Reply to thread

Message: <blockquote data-quote="I love Srilanka" data-source="post: 7419056" data-attributes="member: 244944">Ancient,Happy to meet u on another Topic but I will be in and out for sometime in the future as i have an exam, anyway I would like to give reply to your postIslam gives equal rights to the man and woman. Qur’an clearly mentions that men and women, husband and wife have equal rights in all aspects, except leadership in the family.  It is mentioned in the Qur’an in Surah Baqarah Ch.2, Verse No.228. It says that, ‘...the women  have been given rights similar against them (men) on equitable terms but the men have a degree higher...’.Most of the Muslims have misunderstood this verse, when it says ‘a men have a degree higher’ - As I said we should analyze the Qur’an as a whole. And its  mentioned in Surah Nisa, Ch. 4, Verse No.34 which says, ‘The men are the protectors and maintainers of the women, for God has given one of them more strength than the other and they give them their means’.People say the word ‘Kawwam’ means, ‘one degree higher in superiority’ - But actually the word ‘Kawwam’ comes from the root word ‘Ikamah’. ‘Ikamah’ means for example  ‘when you give the Ikamah before prayers - You stand up’.  So ‘Ikamah’ means to standup - so the word ‘Kawwam’ means one degree higher in responsibility, not one degree higher in superiority. Even if you read the commentary of ‘Ibne-Kathir’ - He says that the word ‘Kawwam’ means one degree higher in responsibility, not one degree higher in superiority.And this responsibility, should be carried out by mutual consent of both husband and wife.It is  mentioned in Surah Baqarah, Ch.2, Verse No.187, which says, Which means… ‘Your wives are your garments, and you are their garments’.What’s the objective of garments - It is  used to conceal and to beautify.The husband and wife, should conceal each others faults, and  they should beautify each other - Its a relationship of hands and gloves.The Qur’an mentions that, ‘even if you do not like your wife, you should treat her kindly’.It is  mentioned in Surah Nisa, Ch.4, Verse No.19, that, ‘...consort with them (your wives) in kindness, for if you hate them it may happen that you hate a thing wherein God has placed much good.</blockquote>

Verification: Awruddata maasa keeyada?

Top Bottom