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Message: <blockquote data-quote="GTRZ" data-source="post: 2980998" data-attributes="member: 1">As i see you need something to impress the other party girl or boy. It may be money, it may be looks, fame, how you talk, how you move with others, how you manage things, how you make others feel, at least how much you beg and make other party sad about you and fall in love <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/lol.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":lol:" title="LOL    :lol:" data-shortname=":lol:" /> etc..  So to be loved you got to have something to make some impression on other persons heart. So money may be a factor to give impression like others.As i know 99.99% of the people love each other for gains they get from the other person. Normally people criticize gains like money, fame, sex. But they think like attraction for skills, attraction for looks, attraction to how someone make you feel, attraction for social behavior etc.. are pure love.But actually they are all gains you find in the other person.As examples lets say1. You are attracted for money/fame/sex from other person - GAIN2. You attracted for looks of other person  - GAIN3. You attracted to way he/she talk jokes or feel good when he/she is around - GAIN4. You attracted for his skills or how he manage things - GAIN5  You are attracted because he he/she loves you and you feel good - GAIN6. You attracted because he/she begs you for love and so sad without you. So you give love and make him/her happy. So you feel like you did nice thing and you are happy. Or you feel like you got rid of a problem and now peace of mind - Still GAIN <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/P.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":P" title=":P    :P" data-shortname=":P" />I can show tons of example but at the end of the day all of us loving other person for some GAIN! <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/D.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":D" title="Big grin    :D" data-shortname=":D" />But its okay <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/P.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":P" title=":P    :P" data-shortname=":P" /> What to do right... heheWhat matterz is how you react when you loose that attractive ingredient(s)..Like when that he/she loose money, looks, fame, sexual ability, skills, happiness, the way he/she makes you feel etc..Most of the time people break up due to this reason.Anyway there are some people who still keep going after loosing their attractive ingredients. So they are angels? or have some super natural feeling? <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/P.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":P" title=":P    :P" data-shortname=":P" />Nope they have just found new GAINs from the other party.As example1. He/she lost all the money but still he/she makes me feel good - GAIN2. He/she lost that ability but still can do this and that. - GAIN3. He/she lost everything but still i cant leave him/her because i can't make up my mind - GAIN4. He/She lost everything but cant leave because he/she loves me/I love them - GAINSo at the end of the day people are loving attracting each other for some reason they find in the other person. Which is a plus in other words a gain.That's totally normal and that's the way of it because we are all humans. <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/D.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":D" title="Big grin    :D" data-shortname=":D" />We will only change when we reach Nirvana. So until that nothing to mess around just love as you can without cheating <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/D.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":D" title="Big grin    :D" data-shortname=":D" /></blockquote>

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