lamayi inna eka tamai hoda. aduma gaane ekkenek wat. lamayi nati unama menna me wage prashna enawa after 40 years of age. mewa lankawe minissunta witarak ena prashna nevei.
1. samajayen lamayi nati minissu ponZ la hewath "vanda" minissu lesa salakann tiyena ida godak ma wadi weema. uba hitanna puluwan anith minissu monawa kiwwath mata kamak na kiyala, eet ubata kawruhari kiwwot "ponnaya okata lamayek wat na kiyala" ube hita ridei after 40 years. ube wife ta "vanda" gaani kiwwot eet ube hita ridei.
2. ubata attatama lamayi hadanna puluwan da bari da kiyala ubata hitenna patan ganna puluwan. aniwaryenma wate inna ewun uba ponZ kiyala kiyanawa ma tamai, uba nati welawata hari.
3. lamayi innawa nam ubata podi hari hope ekak tiya ganna puluwan uba wayasata giyama lamayi ubawa balaganiy kiyala. lamayi nattam no hope at all.
4. Ubata lamayinge achievements dakala maara satutak labaganna puluwan. This is very important in 40s and 50s and 60s
5. ube yaluwange, nadayange lamayi loku wela, egollonge achievements dakkama ubata duka hitei. ubatat lamay hitiyanam kiyala hitei samaharawita.
6. mama wage nam mage business, properties denna kohomat mata lamayi one. nattam mama marunama ewa nikan winasha wela yanawa. itin ubatat properties, business tiyenawa nam lamayi inna eka kochchara hodada.
7. lamayi innakota ube family eka godak strong wenawa. Fatherhood kiyanne godak respectable achievement ekak, ubata eka nati wenawa lamayi nattam.
Lamayi hodata hadanna dana ganna one. ehema hari widiyata lamayi haduwot ubata kisima prashnayak wenne na. hari widiyata lamay hadanna danne nati demawpiyanta tamai prashna enne. awurudu 50, 60 unama lamayi inna eka maara gammak wenawa. hitala balapan.