How to get a Girl Friend ??
It is usually harder for guys to get a
girlfriend than it is for girls to get a boyfriend. For all those who
haven't been lucky in the love department,follow these steps t0 become
someone.
STEPS:
Have
g00d personal hygiene. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get women. For
the most part, just caring about how you look is enough. Wear new
clothes that fit, and make sure that your body is clean (important).
Keep
up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do n0t like
slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of lack of confidence. Smiling
makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a
hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the
impression of intelligence.
Adapt your appearance. Clean up for a high-class city girl. Dress down f0r the fun-loving motorbike chick.
Pick
a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel
fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill 0f
yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation. Go
out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly
looking for women immediately lower their value . Go out with your
friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a bookstore, if
you're more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a
good time. The Internet does not count.
Be funny. If you're
not naturally funny, don't try T00 hard around her. Pitch jokes to
other people first and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no
laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard winning a girl
without humor.
"Plant some seeds". Flirt casually with
waitresses. Make a passing comment and smile to a girl walking by.
Toast a woman at the bar. Then go back t0 having a good time with your
friends. In short time, you'll notice women slowly gravitating to you.
Qualify
them. Don't be a jerk about it... but in a fun, playful way, make her
prove her value t0 you. Something as simple as "Are you open-minded?
Cool, because I like open-minded people."
Talk. Silence is uncomfortable. (On the other hand, women 0r men who do nothing but talk and never listen can be annoying.)
Connect
with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile
and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself
that you can relate to. WARNING: If she gives you something like "0h, I
like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique.
Instead, ask for more information and then connect with it.
Look
and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A
firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and
other subtle gestures allow the girl t0 feel connected with the guy.
Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady t00.
Don't
pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her over
with like mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a
common interest, something you both like instead.
Show your
interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is t0 avoid it
from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions
clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but
you're fun to talk to."
Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your phone so you'll have mine."
And
once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend
and girlfriend do not--I repeat--do not stop the chivalry. Women are
too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to show
her you care is to continue to do the little things f0r her. You still
need to open her car door, walk her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS
call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few hours
after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.)
Remember, show affection and respect and you'll get affection and
respect.
TIPS:
Put on great-smelling
aftershave or cologne. Research the best-selling ones at department
stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the
outdoors or tomboy side 0f things. Some girls detest the scent of
cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too
much cologne, not too little.
Do not exceed the maximum of
three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every
day. It's the general problem where a person gradually become
accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent that they need more
and more of the stuff to be able t0 smell it themselves. You might not
be able to smell it, but it's there.
Guys do not need to l00k
like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails
clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in
the hands and faces.
Be a good conversationalist. Read up on
the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women
love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and,
therefore, richer in every aspect. 0r just actually be well-educated.
Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do n0t like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman 0ut of a man.
Very
important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants
to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer.
Be honest and forthright, but n0t aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel.
Don't
annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but
unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when
someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if y0u
absolutely can't go without saying something everyday, at least correct
your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly.
Don't be afraid t0 display your affection in public.
Dress to match, Black and Whites, Browns and Blues, even if they don't say anything, girls notice.
Don't be afraid t0 touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist.
Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule
Be Y0urself
WARNINGS:
Do not attempt to stalk the lady! Know when she means no!
Do not ask out someone if you d0 not have somewhere to take her.
Do not ask out someone too young because they are probably not ready.
Grinning like the Cheshire cat is creepy. Unless she likes that, but hey it's y0ur girl.
Taking over the entire conversation is 0ver-bearing and rude.
Do
not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down.
It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the
suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility 0f
rejection.
Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that.
Don't make disgusting body jokes, 0r fart a lot. Girls hate that.
Don't
make her feel like a sex object instead of a human being, unless you're
trying t0 get a loose girl. Less promiscuous girls are turned off by
such patronization and bigotry.
It is usually harder for guys to get a
girlfriend than it is for girls to get a boyfriend. For all those who
haven't been lucky in the love department,follow these steps t0 become
someone.
STEPS:
Have
g00d personal hygiene. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get women. For
the most part, just caring about how you look is enough. Wear new
clothes that fit, and make sure that your body is clean (important).
Keep
up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do n0t like
slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of lack of confidence. Smiling
makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a
hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the
impression of intelligence.
Adapt your appearance. Clean up for a high-class city girl. Dress down f0r the fun-loving motorbike chick.
Pick
a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel
fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill 0f
yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation. Go
out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly
looking for women immediately lower their value . Go out with your
friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a bookstore, if
you're more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a
good time. The Internet does not count.
Be funny. If you're
not naturally funny, don't try T00 hard around her. Pitch jokes to
other people first and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no
laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard winning a girl
without humor.
"Plant some seeds". Flirt casually with
waitresses. Make a passing comment and smile to a girl walking by.
Toast a woman at the bar. Then go back t0 having a good time with your
friends. In short time, you'll notice women slowly gravitating to you.
Qualify
them. Don't be a jerk about it... but in a fun, playful way, make her
prove her value t0 you. Something as simple as "Are you open-minded?
Cool, because I like open-minded people."
Talk. Silence is uncomfortable. (On the other hand, women 0r men who do nothing but talk and never listen can be annoying.)
Connect
with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile
and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself
that you can relate to. WARNING: If she gives you something like "0h, I
like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique.
Instead, ask for more information and then connect with it.
Look
and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A
firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and
other subtle gestures allow the girl t0 feel connected with the guy.
Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady t00.
Don't
pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her over
with like mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a
common interest, something you both like instead.
Show your
interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is t0 avoid it
from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions
clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but
you're fun to talk to."
Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your phone so you'll have mine."
And
once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend
and girlfriend do not--I repeat--do not stop the chivalry. Women are
too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to show
her you care is to continue to do the little things f0r her. You still
need to open her car door, walk her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS
call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few hours
after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.)
Remember, show affection and respect and you'll get affection and
respect.
TIPS:
Put on great-smelling
aftershave or cologne. Research the best-selling ones at department
stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the
outdoors or tomboy side 0f things. Some girls detest the scent of
cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too
much cologne, not too little.
Do not exceed the maximum of
three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every
day. It's the general problem where a person gradually become
accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent that they need more
and more of the stuff to be able t0 smell it themselves. You might not
be able to smell it, but it's there.
Guys do not need to l00k
like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails
clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in
the hands and faces.
Be a good conversationalist. Read up on
the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women
love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and,
therefore, richer in every aspect. 0r just actually be well-educated.
Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do n0t like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman 0ut of a man.
Very
important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants
to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer.
Be honest and forthright, but n0t aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel.
Don't
annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but
unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when
someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if y0u
absolutely can't go without saying something everyday, at least correct
your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly.
Don't be afraid t0 display your affection in public.
Dress to match, Black and Whites, Browns and Blues, even if they don't say anything, girls notice.
Don't be afraid t0 touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist.
Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule
Be Y0urself
WARNINGS:
Do not attempt to stalk the lady! Know when she means no!
Do not ask out someone if you d0 not have somewhere to take her.
Do not ask out someone too young because they are probably not ready.
Grinning like the Cheshire cat is creepy. Unless she likes that, but hey it's y0ur girl.
Taking over the entire conversation is 0ver-bearing and rude.
Do
not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down.
It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the
suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility 0f
rejection.
Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that.
Don't make disgusting body jokes, 0r fart a lot. Girls hate that.
Don't
make her feel like a sex object instead of a human being, unless you're
trying t0 get a loose girl. Less promiscuous girls are turned off by
such patronization and bigotry.
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