I love you.
we sees this as a natural phenomenon.
"By and large, we are drawn to people
who are compatible,
who we can relate to.
That's the in-built safety mechanism love has.
Unless it is an act of rebellion,"
So you fall in love with and marry
someone compatible.
After that what?
"As long as you are in love minus the responsibilities,
you are crazy about it.
Once married, the colours start fading.
Moreover,
where is the time
for romance after you have a child?"
one women who, 17 years ago,
fought with her parents
and threatened them with dire consequences
if they objected to her marrying the man of her choice.
"Now when I think of all those things,
it seems so crazy,'' she says.
Is it really worth falling in love?
For that, we have to first define love.
And that's not as easy as saying,
I love you.
