Intervention!
My partner did that to one of her friends who was steeped in drug and assorted emotional problems. It can be ugly and foreboding, usually women are more suited to conduct such a thing. But since you're queer and obviously have feelings for the guy, I think you might be able to manage it.
But know where to seek medical and psychological help- you know, have a plan beforehand. Otherwise it would come across as preachy, intrusive and that might exacerbate things further.
Good luck. Sorry I cannot help you with anything specific.
My partner did that to one of her friends who was steeped in drug and assorted emotional problems. It can be ugly and foreboding, usually women are more suited to conduct such a thing. But since you're queer and obviously have feelings for the guy, I think you might be able to manage it.
But know where to seek medical and psychological help- you know, have a plan beforehand. Otherwise it would come across as preachy, intrusive and that might exacerbate things further.
Good luck. Sorry I cannot help you with anything specific.
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