I love the prophet Mohammed (pbuh)....but even as a Muslim I wonder if his life had been lived in such a way that it can be so easily twisted into such different meanings....
like how he married a woman (Kathija (pbuh)) who is much elder that him....but who was also richer than him (not much)...as his first wife.....
and how he lead many wars to fight people against Islam.......
and then how he married an under aged girl....but then later refused other Muslims to do the same.....even during his time.....
but can excuse the fact he had multiple wives...because that was the normal situation back then....
but if people can understand the man he was as we Muslims do they can better appreciate him....
even his enemies accepted Muhammad (pbuh) never lies....
and how he treats his wives...equally...and how most of the women he married are former slaves...widows and orphans....and the only virgin he ever married was Aisha (pbuh).....
also how he was the leader of his tribe...and how he peacefully solved so many problems and court cases that came to him...and was the first to offer peace agreements to avoid unnecessary wars....
and also how even though he was a powerful and influential man...he lived in a 6x6 mud hut....a single room....without even a proper door....or roof...and how only two people could ever lie there.....and how he did not allow himself or his family to use their influence to gain anything for themselves.....
I hope these can help you understand why we love him so much even though people can see so many faults with him....