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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Nice_guy" data-source="post: 22540735" data-attributes="member: 565130">Some answers*ඇයි අපිට  සහකරුවෙක් අවශ්‍ය?It's true everything comes to living & reproduction in the end. Our needs are coded in the brain for the survival of you and your species. Think about sleeping. Are you happy without sleeping? We do have pleasure centers in our brain. The actions you do for betterment of yourself/your species satisfies those. So if the reproduction(I am not talking about having sex alone, part of this includes looking after children as well) is a need will you be happy or not happy without it? Again we go for best choice right?But as we are intelligent beings just the reproduction and the survival does not fit for us. It might satisfy you but it goes against your intelligence. So we have a hierarchy of needs instead of one or two basic needs. <img src="https://www.edutopia.org/sites/default/files/styles/share_image/public/slates/desautels-maslow-pyramid.jpg?itok=FbRoy1FP" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />This is called the Maslow's hierarchy of needs. So as for your question, why shouldn't we have a partner? A good partner would be the answer for almost all the elements in the hierarchy. *ඒ තෝරාගන්න කෙනාට අපි ආදරේ නිසාමද තෝරාගන්නේ?This actually depends on you. But would you survive your marriage without love? *ඒ තේරීම ගැන පසුව දුක් වෙන්නේ ඇයි?Obviously the problem here lies with not on the person. But the your ability to make choices and decisions in life. And is it only about the partner you worry about?? As a fact not everyone worries about it. *ඇත්තෙන්ම සහකරුවෙක් තෝරාගන්නේ ආදරය නිසාද?තනිවෙයි කියන බය නිසාද?Because of both them. *ඒ තෝරාගැනිම කරද්දී අපි සළකා බලන්නේ,තමුන් ප්‍රිය කරන දේහ(ශරීර ලක්‍ෂණ)හැඩ රුවද?/ගතිගුණද? The features of your partner matters a lot. Unhealthy habits would lower the level of attraction as well. There's no need for any psychology here obviously. You know the answer. Now, I think the question you tried to ask was deciding between a really good looking person vs. an average looking person and of course then the Qualities. Can you live with the best looking person if he/she is a disaster? *ඔය එක කෙහෙල්මලක්වත් නොවේ ලිංගික සතුට විතරයිද?Yeah, says so the porn movie creators. <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/lol.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":lol:" title="LOL    :lol:" data-shortname=":lol:" /> But face the reality, think out of the box. *(විරුද්ධ ලිංගික)සහකරුවෙක් අත්‍යාවශ්‍යමද?Comparing between the earlier answers, it's about going along with the nature and without the nature. Going against the nature isn't/wasn't the best choice looking at many other things isn't it? What would make an exception here? After all we go for the best possible thing, aren't we? (Typed in English as it's difficult to type in Sinhala because the answer is too long)</blockquote>

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