x-pert said:
Hi Guys and Gals....
Here is another... I would say a controvertial topic to discuss.... Your comments are greately appreciated...
Does the age matters when marrying a person... If so why...??
Why people say always the boy should be the eldest and not the girl...
Why cant it be vice versa....
Macho check these...Got this from yahoo...
Resolved Question
Is it ok to marry a girl elder than me in age?what r the consequences if i get married to a girl who is elder?
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
It is ok as long as you are a mature adult and not a child.
At the end of the day it will just be you and her.
All of the other people and their opinions do not matter.
Good Luck..
Other Answers
*well it depends on what marriage means to you:
Do you love her unconditionally? If the answer is yes, then it shouldn't matter.
Older women are usually more experienced in many ways.. cooking, cleaning, sex, conversation, etc...
Maybe you've hit the jackpot!
All the best!
*It actually depends upon how elder she is than you and how the society is going to take this
In india people dont do this because there are two reasons the society here is male dominant and if a girl is trying to give birth after a age of 30, the chances of normal delivery is low
But in other countries things are different people dont worry about others personal life(its good actually)
So as the another answerer told if it is about uncoditional love go ahead
Wishes
*Age is not always important, but it can depend on how big the difference is. You have to be prepared for "toyboy" jokes and the like. You also have to consider the implications of you each having friends in different age brackets, and how they will inter-relate. If it's only a few years, it won't matter, but more than about 5 or 6 years may have an impact.
My opinion is, if you are asking this question, then you already have misgivings, and should seriously consider your true feelings. If you truely loved her, you wouldn't even think about age differences.
*Yeah it's ok!!! I think there are more pros than cons.
*am assuming this girl is alot older than yourself? I am only one year older than my fiance so that's not really a big deal to anyone. My nanny was nine years older than my pop pop but no one ever knew other than her immediate family. I mean sometimes if there is a big age difference it matters alot to the woman (i.e. trying to 'look' younger, compete with younger women). Sometimes the guys mom has a prob. with this too. My last bf before my fiance was 13 years younger than me, but I have children that were closer to his age (I was 34 he was 21..ha) than I. I think if you truly love someone and you want to be with ONLY that person and you are faithful, then age shouldn't matter to two adults.
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A few years age difference does not matter at all. An age difference could only be a problem if it is very large or if the two of you are at very different places in life. It's absolutely ok to marry someone a few years older than you, as long as you love each other and are compatible.
Best of luck!
*My boyfriend's father married a woman 20 years his junior, if that tells you anything.
*Jugsi Figure it out U will b married 2 hot older elder? girl? gal. So why not marry hot cougar ( that is older woman)?
*Hello Jugsy Try it since girls married older guys for years.
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