Even reading this post makes me sick on thinking the way the young generation thinks about the marriage. It is a life partner you are bringing into your life, that's how I see that at least. Not a fucking servant. There are differences of course and you have to workout them, sort them by communicating.
You two after marriage is a team, you should achieve things as a team. If you guys living together the work or sacrifice you make should be 50%, 50% or near to that. (if it 10%, 90% then either one is fucked)
As you guys mentioned I think your mothers has done a lot of work for you or I am pretty sure they got the help from your father as well.
if you a fucking expecting someone like your mother from your wife then try to do the same work as your father is doing.
There can be edge cases, if so divorce them.
මගේ වයිෆුත් උබේ කෙනාගේ ටයිප්මයි මචන්.
ubata age eka 27-30 athara nam and kellata 25 ta adu nam
, mokada unta a minssunge wada karanna wenawa kiyala. marry karanna kalin aniwa atha kiyanna ona , nathnam okun bandata passe thama hama reddama kiyawanne 
