Well machan, what you’re saying is sound fair but in this case you’re tad wrong. If you’re holding a responsible post where your actions matters then you should act accordingly to that post. You can’t do something that would contradict to your responsibilities and how you should be an example by stating, “oh, whatever i do during my free time is my own business and bla bla bla…”.
If you’re an, let’s say holds post where you’re responsible for uplifting and encouraging youths and creating new productive opportunities for them while being an ideal role model , you just can’t do something that would “harm” the good name of your organization or your post.
If you’re wanting to enjoy your life , do it accordingly to your post , at least until you leave that post.
This is not me being critical of her life style. She just needs to consider what “vibes” she’s sending out.