Discussing Dhamma in EK

kalyanamithra

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    Dear Non-Buddhist friends,

    Please forgive my 'discrimination' here, because the content is probably useful only to Buddhists friends... Thanks

    Dear Buddhist friends,

    I am opening this thread to caution all of you who like to discuss Dhamma in this forum... I am stating this publicly because it's probably better to know and discuss these things...

    I have only few months of experience in EK; so one may accuse that I am stating this without proper analysis/evidence... But I believe I see a certain pattern that we have to be aware of if we do not want to be distracted again and again...

    As you may have also noted, every time we focus on discussing deep aspects of Dhamma
    - there comes a person with controversial views on Buddhism; even as non-Buddhists claiming to know Buddhism better!
    Please refrain from mentioning the individuals... or specific incidence... as you may agree our intention should be correcting our approach and not criticizing others...
    - we (many including me) tend to counter his/her arguments fearing propagation of wrong impressions or merely because it hurts our 'pride'
    - it causes new threads/posts to be more and more defensive; because of which they tend to move away from Dhamma; in other words we get distracted...

    I think I've noted this thrice in my short stay in EK; one can easily check what I say by looking at how scope of threads changed in the past couple of months...

    We should expect this pattern to continue...

    I am wondering if we (I mean those wanting to help one another to discuss Dhamma) can agree
    - how to counter (if needed at all) these 'useless' threads without getting distracted
    - what to discuss with higher priority
    so that most of us would benifit...

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    Kalyanamithra,

    Surameraya Majjapama Dhattana weramani sikkapadan samadiyami!

    aththatama suramerin thora weema pilibanda mata thawa pahadili karanna puluwan da.
    eya pawak wenne kohomada ?

    eg: panathi patha wala nam api dannawa thawa pana athi deyaka pana nesima waradi kriyawak kiyala
    eth meeka gatalu sahagathai!
     

    kalyanamithra

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    TΞΞNSTAR™ said:
    Well bro.. Nice Thread to discuss about Buddhist issues..

    i hope im welcomed to clear my doubts if i have any..
    Pinwath mithura,

    You are always welcome my friend... :)

    My concern was about those of us trying to compare religions; merge concepts of in different religions; etc... Such things give rise to nothing but disputes...

    When we try to answer such threads we are unduly wasting the time which could have been spent for a better purpose... That's why I was wondering if we should as a whole change the strategy...

    Theruwan saranai!
     

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    Asitha-K said:
    Kalyanamithra,

    Surameraya Majjapama Dhattana weramani sikkapadan samadiyami!

    aththatama suramerin thora weema pilibanda mata thawa pahadili karanna puluwan da.
    eya pawak wenne kohomada ?

    eg: panathi patha wala nam api dannawa thawa pana athi deyaka pana nesima waradi kriyawak kiyala
    eth meeka gatalu sahagathai!

    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: mama nam bonne neeeeeeeeeeeee:yes: :yes: ;)
     

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    kalyanamithra said:
    Pinwath mithura,

    You are always welcome my friend... :)

    My concern was about those of us trying to compare religions; merge concepts of in different religions; etc... Such things give rise to nothing but disputes...

    When we try to answer such threads we are unduly wasting the time which could have been spent for a better purpose... That's why I was wondering if we should as a whole change the strategy...

    Theruwan saranai!

    Aha Tnx Bro..

    I Do Like the way u make ur points.. in a calm nd polite way..

    it would be great if all the people who defend their religion talk and post their comments and ideas in a polite way.. if so.. EK would be a really nice place..
     

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    Asitha-K said:
    Kalyanamithra,

    Surameraya Majjapama Dhattana weramani sikkapadan samadiyami!

    aththatama suramerin thora weema pilibanda mata thawa pahadili karanna puluwan da.
    eya pawak wenne kohomada ?

    eg: panathi patha wala nam api dannawa thawa pana athi deyaka pana nesima waradi kriyawak kiyala
    eth meeka gatalu sahagathai!

    Still no answer! :(
     

    kalyanamithra

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    Asitha-K said:
    Kalyanamithra,

    Surameraya Majjapama Dhattana weramani sikkapadan samadiyami!

    aththatama suramerin thora weema pilibanda mata thawa pahadili karanna puluwan da.
    eya pawak wenne kohomada ?

    eg: panathi patha wala nam api dannawa thawa pana athi deyaka pana nesima waradi kriyawak kiyala
    eth meeka gatalu sahagathai!

    Pinwath mithura,

    Samawevnna pilithurak denna pama vunata...

    Api dannawa ne Budurajanan wahanse Dharmaya deshana karanne ekama eka aramunakin kiyala... Enam apata Nivan maga penva denna ne... Shila, Samadhi ha Panna kiyanne ema margaya vadana akara yai...

    Enam api samadan vi rakina Pancha Shilaya pava thiyenne nivan mage kotasak lesin... Ehi thiyenne "siksha pada" 5; evain karanne apa Nivan maga yemata himavinmai...

    Math vimata/madayata (e kiyanne sihi mula vimak ne), pramadayata hethuwana
    sura, math drawya adhiya kiyanne ema margayata pradhana badhawak ne...

    E vitharak neme; me akarayen math vima apa anek pav valata goduru vana idakadath vedikaranava... Mokada sihi mulavim nisa ne godak papa karma sidu vanne... Eka ne Budurajanan wahanse math pen panaya vinasha mukayak lesa dakva thiyenne (Paravhava Sutraya veni thenvala meka sandahan vanava ne)...

    E hinda venna one (mata hithena hetiyata) gihi ayage nithya silayata me ma siksha padaya ethulath...

    Dharma margaye yanna sihiya nuvana viriya siyallama one ne...

    Anek sil pada menma meya methek norekapu kenekuta
    nevatha nokedena lesa samadan vimen e varadin midenna puluvan...
    (e kiyanne vipaka nethi venava kiyana eka neme; eth idiriyata varadak venne nethi bai)...
    Math pen valata ebbehi vu aya ein midi marga pala lada avastha me sutravala th thiyenawa...
    sarakani sutraya: http://www.gautamabuddha.ca/bana/sinhala/069_Sarakani_Sutta.mp3 (me sutraya Dharmaya gena denumak pehedimak nethi aya nithara veredi vidihata arthakathanaya karana ekaka)
    haththigamaka ugga sutraya: http://www.gautamabuddha.ca/bana/sinhala/046_Hatthigamaka_Ugga_Sutta.mp3

    Theruwan saranai!
     

    kalyanamithra

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    ushi_prem said:
    Kalyanamithra!!!

    mata kiyanna ape rate meheninwahanselage arama thiyenne koheda?????

    Theruwan sarani!
    Pinwath mithuriya,

    Mahamevnawata sambandha "Anagarika Asapu" methen vala thiyenawa;
    E aya niyama Dharma margaye yana aya bavai mage vetahima...

    http://asapu.blogspot.com/2007/12/mahamevnawa-anagarika-asapuwa.html
    http://asapu.blogspot.com/2007/12/mahamevnawa-anagarika-asapuwa_14.html
    http://asapu.blogspot.com/2007/12/mahamevnawa-anagarika-asapuwa_9735.html
    http://asapu.blogspot.com/2007/12/mahamevnawa-anagarika-asapuwa-welimada.html
    http://asapu.blogspot.com/2007/12/mahamevnawa-anagarika-asapuwa-udupila.html

    Idiriyedi ekak London, UK valath pihituvana bavai denaganna thiyenne...
    http://www.mahamevna.org.uk/

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    kalyanamithra said:
    Pinwath mithura,

    Samawevnna pilithurak denna pama vunata...

    Api dannawa ne Budurajanan wahanse Dharmaya deshana karanne ekama eka aramunakin kiyala... Enam apata Nivan maga penva denna ne... Shila, Samadhi ha Panna kiyanne ema margaya vadana akara yai...

    Enam api samadan vi rakina Pancha Shilaya pava thiyenne nivan mage kotasak lesin... Ehi thiyenne "siksha pada" 5; evain karanne apa Nivan maga yemata himavinmai...

    Math vimata/madayata (e kiyanne sihi mula vimak ne), pramadayata hethuwana
    sura, math drawya adhiya kiyanne ema margayata pradhana badhawak ne...

    E vitharak neme; me akarayen math vima apa anek pav valata goduru vana idakadath vedikaranava... Mokada sihi mulavim nisa ne godak papa karma sidu vanne... Eka ne Budurajanan wahanse math pen panaya vinasha mukayak lesa dakva thiyenne (Paravhava Sutraya veni thenvala meka sandahan vanava ne)...

    E hinda venna one (mata hithena hetiyata) gihi ayage nithya silayata me ma siksha padaya ethulath...

    Dharma margaye yanna sihiya nuvana viriya siyallama one ne...

    Anek sil pada menma meya methek norekapu kenekuta
    nevatha nokedena lesa samadan vimen e varadin midenna puluvan...
    (e kiyanne vipaka nethi venava kiyana eka neme; eth idiriyata varadak venne nethi bai)...
    Math pen valata ebbehi vu aya ein midi marga pala lada avastha me sutravala th thiyenawa...
    sarakani sutraya: http://www.gautamabuddha.ca/bana/sinhala/069_Sarakani_Sutta.mp3 (me sutraya Dharmaya gena denumak pehedimak nethi aya nithara veredi vidihata arthakathanaya karana ekaka)
    haththigamaka ugga sutraya: http://www.gautamabuddha.ca/bana/sinhala/046_Hatthigamaka_Ugga_Sutta.mp3

    Theruwan saranai!

    Bohoma Pin!

    10 Akusal walin gihiyan thora wiya yuthuda?
    5 pawin walakima pamanak athida ?
     

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    Asitha-K said:
    Bohoma Pin!

    10 Akusal walin gihiyan thora wiya yuthuda?
    5 pawin walakima pamanak athida ?

    ethi...............:yes: :yes:


    Gihiyanta rakinna thiyenne 5sil,

    eeth kawuru hari 10sil hoo 8sil rakinawanam eka hondai...........:D
     

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    Jack_Sparrow said:
    ethi...............:yes: :yes:


    Gihiyanta rakinna thiyenne 5sil,

    eeth kawuru hari 10sil hoo 8sil rakinawanam eka hondai...........:D

    Pinwath mithurani,

    :yes:

    Gihi Baudhayan ge nithya silaya venna one pancha silayai... eth usas silayak rakinna puluvan nam hondai...

    E vagema gihi ayata uposatha davas vala astanga uposatha silaya (8 sil) rakina updes di thiyenava...

    Hebei api sil rakinne marga angaye kotasak lesane... e hinda avabodhayen nithya silaya ha uposatha silaya rakina eka pramanavath... :)

    Ajeewattamaka silaya nam rakina puluvan; brahmachari va inna kenekta...
    Ajeewattamaka silayata rakina kenata dasa akusalaye ena kaya ha vachi duscharitha siyallenma midi inna puluvan venava...

    10 sil nam amarui rakinna, daha vana siksha padaya nisa: "[FONT=Times_CSX+]Jataruparajatapatiggahana veramanisikkhapadam samadiyami."[/FONT] - ran, ridi (mudal) piligenimen velakime siksha padaya...
    Evagema gihi ayata anivarya karala ne eya rakinna kiyala...

    Silaya gena api thava tikak katha baha kaloth hondai kiya hithenawa...

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    Asitha-K said:
    Bohoma Pin!

    10 Akusal walin gihiyan thora wiya yuthuda?
    5 pawin walakima pamanak athida ?

    yam kenek niwan mage gaman karanaw nam (noble Eight fold path ). dasa seelaya rekiya yuthumayi neda.

    kayin , vachanayen , sithin siduwana veradi valin valakeema vedagath.

    eheth mana lesa akusal valin duru weemata chiththanupassanawa vediya yuthui.

    mokada me sitha nithrama akusalayata mai baravanne.

    budupiyanan deshana kara ethi paridi

    • noopan akusal duru kireema
    • upan akusal prahanaya(supress) kireema
    • noopan kusal vardanaya karageneema
    • upan kusal vedi diyaunu kara geneema.