Why you put a thread like this machan,
** you do not have that much experience with life, trying to live it independently.
parenta lagenma hama dema depend wenna giyama, hithenawa, parentsla nathinam, jeewithayak nahai kiyala.
But the reality is, we were born alone, live alone and die alone.
There's as much a youth can help his parents, financially/ phsycially but the parents themselves should not forget that, they should never become a burden to their child.
That is why in the western world, parents save enough for their retirement, without depending on their children. By doing so, not only that they afford their pension but also the facility of a nurse/ carer if necessary.
At the same time, children get student loans and become independent with their lives since 18, without depending on their parents like the situation in SL.
Therefore in the western world, both parents and the children are better off, and have cordial relationships as long as the parents live.