what did you learn once you got in a relationship..and then got out of it?

fazaal24

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I had two relationships.
In the first one I learnt that people are very different from what they show.
After that relationship I learnt to respect myself.

In the second one I learnt how nice it feels to be cared for.
Once it broke off I understood I had carried over unfinished businesses from the first relationship to the second-it should not have happened.

What I have now, cannot be called a relationship in the traditional sense. But I've learnt to respect and care for another unconditionally.

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llrajitha

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    kattiya full sirada? american porak(kellek) EK eke post ekak daanawa relationship ekak gana mokakda kiyala? meka wenna ba.... hari amuthui
     

    Savyna

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    kattiya full sirada? american porak(kellek) EK eke post ekak daanawa relationship ekak gana mokakda kiyala? meka wenna ba.... hari amuthui

    well firstly im not a guy, secondly i find nothing weird about posting and conversing with people of different ethnicities on a forum on the internet:rofl::rofl::rofl::)
    question: why do you think its weird?
     

    kosandpol

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    well firstly im not a guy, secondly i find nothing weird about posting and conversing with people of different ethnicities on a forum on the internet:rofl::rofl::rofl::)
    question: why do you think its weird?
    He's assuming that you're a fraud. That you're really not a girl and that you're not from USA. There's been some of that type of characters here before (or so I heard).
     

    ratedrkoman

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    rOcK n RoLl r.A.t.M.a.L.n.A !
    well haven't had any serious relationship so far
    so wouldn't know what i will learn out of it ....


    but soo far what i have learned from my friends relationships are that "you should not get into a concrete relationship until u r quite settled in life"

    also i have learned ( of course 4rm frnds) "that (true)love is hard to get and it's a sweet mix of Bitter and Sweet"
     

    Savyna

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    He's assuming that you're a fraud. That you're really not a girl and that you're not from USA. There's been some of that type of characters here before (or so I heard).

    honestly this has happened to me before in other areas where sri lankans are..they doubt im a girl and they doubt im american...because why would an american pay attention to sri lanka..and why would a girl talk?:rofl::no::)
    its just funny...well he can believe what he wants to believe..but i know what i am..and i know that i have a uterous and that im full on 100% american girl with a hint of spanish flavors :D :D:lol::lol:
     

    twisted

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    honestly this has happened to me before in other areas where sri lankans are..they doubt im a girl and they doubt im american...because why would an american pay attention to sri lanka.:D :D:lol::lol:

    that's what most of ppl feel when americans and british ppl do that :rofl: no offense to you though.
     

    kosandpol

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    honestly this has happened to me before in other areas where sri lankans are..they doubt im a girl and they doubt im american...because why would an american pay attention to sri lanka..and why would a girl talk?:rofl::no::)
    its just funny...well he can believe what he wants to believe..but i know what i am..and i know that i have a uterous and that im full on 100% american girl with a hint of spanish flavors :D :D:lol::lol:
    You'll have to get used to that. Its a weird concept here.

    Anyway lets get back to the topic.
     

    Savyna

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    may be you didn't get it right the first time :lol:

    well we both know what drama i had with the first relationship..even though i wanted to die..im still 19 i have time to try again..but im definitely waiting till im finished with school and have myself a job at xyz place and im getting along smooth into my super adult life :p
     

    Savyna

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    You'll have to get used to that. Its a weird concept here.

    Anyway lets get back to the topic.

    lets do that :)

    that's what most of ppl feel when americans and british ppl do that :rofl: no offense to you though.

    none taken..it is what it is..and i know that sometimes im perceived as weird..its not a new concept to me..im weird to americans and im weird to asians. :lol: