How to be a Successful Husband

Wal Bada

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  • Some more.

    Menstration is a disease according to Quran.

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    PICKTHAL: They question thee (O Muhammad) concerning menstruation. Say: It is an illness, so let women alone at such times and go not in unto them till they are cleansed. And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allah hath enjoined upon you. Truly Allah loveth those who turn unto Him, and loveth those who have a care for cleanness.

    Whenever this verse is cited as anti-feminine and derogatory to women, our Islamic brothers get very defensive. They would twist and turn, and beat around the bush by saying that this verse is really meant to protect women during her period by warning people that it is a difficult time for women. How merciful! See how great Islam is! No science could discover that menstruation is a disease, but look at Islam. It is truly great. It can discover which no science or medicine could find! Let me ask our Islamic brothers a simple question. If menstruation is a disease, then why do we not ask the women to see a doctor? Why should the women be ostracised during her period? Sex during period is not advisable, although medical evidence shows that it is ok. This simple fact does not need any intervention from the almighty God through His mighty Qur’an. Even the primitive people had the knowledge of this natural periodic cycle of women and knew how to tackle it without insulting and ostracising women. Why did Muhammad do that? It was all based on the old Jewish/Zoroastrian practice of segregating women to a secluded place during her period. Muhammad did not have the guts to completely reform this discriminatory treatment of women but maintained that age-old tradition.
     

    Wal Bada

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  • People ruled by a woman will never be successful...(Shahih Bukhari 5.59.709)

    Volume 5, Book 59, Number 709:

    Narrated Abu Bakra:

    During the days (of the battle) of Al-Jamal, Allah benefited me with a word I had heard from Allah's Apostle after I had been about to join the Companions of Al-Jamal (i.e. the camel) and fight along with them. When Allah's Apostle was informed that the Persians had crowned the daughter of Khosrau as their ruler, he said, "Such people as ruled by a lady will never be successful."
     

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    sirajstc said:
    The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) married ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) when she was six years old, and he consummated the marriage with her when she was nine, and at that time he was over fifty.

    Al-Bukhaari (3894) and Muslim (1422) narrated that ‘Aa’ishah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) married me when I was six years old and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine.
    How could someone get married when he was 6 or 9 years old? :shocked:
    Doesn't it a child abuse? How this causes for a successful marriage? :dull:
    Need a explanation !! :D
     
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    casper_fms

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    Good article siraj... but, some ppl never realize the truth.. even u proved dat 1000's of times... anyhow, keep ur good work buddy.. may allah bless u..
     

    sirajstc

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    casper_fms said:
    Good article siraj... but, some ppl never realize the truth.. even u proved dat 1000's of times... anyhow, keep ur good work buddy.. may allah bless u..

    jaza kalla kahair bro

    i will try my best bro i need ur help also plz coparate with me:)

    may allah bless you 2:love:
     

    casper_fms

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    sirajstc said:
    jaza kalla kahair bro

    i will try my best bro i need ur help also plz coparate with me:)

    may allah bless you 2:love:

    sure buddy.. no worries...anyting u PM me or send me by e-mail.. Do u hav my mail ID...??