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<blockquote data-quote="dinu_rashi" data-source="post: 3295769" data-attributes="member: 104833">How to Break Up Peacefully
&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; If you're ready to end a relationship, consider how you can break up without conflict.&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step1 Acknowledge that the relationship is really over. Come to terms with your own feelings and make a firm decision to end the relationship. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step2 Don't delay the inevitable. Once you decide to break up with your partner, immediately think about how, when and where you will take action. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step3 Make sure you're the one who personally delivers the news. Don't give a third party the opportunity to tell your partner that you want to break up before you have the chance to discuss the matter alone. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step4&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Select a private place to meet with your partner to end the relationship.&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step5 Find or schedule an appropriate time. Approach the topic when both of you are calm and rational. Don't announce your intention to break up during a heated argument or a moment of anger. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step6 Show your resolve by being firm, decisive and honest. Help your partner understand why you want to end the relationship. Be tactful, not brutal. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step7 Remind your partner that you'll never forget the positive qualities in your relationship, but emphasize that you're ready to move on with your life. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step8 Give your partner the closure that he or she needs to accept the breakup; answer questions and talk it over instead of leaving loose ends. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Step9&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; Stay positive as you both make plans to go your separate ways.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="dinu_rashi, post: 3295769, member: 104833"] [CENTER][B][COLOR=RoyalBlue][U][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3]How to Break Up Peacefully[/SIZE][/FONT][/U][/COLOR][/B] [/CENTER] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]If you're ready to end a relationship, consider how you can break up without conflict.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step1[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Acknowledge that the relationship is really over. Come to terms with your own feelings and make a firm decision to end the relationship. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step2[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Don't delay the inevitable. Once you decide to break up with your partner, immediately think about how, when and where you will take action. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step3[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Make sure you're the one who personally delivers the news. Don't give a third party the opportunity to tell your partner that you want to break up before you have the chance to discuss the matter alone. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step4[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Select a private place to meet with your partner to end the relationship. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step5[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Find or schedule an appropriate time. Approach the topic when both of you are calm and rational. Don't announce your intention to break up during a heated argument or a moment of anger. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step6[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Show your resolve by being firm, decisive and honest. Help your partner understand why you want to end the relationship. Be tactful, not brutal. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step7[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Remind your partner that you'll never forget the positive qualities in your relationship, but emphasize that you're ready to move on with your life. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step8[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Give your partner the closure that he or she needs to accept the breakup; answer questions and talk it over instead of leaving loose ends. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR] [FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue]Step9[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][COLOR=RoyalBlue] [/COLOR][FONT=Trebuchet MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=RoyalBlue] Stay positive as you both make plans to go your separate ways. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]

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