist who comment on islam and quran are bull shit and no sense.
    what to do brother....ohoma yamu....:no:

    yeah!!Romeo 55,juliet 9..WoW!

    anybody married after his/her puberty is accepted.becuase then their sexual organs are well developed...yes buddha(bhodi satva) married at the age of 16 and that's way over the pubescent age...(not like like 9 which is way below the pubescent age)
    and stop been an idiot and look at the age different....our bhodi satvas wife(yashodara) was also at the same age (i.e 16) by that time....but in mohammed,,,he was over 50......

    leaving a wife and a son alone is far less sinful than having sex with a small child...you know that 4 sure...and i bet your quran says sex is a worse sin than anything else...
    and bhodi satva left his wife and son for the betterment of the whole world including his own family....

    in india,napol,they set an marriage "agreement" of two children when they are born,,but they marry themselves to each other after they become older enough....quit fooling around with things which everybody knows.....

    define "ALL"??then what about the scientists who didn't comment on islam or quran?....are they bullshit and non sense too?........
     
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    yes bad is bad because it effected other people. who got effected with this...

    they both had a good happy married life.
    so how anyone can judge about good and bad if she was happy with him.

    humping a child is bad.... that's child abusing... it affects the child
    :eek::eek::eek: and that encouraged child marriages... affected other poor lil girls 2
     

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    Look this has nothing to do with customs. a 9 year old girls body is not ready to have sex, her organs aren't developed. You are actually doing physical trauma to her by have having sex with her. This fact doesn't change just because you go back 1400 or 14000 years.

    well said...i know that they understand it...but this defending act is just part of been a muslim......
     

    sudunone

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    prophet married aAysha raliallahu anhu to remove misconception as that time no one married the daughter of his best friend.father of aysha (raliallahu anhu) was his best companion and Allah ordered him to marry her.

    u are talking about 1400 years ago. that was a costome to marry like that in that time.

    දෙක ඒ හැටි ගැලපෙන්නෙ නෑ නේද? :eek: එහෙම custom එකක් තිබිල නෑ වගේ. නබි තුමා අලුත් එකක් අඳුන්නල දීලා.

    කුරානෙ වෙන උදාහරණ තියෙනවද නබි තුමා ඇර වෙන කවුරුත් අඩු වයසෙ ළමයි බැන්දා කියල?
     
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    කුරානෙ වෙන උදාහරණ තියෙනවද නබි තුමා ඇර වෙන කවුරුත් අඩු වයසෙ ළමයි බැන්දා කියල?

    :eek::eek: එතුමට පස්සේ නම් කස්ටිය ජයටම වැඩේ කරගෙන ගිහින් වගේ...
     

    njsa

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    Look this has nothing to do with customs. a 9 year old girls body is not ready to have sex, her organs aren't developed. You are actually doing physical trauma to her by have having sex with her. This fact doesn't change just because you go back 1400 or 14000 years.

    no way.... it depend on people. u can compare a 16 year old american boy/girl with a srilankan boy/girl. there is a big different.there are small girls who look like 16/17 years..so u cant criticise this.
     

    sudunone

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    i posted both to show u that there is no any exact age for girl and boy as mature age.

    Ability to reproduce doesn't mean a person is ready to become a parent, physically or mentally.

    And yes, there is no exact age a person becomes mature. Some people are immature till death.
     

    Mononoke

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    Do you have enough confidence in those pictures to marry your daughter off at 6, and to a 50 year old man.

    defenietly not becoz now the time has been changed. prophet married aAysha raliallahu anhu to remove misconception as that time no one married the daughter of his best friend.father of aysha (raliallahu anhu) was his best companion and Allah ordered him to marry her. kids in srilanka arnt matured enough comparing to western countries so every thing depend on country and culture.
    also there are many couples who dont care about the age and just getting married even now....can u deny that???????

    Let me rephrase the question. Do you think it is healthy for a girl of 9 to be married off to an adult.
     

    njsa

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    Ability to reproduce doesn't mean a person is ready to become a parent, physically or mentally.

    And yes, there is no exact age a person becomes mature. Some people are immature till death.

    it was ok, now everything got change. now people even at 30 not ready to have
    a baby.will u consider 16 as an age to marry in this society????????/
     

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    yes bad is bad because it effected other people. who got effected with this...

    they both had a good happy married life.
    so how anyone can judge about good and bad if she was happy with him.

    so much for the happiness...i have heard that prophet died when she was 17....that means like only 8 years..(with an old guy)
     

    njsa

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    Let me rephrase the question. Do you think it is healthy for a girl of 9 to be married off to an adult.

    u cant judge considering her age.no one knows how she looked.even there is no any exact age mentioned any where of her age when she getting marry.

    just for an example if u see the graves or the paroh at that time they are very huge. i think that time people are very big and strong than now. even the life expectancy was more. so we cant judge by comparing to present.
     

    sudunone

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    it was ok, now everything got change. now people even at 30 not ready to have
    a baby.will u consider 16 as an age to marry in this society????????/

    Help me to understand your concept: A child is ready to marry at the age of six, suitable for sex with a very old man by nine, then becomes unsuitable for sex and marriage by the age of sixteen?
    Explains why it is ok for a 17 year old girl to become a widow at the age of 17 years and remain so.
     

    njsa

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    Help me to understand your concept: A child is ready to marry at the age of six, suitable for sex with a very old man by nine, then becomes unsuitable for sex and marriage by the age of sixteen?
    Explains why it is ok for a 17 year old girl to become a widow at the age of 17 years and remain so.

    it was their choice. can u tell me is it ok that buddah left his wife on the day she gave birth to their baby????????????/

    everything happened for a reason.
     

    sudunone

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    u cant judge considering her age.no one knows how she looked.even there is no any exact age mentioned any where of her age when she getting marry.

    just for an example if u see the graves or the paroh at that time they are very huge. i think that time people are very big and strong than now. even the life expectancy was more. so we cant judge by comparing to present.

    I thought the mummies were as small as us. Anyway, if you say they were so big and strong then, with a long life expectancy, and reduced to what we are today, you are describing evolution at a rapid pace.
     

    Mononoke

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    u cant judge considering her age.no one knows how she looked.even there is no any exact age mentioned any where of her age when she getting marry.

    No, I can judge. Because I beleive that there is a thing called puberty, which is not a cultural construct, where a human being reaches physical sexual maturity. And for the overwhelming number of girls this age is 13-14. A girls body, especially her labia and ovaries, is not fully developed until then. Sexual relations with a pre-pubescent girl is physically traumatic to her.

    just for an example if u see the graves or the paroh at that time they are very huge. i think that time people are very big and strong than now. even the life expectancy was more. so we cant judge by comparing to present.

    Nonsense, life expectancy was lower back then. Most people died around 45-50. And size of the grave has nothing to do with people being large. What mythical wonderland do you live in.