Can guys and girls be "just Friends" ??????

Doly

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of coz can....no doubt abt it....

i hv a very good friend in my life...a boy.....from India,
Absolutely a good friend for me and even i can share my any personal matters with him, he is totally free for me always....

we toooo closed each ....he love me so much and me tooo love him.
but still we are JUST GOOD FRIENDS
 

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    Doly said:
    of coz can....no doubt abt it....

    i hv a very good friend in my life...a boy.....from India,
    Absolutely a good friend for me and even i can share my any personal matters with him, he is totally free for me always....

    we toooo closed each ....he love me so much and me tooo love him.
    but still we are JUST GOOD FRIENDS
    That's nice to hear:D
     

    psyche

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    Does it matter!

    Well ofcourse you can. Even I have a few girls who are close friends of mine. At times you feel you can talk to a girl about something important in a much better way than with a guy friend. :)

    Anyway the thing is most tend to build certain expectations after a while being friends. I aint saying its wrong but c'mon you should not always get into that level of thinking or let your feelings go out of control. Have to be sensible. True, many can't do that. I know a guy who thinks when a girl tend to talk with interest and share thoughts n ideas with him its 'coz she likes him beyond friendship. :rolleyes: Thats a very wrong attitude. This is clearly lack of judgement and understanding.

    So anyway this totally varies from one person to another 'coz it lies on a person's level of thinkng n attitude. But in my view its absolutely possible to be "just friends" nevertheless.

     

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    psyche said:

    Well ofcourse you can. Even I have a few girls who are close friends of mine. At times you feel you can talk to a girl about something important in a much better way than with a guy friend. :)

    Anyway the thing is most tend to build certain expectations after a while being friends. I aint saying its wrong but c'mon you should not always get into that level of thinking or let your feelings go out of control. Have to be sensible. True, many can't do that. I know a guy who thinks when a girl tend to talk with interest and share thoughts n ideas with him its 'coz she likes him beyond friendship. :rolleyes: Thats a very wrong attitude. This is clearly lack of judgement and understanding.

    So anyway this totally varies from one person to another 'coz it lies on a person's level of thinkng n attitude. But in my view its absolutely possible to be "just friends" nevertheless.


    hehe........agreed.......yeah machan anyone can be JUST FRIENDS...... being best friends is also possible if u handle with care. hehe ;)
     

    fernandokasu

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    psyche said:

    Well ofcourse you can. Even I have a few girls who are close friends of mine. At times you feel you can talk to a girl about something important in a much better way than with a guy friend. :)

    Anyway the thing is most tend to build certain expectations after a while being friends. I aint saying its wrong but c'mon you should not always get into that level of thinking or let your feelings go out of control. Have to be sensible. True, many can't do that. I know a guy who thinks when a girl tend to talk with interest and share thoughts n ideas with him its 'coz she likes him beyond friendship. :rolleyes: Thats a very wrong attitude. This is clearly lack of judgement and understanding.

    So anyway this totally varies from one person to another 'coz it lies on a person's level of thinkng n attitude. But in my view its absolutely possible to be "just friends" nevertheless.

    ya ayya.. u r 100% crct.. :yes::yes::yes: v r bst frnds nah??:D:D
     

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    Machan mage xperience hatiyata nam
    MEhemei

    • E kellata hari kollata hari bf or gf kenek innavanam e dennata bst frnds la samahara vita vidiyata inna puluvan no doubt

    NAmuth
    • e dennama thanikada nam Ekko kolla kellata yojana karanava nathnam kella kollata kamaththen innava(i had xperience) E kiyanne kella hari kolla hari fota varaddagannavaamai:yes::yes::yes:

    MAchan its only my personal poenion and may be not the truth:yes:

    anek ayath kiyana eva ahala balamukooo
    :D:D:D
     

    fernandokasu

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    Zeus said:
    Machan mage xperience hatiyata nam
    MEhemei

    • E kellata hari kollata hari bf or gf kenek innavanam e dennata bst frnds la samahara vita vidiyata inna puluvan no doubt

    NAmuth
    • e dennama thanikada nam Ekko kolla kellata yojana karanava nathnam kella kollata kamaththen innava(i had xperience) E kiyanne kella hari kolla hari fota varaddagannavaamai:yes::yes::yes:

    MAchan its only my personal poenion and may be not the truth:yes:

    anek ayath kiyana eva ahala balamukooo
    :D:D:D
    aa. deviyo waradda gena wage
     

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    "when a guy wants to express his feelings [love]he tries to make a friendship with the girl...but when a girl wants to forget the love she tries to make a friendship with the guy....:D :D "
    [film:dishum]maybe this is it...but not sure.....
     

    Zeus

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    fernandokasu said:
    aa. deviyo waradda gena wage

    Ayiyo akke
    "guruntath akuru varadina me kale
    Deyiyonta varadena eka ahannath deyakda":D:D

    Ara bibaleth thiyenne(thiyenevada manda)
    Guruvaraya yanu deviyage niyojithayek kiyala

    ME me eka nevei meka chat thred ekak neveine
    So akka mokada kiyanne man kiyapu deval gana????:rolleyes:
     

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    Zeus said:
    Machan mage xperience hatiyata nam
    MEhemei

    • E kellata hari kollata hari bf or gf kenek innavanam e dennata bst frnds la samahara vita vidiyata inna puluvan no doubt

    NAmuth
    • e dennama thanikada nam Ekko kolla kellata yojana karanava nathnam kella kollata kamaththen innava(i had xperience) E kiyanne kella hari kolla hari fota varaddagannavaamai:yes::yes::yes:

    MAchan its only my personal poenion and may be not the truth:yes:

    anek ayath kiyana eva ahala balamukooo
    :D:D:D
    ya machan it happens if you are both single.
    And the other point is that we can have cool friends from the opposite sex but the moment 1 gets really really close to you its inevitable i guess:D