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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Tom Riddle" data-source="post: 7011313" data-attributes="member: 47610">Malli,I hope you'll have the patience to read through this post.                  At your age, you tend to blow everything out of proportion. You don't have enough perspective to handle the situation.                  Being an only child, I too had over-protective parents. I won't lie to you, I didn't like not being able to be in the 'in-crowd' either. But not going out with your classmates or not going to parties isn't such a big deal. It doesn't need to stop you from making friends. I never went on class trips but that didn't stop me. And me with far more things going against me in making friends.                   As for not having a GF malli, if you said that was a problem to most people they probably would laugh their ass off. For heaven's sake, you are still 16!! Still plenty of time, plenty of good fish in the sea.                   Get off the Internet. Start socializing with people. Talk to your classmates, join in the fun things, games they do etc. It's not as hard as you might think. Your parents aren't there to monitor what you get up to at school. You are too valuable a person to be wasting your time in front of a screen. You are highly talented and an asset to our country, though for some reason you don't realize it.     Talk to your parents. They are doing this to protect you. They love you so much that they are terrified that something might happen to you.  You have to show them that rather than protecting you what they are doing is ruining your life. If they don't listen to you, try to get a family friend or relative to point it out to them. Don't argue, it will only make matters worse and confirm their wrong belief that you need to be protected in an extreme manner.                   There are so many good things in life. You may feel you have seen it all at 16. Suicide is for weak people who have no potential to realize. You are stronger than that. Believe in yourself.You can see how few posts I have made in almost 3 years at EK. I took the time to write this as I understand how you are feeling and I do care about what you do. </blockquote>

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