Most people are blinded by their own plans and projects...and when it comes to love, they tend to "choose" their beloved...when i say "choose" its a choice that occurs in ur own subconscious and you are not aware of the deep and honest reason why you took that decision...WHY you chose that person as your soulmate.
May it be to suit your parent's likings, may it be for your pride, may it be the distance separating from your soulmate, may it be for aesthetics ( which i personally believe is pretty idiotic ), may it be for religion, may it be for money ( losers ) and may it be for some many other complicated reasons due to our complicated human souls.
I see all over facebook countless status updates about love...about how amazing it is, about how delightful, how hurtful, how deathly, how important that person is or was to your life...and ironically enough the the affairs did not last long...for this reason and for that reason. Isn't love taken for granted now? I'm so sick of this drama all around the web, specially among 14 year olds who think they love, but then immediately after one guy/girl passes to the next squeaking around how adorable she/he is.
Love is not about loving the girl cos she's christian, jewish, muslim, hindu, buddhist or what ever...its not just about loving a girl or a guy who is reachable in order to avoid suffering long distant relationships, it's not about making our parents happy...and it's not just about satisfying our pride, our job or our aesthetic obession or what not. It's about releasing our souls for materialistic needs...its about realising ourselves from the need for protection and security, and it's about surrendering our everything which includes our happiness. And this happiness can be linked to anything... it can range from money to love. Love is a duty we must carry out till the end, till we cannot endure the suffering anymore. It's about giving you flesh, giving you bones, giving your soul. You keep digging the hole harder and harder till you find the water. Similarly you fight for it and forgive for any mishappenings as if you wanna cuddle the deed till it turns into mercy. It's about loving spontaneously in an unconditional way, where you just make you heart fly no matter the dangers it will encounter. Moreover no matter how many years it takes, you will build your life around that suffering because it's the suffering that makes the walls stronger and invulnerable. At the end...on that suffering you will finally reach the happiness you wanted.
There might be guys or girls who wouldn't have understood a damn thing about what i said...may you guys failed many times at this...may be you guys just want some rough sex...may be you guys are afraid to love, cos you don't wanna suffer or may be you guys have affairs for fun. I'm especially talking to these people who "take it easy"....pls people...don't make love just a stupid joke and don't act so emotional and passionate and think you have TRUELY LOVED after already having had 3,4,5,6,7 etc relationships. PLEASE JUST DON'T. It's really pathetic when i read stupid, infantile sweet romantic lines all over the net...specially on new "modern" lk singer's music videos...with the all pretty straightened haired girl with the damn stupid cell fone lying in bed calling her guy and finds out her guy dumped her for another slut or something and starts crying like a stupid childish montisoree girl.
If people knew the meaning of respect, the meaning of purity and the meaning of true unconditional love...may be we could put a final end to this grieving.
Anyway...this concept of treating a person unconditionally and of loving with no expectations can be applied even to friendships..
May it be to suit your parent's likings, may it be for your pride, may it be the distance separating from your soulmate, may it be for aesthetics ( which i personally believe is pretty idiotic ), may it be for religion, may it be for money ( losers ) and may it be for some many other complicated reasons due to our complicated human souls.
I see all over facebook countless status updates about love...about how amazing it is, about how delightful, how hurtful, how deathly, how important that person is or was to your life...and ironically enough the the affairs did not last long...for this reason and for that reason. Isn't love taken for granted now? I'm so sick of this drama all around the web, specially among 14 year olds who think they love, but then immediately after one guy/girl passes to the next squeaking around how adorable she/he is.
Love is not about loving the girl cos she's christian, jewish, muslim, hindu, buddhist or what ever...its not just about loving a girl or a guy who is reachable in order to avoid suffering long distant relationships, it's not about making our parents happy...and it's not just about satisfying our pride, our job or our aesthetic obession or what not. It's about releasing our souls for materialistic needs...its about realising ourselves from the need for protection and security, and it's about surrendering our everything which includes our happiness. And this happiness can be linked to anything... it can range from money to love. Love is a duty we must carry out till the end, till we cannot endure the suffering anymore. It's about giving you flesh, giving you bones, giving your soul. You keep digging the hole harder and harder till you find the water. Similarly you fight for it and forgive for any mishappenings as if you wanna cuddle the deed till it turns into mercy. It's about loving spontaneously in an unconditional way, where you just make you heart fly no matter the dangers it will encounter. Moreover no matter how many years it takes, you will build your life around that suffering because it's the suffering that makes the walls stronger and invulnerable. At the end...on that suffering you will finally reach the happiness you wanted.
There might be guys or girls who wouldn't have understood a damn thing about what i said...may you guys failed many times at this...may be you guys just want some rough sex...may be you guys are afraid to love, cos you don't wanna suffer or may be you guys have affairs for fun. I'm especially talking to these people who "take it easy"....pls people...don't make love just a stupid joke and don't act so emotional and passionate and think you have TRUELY LOVED after already having had 3,4,5,6,7 etc relationships. PLEASE JUST DON'T. It's really pathetic when i read stupid, infantile sweet romantic lines all over the net...specially on new "modern" lk singer's music videos...with the all pretty straightened haired girl with the damn stupid cell fone lying in bed calling her guy and finds out her guy dumped her for another slut or something and starts crying like a stupid childish montisoree girl.
If people knew the meaning of respect, the meaning of purity and the meaning of true unconditional love...may be we could put a final end to this grieving.
Anyway...this concept of treating a person unconditionally and of loving with no expectations can be applied even to friendships..
