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Message: <blockquote data-quote="sirajstc" data-source="post: 8321503" data-attributes="member: 91140">[FONT=&quot]by Asma bint Shameem[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]"What the ----------!" "Hey you, ----------, how are you?" "Where in the -------- have you been?"[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]If  you listen to the conversation of the average Muslim youth talking to  each other, unfortunately this is what you will hear.......expletives,  bad words and cusses. In fact, foul language is often heard as part of  their everyday life at school, universities and work place.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]What's  worse is that they use these words without thinking.....without remorse  and without even realizing that these words are obscene, filthy or  repulsive....using four letter words in every sentence and in every  conversation.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Using  the words 'hell' and calling each other 'dog' and 'gay' like it's  nothing. And these are some of the more 'decent' words. There are other,  much worse words that are totally unmentionable. May Allaah protect us.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]These people, like their non-Muslim peers, seem to be completely desensitized to the use of fouland offensive words, including many that make others cringe with shame and embarrassment.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Yet, when  you reprimand them for using such language, what do they say? "O come  on!  This is how everyone talks!" or "This is how I 'express' myself. or  "We don't mean it in a bad way, we're just joking around with each  other!"[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Subhaan Allaah! Calling each other bad names and using foul language![/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Since when did that become a 'joke'? Since when did cussing become part of a Muslim's vocabulary?[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]And,  sad to say, not only the youth, but even some of the adults are guilty  of the same. And, there are some, who may speak very decently under  'normal' circumstances, but when they are provoked or they get into a  fight with someone, nothing comes out of their mouths except cusses, bad  words and filth.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]What a stark contrast between this and what the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) used to do.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]The behavior of the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam)[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Anas  bin Malik said: "The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) was not  one who would abuse (others) or say obscene words, or curse (others)..."  (Bukhaari)[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]And  Abdullah bin 'Amr said: "The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam)  never used bad languageneither a 'Faahish nor a Mutafaahish. He used to  say 'The best amongst you are those who have the best manners and  character.'[/FONT][FONT=&quot](Bukhaari)[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]And  he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: “The believer is not a  slanderer, one who curses a great deal, one who indulges in obscenity or  who in engages in foul talk.” (Tirmidhi-- saheeh by al-Albaani)[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]What Allaah says about cussing:[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]".....nor  defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. How bad is it,  to insult one's brother after having Faith [i.e. to call your Muslim  brother as: "O sinner", or "O wicked", etc.]. And whosoever does not  repent, then such are indeed Zaalimoon (wrong-doers). (Surah  Hujaraat:11)[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]Hellfire because of cussing:[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Realize, dear brother/sister, that using foul language and cussing is a sin, even in joke and this is a characteristic of the people of Hellfire.[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]"The inmates of Hell are of five types...." And among them he mentioned "...the miser, the liar and those who are in the habit of abusing people and using obscene and foul language." (Muslim)[/FONT]    [FONT=&quot]And while  advising Mu'aadh, (RA), the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam)  said: “Restrain this,” i.e., your tongue. I (Mu'aadh) said: O Messenger  of Allaah, will we be called to account for what we say? He said: “May  your mother be bereft of you, O Mu’aadh! Will people be thrown in Hell  on their faces or their noses for anything other than the harvest of  their tongues?” (al-Tirmidhi-- Saheeh by al-Albaani)[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]The worst people on the Day of Judgment[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Know that people who use bad words and have dirty mouths will be one of the worst people on the Day of Judgment.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]The  Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "O 'Aaishah! Have you  ever seen me speaking a bad and dirty language? (Remember that) the  worst people in Allah's sight on the Day of Resurrection will be those  whom the people desert or leave in order to save themselves from their  dirty language or from their transgression." (Bukhaari)[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Cussing is evil[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Cussing and swearing is so bad that even the angels cannot tolerate it.[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]Ibn  'Abbas said, "Two men defamed one another in the time of the Messenger  of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. One of them reviled  the other who remained silent. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and  grant him peace, remained seated. Then the other man answered him back  and the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, got up. He was  asked, "You got up?" He said, "The angels left, so I left with them.  While this man was silent, the angels were answering the one who cursed  him. When he answered, the angels left." (Adab al-Mufrad)[/FONT]  [FONT=&quot]It is a sin[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Someone asked:[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]"What should be done with a person who calls a Muslim a dog, pig, or other offensive word? Is it a sin?"[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Imaam  an-Nawawi said: "It is a sin and he should be punished (ta’zeer –  punishment to be specified by the qaadi/Muslim judge). He also has to  repent." (Fataawa al-Imaam al-Nawawi)[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Subhaan  Allaah! Being punished for calling your Muslim brother 'dog'! And yet,  we hear our youth calling each other 'dog' and 'nigga' and much worse,  in every sentence, while they think nothing,absolutely nothing of it![/FONT] [FONT=&quot]What would Imaam an-Nawawi say if he heard some of the Muslims talking today?!![/FONT] [FONT=&quot]What to do?[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]The  Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "Whoever believes in God  the Last Day must speak good or keep silent." (Bukhaari) [/FONT] [FONT=&quot]1. Remember these beautiful words of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) and either speak good or keep quiet.[/FONT][FONT=&quot][/FONT] [FONT=&quot]2. Stay away from foul language, cussing and evil words, [/FONT][FONT=&quot]because YOU are a Mu'min and a Mumin does not utter filthy words or cuss at anyone.[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]3. Equally important is to stay away from people who speak such bad language. Because themore you hear it, the more desensitized one becomes to its evil, until a time comes when its not bad anymore.[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]In the end:[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Bad words show disrespect to those being spoken to and a total lack of self-respect.[/FONT][FONT=&quot]The one who stays away from filthy language[/FONT][FONT=&quot] is not being  a prude or old-fashioned; rather he /she is a Mu'min and a follower of  the one with the best manners ever...that is, the Prophet (Sal Allaahu  Alaiyhi wa Sallam). Use of such evil words is disrespectful, plain and  simple. It is not to be tolerated nor is it an acceptable behavior in  Islam.[/FONT][FONT=&quot][/FONT] [FONT=&quot]"Truly  a man utters words to which he attaches no importance, and by them he  falls into the Fire of Jahannam, and truly a man utters words to which  he attaches no importance, and by them Allah raises him into the  Garden." (Bukhaari)[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Not a word does he (or she) utter but there is a watcher by him ready (to record it)’ (Surah Qaaf:18) [/FONT]</blockquote>

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