Lankans Living in Australia

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    oh my nigga :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: from quora

    I spent about 5 1/2 years living in Melbourne. My first year at uni, I wanted to get a part-time job to help with expenses. I called in response to an ad in the uni paper- they were looking for someone to help sell their cleaning services. I'm British but from a Pakistani background- I suppose my accent is fairly neutral and hard to gauge over the phone. The lady asked me where I was from and I explained the above. Her next question was: "Oh, ok. Let me ask you something...are you particularly dark-skinned?".

    I did a double-take as you can imagine and kind of mumbled some response. She went on: "Sorry, I don't mean to be rude. It's just that the last chap we had was from Sri Lanka- lovely boy but really dark. He had a rough time. Some people that you'll meet around industrial parks aren't quite ready to mingle with people from your part of the world just as yet". Believe it or not, I was desperate enough for cash that I actually finished the rest of the phone interview and turned up for the in-person interview a couple of days later.

    I turned up and introduced myself. She said "Oh! You're not that dark at all! Come on in". Good start. She asked me a couple of standard interview questions and then asked me: "[My name], is that a Christian name?". I explained that no, I'm from a Muslim background. Her response "Oh, that's alright I suppose dear. You're not all terrorists are you."

    Here's the funny thing. She actually turned out to be a lovely lady- I wouldn't have stuck around if that wasn't the case. I could just see that this was a very normal part of life for her- to view non-whites as lesser beings. I took it as a personal challenge to change her view about these things. Believe it or not, over the course of the next year or so I did a lot of part-time work for her and even struck up a friendship.

    That's just one of many stories. Over the course of 5 years, it gradually broke me down to the point where I just didn't want to put up with it anymore and decided to move back to the UK. Here are some other examples:

    :lol::lol:
    1. At a golf club, a 50 year old man saw me putting on sunscreen and asked "Mate, why are you bothering? too late to save yourself from a tan". His mates got a good laugh out of that one.
    2. I was at a bar with my friends and started chatting with a beautiful, funny girl. One of those things where there's immediate chemistry. She just happened to be white. Her friends came over, interrupted us, pulled her away and I distinctly heard one of them say "God, what are you doing talking to that Curry guy?". ('Curry' is the word Aussies use to refer to people of Pakistani/Indian/Sri Lankan appearance).
    3. In my last year, my girlfriend at the time was in the UK. Long distance relationships are rough on any one- I mentioned that to my boss' wife when she asked about it at a party- she said "Well, I'm not surprised. Your girlfriend is living in a modern country now- maybe she's discovering that she gets to make her own choices now rather than being dictated to by her man- must be a big change for her coming from your culture".

    In Aus, there are two kinds of racism in my experience:
    1) In your face, 'bogan' racism. These are the flag waving, ridiculously small minded caricatures who rightly get ridiculed.
    2) The subtle, every day racism that is disguised as 'the Aussie sense of humour'. You're made to feel like the problem lies with YOU if you're not cool with racist humour.

    Sorry for the long post. This post is obviously fairly negative towards Australia (because of the nature of the question) so I should mention that for balance, I did meet some truly wonderful people in Australia and have many fond memories. That said, I feel like it's decades behind the UK (especially London) in terms of racial integration. I had a nice time there but I'm glad I don't live there anymore.

    :lol: :lol: :lol:
     

    Jack_Sparrow

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    Racism scene eka dan aussi wala nagala yanawane
    adama tamai danagatte apita kiyanne "curry guy" kiyala :ROFLMAO:

    Api kochchara wenas wenna haduwat suddanta apiwa dambayo bangaliyo pakistan okkoma ekai wage :p
    Oka danunu gaman ekai aussi giya ewunta eka parata lankawa matak wenne
    Eeta passe ehe idagena mehe deshapalanaya karanawa rata hadanawa :P
    Wenada match balanne nati ewun lankawe kodi ussan yanawa :D

    Mehe iddi kisi agayak naha
     

    Mr.Yo

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    Racism scene eka dan aussi wala nagala yanawane
    adama tamai danagatte apita kiyanne "curry guy" kiyala :ROFLMAO:

    Api kochchara wenas wenna haduwat suddanta apiwa dambayo bangaliyo pakistan okkoma ekai wage :p
    Oka danunu gaman ekai aussi giya ewunta eka parata lankawa matak wenne
    Eeta passe ehe idagena mehe deshapalanaya karanawa rata hadanawa :P
    Wenada match balanne nati ewun lankawe kodi ussan yanawa :D

    Mehe iddi kisi agayak naha
    Lankan/Indian/Pakis= Curry or Indian
    Middle east= Wogs
    Chinese look alike= Asians
    England accent= Poms
     

    nicjosh83

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    Racism scene eka dan aussi wala nagala yanawane
    adama tamai danagatte apita kiyanne "curry guy" kiyala :ROFLMAO:

    Api kochchara wenas wenna haduwat suddanta apiwa dambayo bangaliyo pakistan okkoma ekai wage :p
    Oka danunu gaman ekai aussi giya ewunta eka parata lankawa matak wenne
    Eeta passe ehe idagena mehe deshapalanaya karanawa rata hadanawa :P
    Wenada match balanne nati ewun lankawe kodi ussan yanawa :D

    Mehe iddi kisi agayak naha


    උඹට එදා smartm කියපු එක වැදුන නේ ? උඹ ඒ තරමට ඒ account එකට කැමති නැද්ද ?

    curry people කියන එක dan complement එකක් බන්.....:LOL::LOL::LOL:
     

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    Racism scene eka dan aussi wala nagala yanawane
    adama tamai danagatte apita kiyanne "curry guy" kiyala :ROFLMAO:

    Api kochchara wenas wenna haduwat suddanta apiwa dambayo bangaliyo pakistan okkoma ekai wage :p
    Oka danunu gaman ekai aussi giya ewunta eka parata lankawa matak wenne
    Eeta passe ehe idagena mehe deshapalanaya karanawa rata hadanawa :P
    Wenada match balanne nati ewun lankawe kodi ussan yanawa :D

    Mehe iddi kisi agayak naha
    ගොඩක් ඕකට බලපෑවේ ඉන්දියන් උන් නිසා. 90 ගනන් වගේ ලංකාවේ උන්ට පට්ට ප්ලේස් එකක් තිබ්බේ. කෙල්ලො එහෙම නතින් වැටෙනවා. දැන් ලංකාවෙ උන්ට කියන්නෙත් කරි කන්ට් කියලා.
     

    Jack_Sparrow

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    උඹට එදා smartm කියපු එක වැදුන නේ ? උඹ ඒ තරමට ඒ account එකට කැමති නැද්ද ?

    curry people කියන එක dan complement එකක් බන්.....:LOL::LOL::LOL:

    Sorry bro hurt una nam mama ubata nemei damme generally kiwwe
    Eth personally mama danna ewun inawa mehe epic failure wela hitapu anathayo amaruwen aussi panala poddak udata apu.
    Ehema ene eka hodai eth penannan bari me passe menna talks digena enawa politics ananmanan kiyogena
    Mama nam kiyanne lankawe epa wela wena ratakata giya nam e rata diyunu karannawat udaw karanna oni

    Politics kiyawagena enawanam taman kamati palakayo path unama ekko enna oni mehema ochcharama kade yana ewun hodai nam :P

    ගොඩක් ඕකට බලපෑවේ ඉන්දියන් උන් නිසා. 90 ගනන් වගේ ලංකාවේ උන්ට පට්ට ප්ලේස් එකක් තිබ්බේ. කෙල්ලො එහෙම නතින් වැටෙනවා. දැන් ලංකාවෙ උන්ට කියන්නෙත් කරි කන්ට් කියලා.

    80's 90's wala poddak decent ewun tikak lankawen yanna athi
    ewa balan indala passe passe chora ewun tikath yanna athi
    e ewun tika nisa aruntath case
    ohe citizenship hamba unath 1st class nemei scene ekak tiyanwada?

    Racist scene darunu wenna wenna lanakwe ewunta kela wenawa :-(
     

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    80's 90's wala poddak decent ewun tikak lankawen yanna athi
    ewa balan indala passe passe chora ewun tikath yanna athi
    e ewun tika nisa aruntath case
    ohe citizenship hamba unath 1st class nemei scene ekak tiyanwada?

    Racist scene darunu wenna wenna lanakwe ewunta kela wenawa :-(
    මොන ඩිසන්ට්ද :ROFLMAO: දැන් ඉන්නවා වගේ බයි කබරයො තමා එදත් ගියේ නමුත් ලංකාව තමා දකුණු ආසියාවෙන් මුලින්ම මාස් මයිග්රේෂන් වෙන්න ගත්තේ අනික ගිහිපු උන් හත්පොලේ ගාගත්තෙ නෑ දැන් උන් වගේ. ඕස්ට්‍රේලියන් කල්චර් එකට ඉන්න බැරි උන්ට උන් කැමති නැ. කැම්පින් යන ඔෆ්රෝඩ් යන ලයින් එකේ හිටියොත් ඕන තරඟ ඔසී උන් සෙට් වෙනවා. කෙල්ලෝ උනත් එහෙමයි. මගේ යාලුවෙක් හිටියා කුවින්ස්ලන්ඩ් වල දැන් අවුරුදු කිහිපයකට කලින් මිනිහ මලා ඇක්සිඩන්ට් එකක් වෙලා ඌත් එක්ක හිටපු ඔසී උන් තමා සල්ලි එකතු කරලා මිනිය ලංකාවට එව්වෙ. උන් මුට පන දෙන්න තරං. මිනිහ සර්ෆින් කරපු එකෙක්.
     

    nicjosh83

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    Sorry bro hurt una nam mama ubata nemei damme generally kiwwe
    Eth personally mama danna ewun inawa mehe epic failure wela hitapu anathayo amaruwen aussi panala poddak udata apu.
    Ehema ene eka hodai eth penannan bari me passe menna talks digena enawa politics ananmanan kiyogena
    Mama nam kiyanne lankawe epa wela wena ratakata giya nam e rata diyunu karannawat udaw karanna oni

    Politics kiyawagena enawanam taman kamati palakayo path unama ekko enna oni mehema ochcharama kade yana ewun hodai nam :P

    උඹ කියන එක වැරදි නිසානේ සජිය පරාද වෙලා UNP එකත් කැඩිලා තියෙන්නේ.....

    දැන් බලපන්....ස, ඇමරිකන් පුරවැසියෙක් ජනපති
    සුමන්තිරන් ද්විත්ව් පුරවැසියෙක් මන්ත්‍රී
    UNP හිටපු මන්ත්රෙයෙක් ස්වීඩන් ගියා ද්විත්ව පුරවැසි

    අපි වචනයක් කිව්වම උඹලගේ සමනල් හිත් වලට වේදනයි....ලොල්


    ඔය bogan උන් එක්ක සෙට් උන එවුන්ට ඔක්කොම පෙන්නේ කබරයෝ වගේ තමයි බන්....

    ඉන්න පැත්ත අනුව තමයි....:whistle:😁😁
     

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    උඹ කියන එක වැරදි නිසානේ සජිය පරාද වෙලා UNP එකත් කැඩිලා තියෙන්නේ.....

    දැන් බලපන්....ස, ඇමරිකන් පුරවැසියෙක් ජනපති
    සුමන්තිරන් ද්විත්ව් පුරවැසියෙක් මන්ත්‍රී
    UNP හිටපු මන්ත්රෙයෙක් ස්වීඩන් ගියා ද්විත්ව පුරවැසි

    අපි වචනයක් කිව්වම උඹලගේ සමනල් හිත් වලට වේදනයි....ලොල්


    ඔය bogan උන් එක්ක සෙට් උන එවුන්ට ඔක්කොම පෙන්නේ කබරයෝ වගේ තමයි බන්....

    ඉන්න පැත්ත අනුව තමයි....:whistle:😁😁

    Sir ubala wage Americawa idagena president une nane
    election ekata awa, citizenship eka atha ariya tharanga kala chande dinna ;)

    Anika Gota uba wage nemeine ban, Mahinda president wela stable unama Mahinda gana wishwasa karala lankawata awa :D
    Gota US iddi oracle database wala weda kala misak mehe deshapalana campaign kalada?

    Mama generally kiwwa ewun hariyata Kumar gunarathnam, thawa JVP eke somawansha wage dial, kela unama mehe inna bari unama paninne anna e wage. Un ehe indanuth kale mehe deshapalanayane :P