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7 Reflections on Teachers & Students
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<blockquote data-quote="smother" data-source="post: 10139790" data-attributes="member: 166532"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 22px"><span style="color: Red"><strong>7 Reflections on Teachers & Students</strong></span></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 22px"><span style="color: Red"><strong>~!~!~!~</strong></span></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 22px"><span style="color: Red"><strong></strong></span></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 22px"><span style="color: Red"><strong></strong></span></span></span><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong></strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>Who is the Best?</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Instead of focusing on who is the best teacher,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">it is more important to focus on how to be the best student.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Being the best student is more important than having the best teacher</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">because the best teacher can only be appreciated so much by a weak student.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>Learn from the More Enlightened</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">What matters is not so much whether a teacher is enlightened or not,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">but whether s/he is more "enlightened" than us in certain aspects of the Dharma.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Those are the areas we learn from,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">not the areas s/he is less "enlightened" in.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span> </p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>Failing Each Other</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Teachers often fail us as much as we have expectations on them.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Students often fail teachers as much as teachers have expectations on them.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span> </p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>Teaching Teachers</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">What do we do when we realise the imperfection of our teachers?</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Do we simply forsake them in disgust?</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Or do we become their teachers whenever possible?</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Why not share the Dharma with weaker teachers out of gratitude,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">when you encounter better teachers?</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">As long as both are unenlightened,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">both teacher and student can help spot each other's blindspots.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span> </p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>The Messenger is Not the Message</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">The Buddha taught that even if a leper carries a torch in a dark forest,one should follow him for finding the way out.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">The message is more important than the form of the messenger.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">The message is more important than the tone of the messenger.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">The message is more important than how it is carried across.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span> </p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>Ask When in Doubt</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Even the Buddha's closest disciples ask him questions</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">when they have doubts about him and his teachings</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">not so much out of lack of faith,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">but out of not wanting blind faith,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">out of wanting to strengthen true faith.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Who then are we not to ask when in doubt?</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span> </p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 15px"><strong>Letting Go the Teacher</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Even as we walk the spiritual path,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">we need to relinquish attachment to our teachers at some point</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">or we will be the eternal "student" in the shadow of the Teacher,</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">which is what no true Teachers wishes.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">It is the wish of all good Teachers that all become like them, or even better them.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">Having a clingy Teacher or being a clingy student</span> <span style="font-size: 12px"></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">is like riding the raft of Dharma, refusing to let it go.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">The vehicle can thus be an impediment to the destination</span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">when not released at the right time! </span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-size: 12px">But release at the wrong time and one might drown!</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="smother, post: 10139790, member: 166532"] [CENTER][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=6][COLOR=Red][B]7 Reflections on Teachers & Students ~!~!~!~ [/B][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=4][B] Who is the Best?[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]Instead of focusing on who is the best teacher, it is more important to focus on how to be the best student. Being the best student is more important than having the best teacher because the best teacher can only be appreciated so much by a weak student.[/SIZE] [SIZE=4][B]Learn from the More Enlightened[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]What matters is not so much whether a teacher is enlightened or not, but whether s/he is more "enlightened" than us in certain aspects of the Dharma. Those are the areas we learn from, not the areas s/he is less "enlightened" in. [/SIZE] [SIZE=4][B]Failing Each Other[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]Teachers often fail us as much as we have expectations on them. Students often fail teachers as much as teachers have expectations on them. [/SIZE] [SIZE=4][B]Teaching Teachers[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]What do we do when we realise the imperfection of our teachers? Do we simply forsake them in disgust? Or do we become their teachers whenever possible? Why not share the Dharma with weaker teachers out of gratitude, when you encounter better teachers?[/SIZE] [SIZE=3]As long as both are unenlightened, both teacher and student can help spot each other's blindspots. [/SIZE] [SIZE=4][B]The Messenger is Not the Message[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]The Buddha taught that even if a leper carries a torch in a dark forest,one should follow him for finding the way out. The message is more important than the form of the messenger. The message is more important than the tone of the messenger. The message is more important than how it is carried across. [/SIZE] [SIZE=4][B]Ask When in Doubt[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]Even the Buddha's closest disciples ask him questions when they have doubts about him and his teachings not so much out of lack of faith, but out of not wanting blind faith, out of wanting to strengthen true faith. Who then are we not to ask when in doubt? [/SIZE] [SIZE=4][B]Letting Go the Teacher[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE=3]Even as we walk the spiritual path, we need to relinquish attachment to our teachers at some point or we will be the eternal "student" in the shadow of the Teacher, which is what no true Teachers wishes. It is the wish of all good Teachers that all become like them, or even better them. Having a clingy Teacher or being a clingy student[/SIZE] [SIZE=3] is like riding the raft of Dharma, refusing to let it go. The vehicle can thus be an impediment to the destination when not released at the right time! But release at the wrong time and one might drown![/SIZE][/CENTER] [/QUOTE]
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