Is this the dark side of theravada buddhism, or the dark side of the people who come to teravada with zero intention of liberation?
Idiots raise this should ask themselves whether scientists/physicists who got divorced many times and never had a proper family life..is that because of the dark side of physics, or the dark side of their own life?
if you want to have sex and then cry about missing the indulgence of dinner, you are on the wrong path. Ive been skipping both breakfast and dinner for three years now and enjoying that.