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Message: <blockquote data-quote="aruntantan" data-source="post: 7555824" data-attributes="member: 46368"><img src="http://i232.photobucket.com/albums/ee8/fropki/Rahul/2010/apr/19/Negative/5-fear.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />5.  I’m going to beat so-and-so no matter what — I’m better than him. And  there’s no way I’ll help him succeed — he might beat me.Problem: Competitiveness assumes that there is a small amount of  gold to be had, and I need to get it before he does. It makes us into  greedy, back-stabbing, hurtful people. We try to claw our way over  people to get to success, because of our competitive feelings. For  example, if a blogger wants to have more subscribers than another  blogger, he may never link to or mention that other blogger. However,  who is to say that my subscribers can’t also be yours? People can read  and subscribe to more than one blog.Solution: Learn  to see success as something that can be shared, and learn that if we  help each other out, we can each have a better chance to be successful.  Two people working towards a common goal are better than two people  trying to beat each other up to get to that goal. There is more than  enough success to go around. Learn to think in terms of abundance rather  than scarcity.</blockquote>

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