This might be a weird story

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Weird_Stranger

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    Hi All,

    What I'm gonna tell you might be a very strange story to you. If you have ever come across someone like me, then you may understand this a bit. Anyway, this is something which has been a big impact on my whole life (for good & a lot bad), up to this moment. I will get to it without wasting your time. I can't eat rice. That's the thing. I mean, it's like an allergy/intolerance. You might know that some people are allergic/intolerable to certain things, consuming which might cause them to suffer in some ways. For instance, Peanuts, Tomatoes, Sea Foods, Milk, etc. The effects can be vary from skin issues, swelling, respiratory issues, vomiting or even life-threatening conditions. The reaction I'd have if I try to eat rice is vomiting. I've been suffering from this condition since I was very little. My parent have tried a lot to make me eat. But, none of those efforts have been fruitful. When I was growing up, I myself have tried a several times. But, it's hard. Simply, I don't even like to touch it.

    As Sri Lankans, I don't want to tell you how eating rice is rooted in such countries like ours. It's deeply connected with our culture & everything. Try to imagine the hard times & embarrassments I've been facing my whole life. It's very difficult to make others understand about personal stuff. & when it comes to something uncommon like this, it just get more difficult. Sometimes, when people learn about my conditions, they do jokes. Most of the time, I think that they don't do that intentionally to hurt me. I get that. But, that does not mean that it does not hurt me. I've lost a lot of things & chances because of this. You may say that you have to face the situation instead of escaping. That's what I've been trying very hard. But, when you live with others, when you interact with others with such a condition, it not that easy. I've been at home for years without doing a job. All those years, I was scared & depressed about surviving among others @ a work place. Anyway, last year, I thought through this & decided to get a job. Thanks to one of my best friends, who's been very kind & understand my situation, I got a job @ his office. Since the end of the last year, I've been working there. Now, I'm happy that I decided to start to work last year. But, that's not an end to my issues. I knew that I'm gonna go though some hard times when I work. & I've been experiencing that. Everyone @ the office, who has learnt about my condition are dear to me. Sometime, some of them have done jokes. But, I try not get upset about. But, it's hard not to notice how it hurts me from inside.

    Recently, my friend & I talked about some personal stuff of both his & mine. & we mostly talked about my condition. He insisted me to do a research about such conditions people suffer from on the web & to meet a specialist. He said, "just meet some good specialist & give it a try. It may give you a solution or not. You make your mind & do whatever you wanted do after that.". This idea is not something that I haven't thought about before. Anyway, after that discussion I had with him, I've been thinking about his suggestions. So, here I am, telling you my story. I want to know what you think about this story. And, if I meet a specialist, about which area in he/she should be specialized about?. Do you know anyone good who might be able to help me, or at least give me an explanation?.

    Any comments on this case are highly appreciated. You may criticize me. I won't mind. But please, don't do jokes.

    Thanks in advance
     

    MeGusta

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    Well if I was you I would simply not eat rice.It's my stomach not others.And I will channel some doctors to check whether this is curable.

    If not

    In other hand you should learn some life lessons.Most importantly to respect yourself first and to ignore people who don't respect you.Next time when someone asks why you can't eat just say "I can't I have this condition" with a don't care face. If someone make a joke simply don't even look at his/her face or stay like you didn't hear,stay like you don't care about anything.After 2-3 times the person will learn how to stay with you.

    Most of the time srilankans are ass lickers.When you respect yourself they will come licking you.If you turn to be a joke they will push you even down,So learn to respect yourself more on top of this medical condition.
     

    ncpasan

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    Well if I was you I would simply not eat rice.It's my stomach not others.And I will channel some doctors to check whether this is curable.

    If not

    In other hand you should learn some life lessons.Most importantly to respect yourself first and to ignore people who don't respect you.Next time when someone asks why you can't eat just say "I can't I have this condition" with a don't care face. If someone make a joke simply don't even look at his/her face or stay like you didn't hear,stay like you don't care about anything.After 2-3 times the person will learn how to stay with you.

    Most of the time srilankans are ass lickers.When you respect yourself they will come licking you.If you turn to be a joke they will push you even down,So learn to respect yourself more on top of this medical condition.
    :yes: :yes:
     

    Weird_Stranger

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  • Jul 27, 2014
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    Yes, I agree with you. :yes:

    I have learned my lessons. When I was a kid, sometimes elders & the others would laugh @ me, like they haven't realized this situation. Then, I'd also give them a smile, jst because, I thought it would be rude if I didn't give them a pleasant expression. But, with the time, when I was a teen & then now, If someone didn't know about my condition, I 'd try to explain it to that person. Later, If the same person try to talk about that thing or asked me about it, I'd simply reply that "Let's not talk about that. I don't like to.". Because, even after I've explained you my situation, & then if you ask me about it again or try to do jokes, that means you haven't been listening to me much. So, why should I talk with you about it anymore??. Except a very few of the closest friends, now I don't give that privilege to most of the rest to talk with me about my personal stuff. Because, I don't want to mess with the others. & neither I want others to hurt me (with or without any intention). Not like the first days when they learnt about this condition, now my colleagues or anyone @ the office who learnt about this condition don't come to talk with me about this. Because, I've made them so. :D

    Thanks mate :)

    Well if I was you I would simply not eat rice.It's my stomach not others.And I will channel some doctors to check whether this is curable.

    If not

    In other hand you should learn some life lessons.Most importantly to respect yourself first and to ignore people who don't respect you.Next time when someone asks why you can't eat just say "I can't I have this condition" with a don't care face. If someone make a joke simply don't even look at his/her face or stay like you didn't hear,stay like you don't care about anything.After 2-3 times the person will learn how to stay with you.

    Most of the time srilankans are ass lickers.When you respect yourself they will come licking you.If you turn to be a joke they will push you even down,So learn to respect yourself more on top of this medical condition.
     

    MeGusta

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    Yes, I agree with you. :yes:

    I have learned my lessons. When I was a kid, sometimes elders & the others would laugh @ me, like they haven't realized this situation. Then, I'd also give them a smile, jst because, I thought it would be rude if I didn't give them a pleasant expression. But, with the time, when I was a teen & then now, If someone didn't know about my condition, I 'd try to explain it to that person. Later, If the same person try to talk about that thing or asked me about it, I'd simply reply that "Let's not talk about that. I don't like to.". Because, even after I've explained you my situation, & then if you ask me about it again or try to do jokes, that means you haven't been listening to me much. So, why should I talk with you about it anymore??. Except a very few of the closest friends, now I don't give that privilege to most of the rest to talk with me about my personal stuff. Because, I don't want to mess with the others. & neither I want others to hurt me (with or without any intention). Not like the first days when they learnt about this condition, now my colleagues or anyone @ the office who learnt about this condition don't come to talk with me about this. Because, I've made them so. :D

    Thanks mate :)

    That's good.What you have to understand is people around us are all insecure of themselves and curious(specially sri lankan people).Some like to turn people down just to make them feel better about themselves.When you reply like "Don't ask me about that from me I don't like it"people will continue to ask because they know asking about it will make you down.
    What you have to do is treat your condition like you don't care about it and others don't want to worry about it.Next time say "I have this condition sorry bro/siz I cant eat"
    plz don't worry about how you appear to others.It might be pleasant or not simply don't care.You can't please all the people in the world.It's like not all the people like the same pizza.
    If you reply like this condition is a weakness of yours people will sense that and will treat you the same way.


    You think about lot how others will feel when you reply,which is a good heart of yours.But not all the people are same.You'll meet more douche people in future.You don't have to create a mess.But once you appear to be in control of yourself others will sense that and will not come to mess with you.
     

    navinnuwan

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    Well if I was you I would simply not eat rice.It's my stomach not others.And I will channel some doctors to check whether this is curable.

    If not

    In other hand you should learn some life lessons.Most importantly to respect yourself first and to ignore people who don't respect you.Next time when someone asks why you can't eat just say "I can't I have this condition" with a don't care face. If someone make a joke simply don't even look at his/her face or stay like you didn't hear,stay like you don't care about anything.After 2-3 times the person will learn how to stay with you.

    Most of the time srilankans are ass lickers.When you respect yourself they will come licking you.If you turn to be a joke they will push you even down,So learn to respect yourself more on top of this medical condition.
    simply not eat rice :yes:
     

    Weird_Stranger

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    Dont give a fuck what the others say..
    The whole life is about not giving fucks and not getting fucked over man..

    That's good.What you have to understand is people around us are all insecure of themselves and curious(specially sri lankan people).Some like to turn people down just to make them feel better about themselves.When you reply like "Don't ask me about that from me I don't like it"people will continue to ask because they know asking about it will make you down.
    What you have to do is treat your condition like you don't care about it and others don't want to worry about it.Next time say "I have this condition sorry bro/siz I cant eat"
    plz don't worry about how you appear to others.It might be pleasant or not simply don't care.You can't please all the people in the world.It's like not all the people like the same pizza.
    If you reply like this condition is a weakness of yours people will sense that and will treat you the same way.


    You think about lot how others will feel when you reply,which is a good heart of yours.But not all the people are same.You'll meet more douche people in future.You don't have to create a mess.But once you appear to be in control of yourself others will sense that and will not come to mess with you.

    Yeah.. I guess the words I used in that reply might not be the best ones to express what I wanted to tell. Anyway, I wanted to say a similar thing. I now give the others an impression which gives them a sign not to mess with me using my personal & sensitive stuff. So far, it has worked fine. People may forget & start to talk with me about it once or twice. But after that, they don't come to talk with me or do jokes. Because, now my reaction is not to care as much as possible.

    & you guys are right.
    Give a fuck. People will say, "You're way too serious". Don't give a fuck. & they will say, "You're stubborn & arrogant". Can't please everyone. & it's impossible to please the same people in two different ways at the same time. :D
     

    Tom Riddle

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    It's far easier said than done. But as most everyone has said in this thread the solution to your problem is to ignore any bags of shit who try to get you down.

    There is only one reason that people make fun of others - it is to feel good about themselves. Don't let them make you feel that you need to loosen up and be able to take a joke. This is only true if they are laughing with you. If they are laughing at you, and don't stop even when it is obvious that you are not enjoying their silliness, they are being cruel and that's their problem.

    When you are having a bad day, just think of this quote

    "What others think of me is none of my business".​
     

    Weird_Stranger

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    Thank you for the comment. :yes:

    It's far easier said than done. But as most everyone has said in this thread the solution to your problem is to ignore any bags of shit who try to get you down.

    There is only one reason that people make fun of others - it is to feel good about themselves. Don't let them make you feel that you need to loosen up and be able to take a joke. This is only true if they are laughing with you. If they are laughing at you, and don't stop even when it is obvious that you are not enjoying their silliness, they are being cruel and that's their problem.

    When you are having a bad day, just think of this quote

    "What others think of me is none of my business".​
     

    ජොනී බට්ට

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    ආවොත් කපනවා!!!
    shit happens machan. people have weird allergies, once i saw an article about a girl who's allergic to water (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-520329/The-teenage-girl-allergic-WATER.html):baffled: i know a fellow who's allergic to plastic :confused: he can't simply pick up the pen and write, he has to wrap plasters around the pen :oo:. if he keep contact with plastic for few minutes, skin starts to itch :oo: there could be some sort of treatment for you. but otherwise stay strong and face it, rice isn't the only thing people eat:P
     

    Weird_Stranger

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    ජොනී බට්ට;16970567 said:
    shit happens machan. people have weird allergies, once i saw an article about a girl who's allergic to water (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-520329/The-teenage-girl-allergic-WATER.html):baffled: i know a fellow who's allergic to plastic :confused: he can't simply pick up the pen and write, he has to wrap plasters around the pen :oo:. if he keep contact with plastic for few minutes, skin starts to itch :oo: there could be some sort of treatment for you. but otherwise stay strong and face it, rice isn't the only thing people eat:P

    Yeah, I've read about people who're allergic to people. This world too much for us to comprehend. Thanks.