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Message: <blockquote data-quote="firoz85" data-source="post: 7652936" data-attributes="member: 22060">Are you speaking here about all teen pregnancies? Such a generalisation cannot me made.You can never say that ALL TEENS who get married young will have complication ! Secondly if you compare women of the same age they(women of today) are not as strong physically , nor are they as exposed to harsh conditions of life as women of yesteryears were !WRONG by whose standards ? You cannot so conclusively say it is 'SO WRONG' and speak on her behalf. If you are to say so then you must have a complete know how into her psyche which no one has !And why is it that your speaking on her behalf ! She never complained or went against the marriage as it was in her right to do so ! It seems that you have a bigger problem with it that she ever did (given she had any)Well this relates to the above the quoted para. You are bound to give me answers from budhist perspective because I take it that you are a budhist and if so , that is your yardstick to determine whats right and wrong ! Given that , that is the case then if you yourself say that budhism is imperfect then you cannot use imperfect tools or a standard that you deem imperfect to judge right or wrong ! Secondly when you say 'compatible' , its is very vague ! Is compatible defined in budhism itself ? 2 years ? 4 years ? 7 ? 11 ?  Again compatible is subjective here and not clearly defined. Thirdly , how is it that such an allowance to get married is permissable in the first place !? I thought the ultimate purpose of life is to vanish into nothingness and to do that you should have completely no desires ! Isnt that why Budha left his kid and wife ? If so then you are really not supposed to get married ......but if you choose to (going against the purpose of life in the process) you are given a vague guideline !<img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/baffled.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":baffled:" title="Baffled    :baffled:" data-shortname=":baffled:" /></blockquote>

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