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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Ms.Cherry Blossom" data-source="post: 7456910" data-attributes="member: 283623">                 Why Not to Marry Rich<img src="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/files/images/1005-hes-not-rich.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />  Exotic vacations, fancy  dinners, little boxes containing sparkly things...sure, dating a  successful man has its perks. But if we've gleaned anything from  watching Carrie and Big's roller coaster romance, it's that dating a  rich dude comes with its share of headaches and heartaches. And the fact  is, there are fewer rich guys to go around these days. That's because  more women than men are graduating from college, so they're increasingly  marrying guys with less education and income than they have themselves,  according to a new report released by the Pew Research Center. Plus,  fewer women than men have suffered job losses in the recession. But there's no reason to lament: "Guys with less cash can actually  make women happier, because money and status often breed disloyalty and  other negative traits in men," says Adam Galinsky, Ph.D., a professor of  management and organizations at Chicago's Northwestern University.  Here's why you should give a guy with meager means a chance:                 He's More Likely to Be Faithful<img src="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/files/images/1005-hes-not-rich.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />  When Tiger Woods apologized,  he implied that he felt entitled by his success to have affairs. He's  not alone. Not only does research show that lower-income guys are less  likely to stray, but scientists also found that wealthy men are  hypocrites about cheating. "People in higher positions are more likely  to cheat, yet they condemn others who do it because having money and  power evokes entitled feelings," says study author Galinsky.                  He'll Charm Your Friends<img src="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/files/images/1005-hes-not-rich.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />   Low-and middle-income men are more polite than wealthy guys when they  meet new people, reports the journal Psychological Science.  When study authors watched rich and poor guys get acquainted with  strangers, the less well-off men talked and laughed more and made more  eye contact than the rich, who exhibited rude behavior such as  fidgeting, doodling...even fixing their hair! "Men with less money try  harder socially because making connections is a survival skill—and rich  men may subconsciously believe they don't need it," says Dacher Keltner,  Ph.D., author of Born to Be Good.                  He'll Champion Your Ambitions<img src="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/files/images/1005-hes-not-rich.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />   Research published in the Journal of Applied Psychology says  that successful men can be more sexist than their lesser-paid  counterparts. This is likely because they're usually alpha males who  feel it's a "man's duty" to provide, says Beth Livingston, Ph.D., an  assistant professor of human resources at Cornell University.  Conversely, poorer men are often more supportive of their partners'  careers. "Couples who encourage each other to fulfill their professional  dreams tend to be happier," says Joshua Coleman, Ph.D., author of Marriage  Makeover.                  Sex Will Sizzle<img src="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/files/images/1005-hes-not-rich.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />  A guy with lighter pockets will try to wow you in bed, says Bethany  Marshall, Ph. D., author of Deal Breakers. "A man will use all  of his resources to win a woman's heart so she won't leave. And if he  can't afford fancy dates, he'll often aim to excel in the bedroom."  Shiny baubles for toe-curling sack sessions? We'd call that a fair  trade!</blockquote>

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