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<blockquote data-quote="neroshan" data-source="post: 145940" data-attributes="member: 8568"><p><strong><span style="font-size: 22px"><span style="color: Blue"></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 22px"><span style="color: Blue">How to love Yourself...</span></span></strong></p><p></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>1. Stop all criticism:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Criticism never changes a thing.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>approve of yourself, your changes are positive.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>2. Don't scare yourself:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>It's a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>(mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>pleasure thought.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>3. Be gentle and kind and patient:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>yourself. Be patient</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>would someone you</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>really loved.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>4. Be kind to your mind:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Don't hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change the thoughts.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>5. Praise yourself:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Criticism breaks the inner spirit. Praise builds it</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>doing with every little thing.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>6. Support yourself:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>friends, and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>when you need it.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>7. Be loving to your negatives:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Acknowledge that you created them to</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>needs. So. lovingly release the old negative patterns.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>8. Take care of your body:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>live in.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>9. Mirror work:</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Look into your own eyes often. Express this growing</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them, too.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>At least once a day, say: "I love you, I really love you!"</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>10. LOVE YOURSELF - DO IT NOW!</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>Don't wait until you get well or lose the</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin NOW - do</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Blue"><strong>the best you can</strong></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="neroshan, post: 145940, member: 8568"] [B][SIZE="6"][COLOR="Blue"] How to love Yourself...[/COLOR][/SIZE][/B] [COLOR="Blue"][B] 1. Stop all criticism: Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive. 2. Don't scare yourself: Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It's a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought. 3. Be gentle and kind and patient: Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved. 4. Be kind to your mind: Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don't hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change the thoughts. 5. Praise yourself: Criticism breaks the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing. 6. Support yourself: Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends, and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it. 7. Be loving to your negatives: Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So. lovingly release the old negative patterns. 8. Take care of your body: Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in. 9. Mirror work: Look into your own eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them, too. At least once a day, say: "I love you, I really love you!" 10. LOVE YOURSELF - DO IT NOW! Don't wait until you get well or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin NOW - do the best you can[/B][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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