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Message: <blockquote data-quote="sirajstc" data-source="post: 11951920" data-attributes="member: 91140">A Pedophile"Accusation No.2 "A Pedophile"Ali  Sina's problem here isn't with the Holy Prophet (S), but infact it is  with Aisha (R). The reasons why this accusation is itself lame is  because:   1)      Back  then, it was perfectly normal for a girl at young age to marry. We know  this because before Aisha was married to the Holy Prophet (S), she was  engaged to someone else 2)      Who  are we to tell Aisha now what is right for her and what is wrong for  her? Aisha (R) remained all her life married to the Holy Prophet (S),  and even when she was given the chance to divorce the Holy Prophet (S),  she did not divorce him! A case like this shows that both of them loved  each other 3)      Noone  objected to Aisha's marriage with the Holy Prophet (S), infact everyone  was happy! It seems the only person who has a problem, is Ali Sina and  his crowd. 4)      It  was Aisha's parents who approved of this marriage. They deemed it good  to marry their daughter to the Holy Prophet (S), and indeed they did a  great thing, as Aisha grew up to be a great scholar of Islam!  5)      When one looks up the definition of a "pedophile", you will find that pedophiles have: ""Low  self esteem. Many pedophiles, although by no means all, do not have a  great sense of capacity for adopting a sexual demeanor towards adults or  those of their own age or older. They feel unhappy and fearful at the prospect of sexual behaviour with adults  and hence turn to children due to the fact that they are unable to have  the strength of personality to seek adults for sexual demeanor. When  considering treatment therefore it is important to establish and develop  a higher sense of self-esteem in such individuals." (<a href="http://www.answering-christianity.com/aisha.htm" target="_blank">Source</a>).  Obviously that is not the case with the Holy Prophet (S), as his other  wives were older then Aisha, two of his wives were older then him,  specifically Sauda (R) and Khadijah (R).  6)      If  the Holy Prophet (S) was a pedophile (Astaghfirullah), then one must  ask why didn't he consummate his marriage with Aisha right there and  then when Aisha (R) was six years old? Infact, this source says: "Lack  of impulse control. Many pedophiles find it extremely difficult to deal  with the impulsive nature which inclines them towards sexual behaviour  to children. They simply cannot control their need for engaging children in sexual practices.  They might be said to suffer from an obsessive-compulsive condition.  Here again treatment would involve developing better impulse control and  of course redirecting the sexual inclinations." (Source, same as  above). Thus, if the Holy Prophet (S) was a "pedophile", according to  the definition of a pedophile, he would have no control over his sexual  desire. On the contrary, the Holy Prophet (S) waited 3 years after the  marriage contract to consummate his marriage with Aisha. 7)      Can  we honestly say Aisha (R) would've remained with the Holy Prophet (S)  after she was allegedly "molested"? We must remember that Aisha (R) was  very wise, and a great orator and she was quick to comment when she saw  something wrong. If she was in any way, shape or form "molested" by the  Holy Prophet (S), then she would've never remained married to him! 8)      The  women who spoke to Aisha (R) when she was marrying the Holy Prophet (S)  were happy for Aisha. When she married the Holy Prophet (S), they  praised her, they didn't cry for her, or pity her for marrying a person  who is, allegedly, as Ali Sina claims a "pedophile" (Astaghfirullah!). 9)      Even  the Non-Muslims who were quick to yell and shout when they saw  something they didn't like in Islam didn't think anything was wrong with  this marriage. After all, how can they say this marriage was wrong,  when in the Arab culture it is normal for a girl at a young age to  marry? 10)   Do  we honestly think if Aisha (R) were alive today, she would support  people like Ali Sina, who claim she was molested, and that her husband  was a "pedophile"??    Lastly, we end this section with some quotes from Aisha (R):   Sahih Al-Bukhari   Volume 1, Book 6, Number 299:  Narrated 'Abdur-Rahman bin Al-Aswad:  (on the  authority of his father) 'Aisha said: "Whenever Allah's Apostle wanted  to fondle anyone of us during her periods (menses), he used to order her  to put on an Izar and start fondling her." 'Aisha added, "None of you could control his sexual desires as the Prophet could."  Sahih Muslim     Book 006, Number 2439:  'A'isha  (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be  upon him) used to kiss (his wives) while fasting and embraced (them)  while fasting; but he had the greatest mastery over his desire among you. Thus,  according to the words of our Mother Aisha (R), the Holy Prophet (S)  had the greatest control over his desire amongst the people. Thus, Aisha  (R) herself has refuted the Christian missionaries, and anti-Islamic  haters like Ali Sina with these quotes of hers!</blockquote>

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