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Message: <blockquote data-quote="cyberartz123" data-source="post: 23652080" data-attributes="member: 144100">Sex is a physically scarier act for most women than men. She is being completely vulnerable and allowing you to enter her body.There’s always a fear that she’s alone with someone who could potentially overpower her and go further than she desires. You want to relieve her of that fear through your words and actions.As you’re touching her body, say something that confirms you’ll respect her boundaries. Don’t dwell on it, just say it once with conviction.“Tell me if you want me to slow down or stop at any point.”“Let me know if you feel uncomfortable about anything.”“I promise I won’t do anything you don’t want me to do.”Whatever you do, never go against your word.Don’t get caught up in the moment and ignore a girl’s signals. If she says “stop”, “no”, or moves you off her at any time – ease off calmly. Never jerk away suddenly, look hurt, or pout. Keep calm, smile, and stay turned on. Reinforce the judgment-free environment.Never keep going, try convince her otherwise, or brush her off by saying, “it’s okay, just relax.” You will kill all the trust you’ve worked to build.If she’s rebuffing your advances, go back to what you were previously doing.  You can even take a few minutes to softly talk to her and get her to relax again.For example, if you took her shirt off but she didn’t want you to take her pants off, return to kissing or massaging her body.  Continue pleasing her and try to move forward again in a few minutes. She may just need a little more time before she’s ready to go.When you return to what she was hesitant about, ask her if it’s okay or gently try again. Look her in the eyes and say, “Can I take these off?”, “Are you comfortable with this?” or “Is this good?”Don’t be afraid to ask a girl for what she wants, either. “What would make you feel amazing right now?”If she rebuffs your advances again, I wouldn’t go further. That’s usually a clear indication she’s not comfortable yet. Continue doing what she is comfortable with. If during the current session she changes her mind, she can let you know.Sex ALWAYS has to be consensual.And if it doesn’t happen that night, doing the above and respecting her boundaries will make her want to fuck you later. Guys worry too much about getting laid that very day. Enjoy the experience for how far it goes.When you do that, she’s almost guaranteed to be ready next time. You’re still building immense amounts of attraction. You’re not going to end up in the friend zone.Remember, you can’t make a girl want to have sex with you. She has to come to that conclusion on her own.Techniques like guilt tripping or “freeze outs” (where you ignore her until she feels so awkward/bad she sleeps with you) may work on occasion. But, you’re manipulating and pressuring her into having sex. That’s not the way to start a healthy sexual connection.If you treat her poorly, she often won’t want to see you again. Be the guy that provides a positive, supportive, and memorable experience. Not only will she want to continue hooking up, she’ll want to further explore her sexuality with you.That only leads to deeper, dirtier, and more satisfying sex.Want my personal 1-on-1 help to implement what you’ve just learned? I work with guys just like you to magnetically attract women, increase their confidence, and become the man girls really want.</blockquote>

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