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<blockquote data-quote="smother" data-source="post: 4094912" data-attributes="member: 166532"><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>1.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Put an end to all criticism ——</strong></strong> it never achieves or changes anything. Acceptance of yourself is key, when you approve of yourself, positive changes will come in to your life.</span></span></span></span></span> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>2.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Stop thinking scary thoughts ——</strong></strong> If you find yourself doing that, change it to a mental image that brings you pleasure. Maybe thinking of your dog, a flower, food whatever brings you peace.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>3.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Be gentle , kind and patient ——</strong></strong> Treat yourself as you would your best friend, in fact be your best friend! Be gentle with yourself, be kind to yourself, and be patient with yourself as you learn to change your thinking.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>4.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Be kind to your mind ——</strong></strong> Gently change your thoughts, let go of the self hatred you are expressing with your thoughts. Don't judge or hate yourself for having those thoughts, quietly and gently change them.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>5.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Praise yourself ——</strong></strong></span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'">Pat yourself on the back, criticism can only break your inner spirit. Praise will build it up, so praise yourself as much as you can.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>6.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Be supportive ——</strong></strong> You support friends in need, do the same for yourself. If you need help ask for it, that is a sign of true strength. Allowing others to help you is self nurturing.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>7.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Love the negatives in your life ——</strong></strong> Own it, acknowledge that you bought them into your life to fulfill a need. Thank them for the lessons they have bought, lovingly release them, and make room for the positive ones you are creating today.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>8.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Love and take care of your body ——</strong></strong> Ensure that you look after your body, as well as you look after your car! So many of us would not miss the cars service, or think of putting the wrong fuel or oil into the engine, but don't give a second thought to what we fuel our bodies with. Cherish your body, and it will serve you well.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>9.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Look into the mirror ——</strong></strong> Really look into your eyes often, and express the love you feel for yourself, say it out loud. I love you, I really love you!</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 18px"></span></span><strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><strong>10.</strong></span></span></span></span></span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"> <strong><strong>Do it now</strong></strong> <strong><strong>—— </strong></strong>Don't wait until the 'right' time to start loving yourself. The right time is now, not when you lose ten pounds, get a new job, or find a new partner. The time to start is now, all you need to do is the best you can.</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p><p> </p><p> <p style="text-align: center"><p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'">I wonder how many ' I can't do that's ran through your head when reading this article? My reply to that is, if you think you can't, then you are right. Alternatively , if you think you can, then you are also right. They are thoughts, and thoughts can be changed. If your thoughts have not given you the life you want, then I lovingly suggest that you start loving yourself now.</span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: center"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 18px"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="color: #003300"><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'">" Never postpone joy! Enjoy each second, so every moment becomes, the golden moment of your life!"</span></span></span></span></span></p> </p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="smother, post: 4094912, member: 166532"] [B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]1.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Put an end to all criticism ——[/B][/B] it never achieves or changes anything. Acceptance of yourself is key, when you approve of yourself, positive changes will come in to your life.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]2.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Stop thinking scary thoughts ——[/B][/B] If you find yourself doing that, change it to a mental image that brings you pleasure. Maybe thinking of your dog, a flower, food whatever brings you peace.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]3.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Be gentle , kind and patient ——[/B][/B] Treat yourself as you would your best friend, in fact be your best friend! Be gentle with yourself, be kind to yourself, and be patient with yourself as you learn to change your thinking.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]4.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Be kind to your mind ——[/B][/B] Gently change your thoughts, let go of the self hatred you are expressing with your thoughts. Don't judge or hate yourself for having those thoughts, quietly and gently change them.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]5.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Praise yourself ——[/B][/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond]Pat yourself on the back, criticism can only break your inner spirit. Praise will build it up, so praise yourself as much as you can.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]6.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Be supportive ——[/B][/B] You support friends in need, do the same for yourself. If you need help ask for it, that is a sign of true strength. Allowing others to help you is self nurturing.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]7.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Love the negatives in your life ——[/B][/B] Own it, acknowledge that you bought them into your life to fulfill a need. Thank them for the lessons they have bought, lovingly release them, and make room for the positive ones you are creating today.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]8.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Love and take care of your body ——[/B][/B] Ensure that you look after your body, as well as you look after your car! So many of us would not miss the cars service, or think of putting the wrong fuel or oil into the engine, but don't give a second thought to what we fuel our bodies with. Cherish your body, and it will serve you well.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]9.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Look into the mirror ——[/B][/B] Really look into your eyes often, and express the love you feel for yourself, say it out loud. I love you, I really love you![/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=5] [/SIZE][/FONT][B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond][B]10.[/B][/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond] [B][B]Do it now[/B][/B] [B][B]—— [/B][/B]Don't wait until the 'right' time to start loving yourself. The right time is now, not when you lose ten pounds, get a new job, or find a new partner. The time to start is now, all you need to do is the best you can.[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [CENTER][CENTER][FONT=Garamond][SIZE=5][COLOR=#003300][COLOR=#003300][FONT=Garamond]I wonder how many ' I can't do that's ran through your head when reading this article? My reply to that is, if you think you can't, then you are right. Alternatively , if you think you can, then you are also right. They are thoughts, and thoughts can be changed. If your thoughts have not given you the life you want, then I lovingly suggest that you start loving yourself now. " Never postpone joy! Enjoy each second, so every moment becomes, the golden moment of your life!"[/FONT][/COLOR][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER] [/CENTER] [/QUOTE]
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