Kissing Lessons.........: Best Ever

chamindra · Sep 12, 2006

Hi All,

I have few lessons for all of you with regard to kissing...
Its very interesting....

This is the part one.....
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Kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is no wrong way to kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Some people, believe it or not, are appalled at the idea of French Kissing or using your tongue while you kiss. While others can't imagine kissing without using your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that person a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing and to get used to the
Way that person kisses.

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations, such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip, then trying the other two types. And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.

The perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you really care about. There is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone special when with someone you hardly know, although a really good kiss can certainly bring two people closer together.

A lot of people are in the fear of kissing someone. The best remedy is. Not kiss that person right away.
Wait until an attraction builds between the two of you and a romantic situation evolves. Go out with the
Person a couple of times before having that first kiss.

KISSING BASICS:

There are so many different ways to kiss. The two main
Basic ones are close-mouthed kissing and French kissing. French
Kissing involves an open mouth and with tongue, while close-
Mouthed kissing is pretty self-explanatory. We thought it would be
Easier for first-time kissers if they knew at least the kissing basics
Before they try to approach other kisses, such as French kissing.

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your
Teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than
Kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having
Something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint
On hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just
Before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something
In your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss.
Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip
Gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't
Wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips make it
Easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant
Experience
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer
Together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it.
Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle
Or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head
Is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer
to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner
prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into
one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people
find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you’re
more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your
Partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breathe through your nose. As your
lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move
your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your
partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt.
Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. Thi
s is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-
bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Hands - There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.

And there you have it, the basics of kissing! When you try to put them all
together in your mind it makes it seem like kissing is very difficult. But when
you actually apply them in real life it's quite easy. Kissing is a natural
response to show affection for someone and if done with someone you really
care about it will feel totally natural.

Thats the end of Part One like to know more??????
Reply and I will post the second part...
Next part is " Do's and Dont's "
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Best Of luck and enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.............

chamindra · Sep 12, 2006

No one wants??????????

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chip · Sep 12, 2006

kissing z dat diffcult dat we have 2 take tutorials frm u :angry:

jk

chamindra · Sep 12, 2006

NOt At all Brother.......
Not from me either.........
I got this e-book which is so interesting and very useful...
Just though of sharing with the ELA KIRI FAmmily....
Its really good beleive me .............

chip · Sep 12, 2006

chamindra said:
NOt At all Brother.......
Not from me either.........
I got this e-book which is so interesting and very useful...
Just though of sharing with the ELA KIRI FAmmily....
Its really good beleive me .............

ne way gud wrk bro..keep em cum..some one ill make use of em..lolzz :lol:

chamindra · Sep 12, 2006

Ok here goes the PART 2

DO.S AND DON.TS

Don'ts

Don't use too much tongue.
Don't mash your lips against your partner's.
Don't look terrified when the other person approaches you for a kiss.
Do not talk about a first kiss with the person you're going to kiss for
the first time. This will ruin the excitement and may turn down
expectations.
Don't salivate all over your partner while kissing.
Don't just let your partner do all the work during the kiss.
Don't eat garlic or other harsh foods before a kiss.
Don't remain emotionless after the kiss.
Don't wait until the 20th date to kiss her/him.
Don't open your mouth so wide that it feels like you are sucking the
other person in.
Don't have the first kiss with someone in public in front of others.

Do's

Only use enough tongue to feel the other person's tongue.
Be gentle with the first kiss.
Smile after you kiss. Or in the least laugh or giggle to show some
emotion.
Swallow periodically during the kiss.
Participate in the kiss.
Make sure your breath is fresh by either brushing your teeth or
having a mint or piece of gum.
It is OK to kiss someone on the first date. And if not the first date
at least during the second.
Always make sure the first kiss is when the two of you are alone.

WHERE TO KISS AND WHAT IT MEANS:

KISS on the hand means: FRIENDSHIP.
KISS on the nose means: YOU'RE CUTE.
KISS on the cheek means: I NEED YOU.
KISS on the neck means: I WANT YOU.
KISS on the lips means: I LOVE YOU.
Kissing with eyes closed means: I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU.
Kissing with eyes opened means: I'M WATCHING WHERE YOUR HANDS ARE GOING.
The military KISS means ..... "Keep It Simple Stupid".
Stolen Kisses ARE THE SWEETEST! (Always want to return it)

Morale of the story is ... It.s not WHO you are KISSING but WHERE you're KISSING that matters

Other signs ................Often thinking of you means: I CARE FOR YOU
Holding hands means: I LIKE YOU
Looking into the eyes means: DO YOU LOVE ME?
Squeezing fingertips means: I WANT A KISS
Leaning on the shoulder means: COMFORT ME
Getting occasional short hugs: I MISS YOU
Biting lips means: I AM JEALOUS
Winking at you means: I WANT TO GO WITH YOU
Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU
Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU
Getting hit in "very painful places": I REALLY HATE YOU
Dreaming of you at night: YOU'RE SOMEONE SPECIAL
Always being with you means: I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU
Wearing his or her ring means: YOU'RE MINE FOREVER
Often giving you something means: CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH
Placing hands on shoulder means: GET THE HINT STUPID!!!
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Coming UP "FIRST KISS"

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chip · Sep 12, 2006

Holding hands means: I LIKE YOU
Looking into the eyes means: DO YOU LOVE ME?
Squeezing fingertips means: I WANT A KISS
Leaning on the shoulder means: COMFORT ME
Getting occasional short hugs: I MISS YOU
Biting lips means: I AM JEALOUS
Winking at you means: I WANT TO GO WITH YOU
Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU
Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU
Getting hit in "very painful places": I REALLY HATE YOU
Dreaming of you at night: YOU'RE SOMEONE SPECIAL
Always being with you means: I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU
Wearing his or her ring means: YOU'RE MINE FOREVER
Often giving you something means: CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH
Placing hands on shoulder means: GET THE HINT STUPID!!!

thnx 4 diz info..so i did need ur tutorial ne way nee..lolzzz thx dude...keep goin..lolzz

chamindra · Sep 13, 2006

FIRST KISS

FIRST KISS

Everybody is anxious about their first kiss. This is understandable since
anything that is unknown can be scary. We've all seen people kiss, either in
movies, TV shows or in real life. But how exactly is it done? How do you get
over the nervousness? Following questions are answered on this page about
The First Kiss. One note, though. In order to experience a truly wonderful first
kiss, it must be done with someone you really care about. Someone whom
you've been thinking about day and night. Someone who makes your heart
beat faster. Otherwise it's just another kiss and that is boring. So do not kiss
someone just to say you've been kissed. Kiss someone that really means
something to you.

What is the earliest time for kissing?
I would have to say 13, but only close mouthed kisses. French kissing
shouldn't be introduced until around 15 or 16.

Will The Other Person Know It's My First Time?
Not at all. Because everyone has a different style and way of kissing. Also, some people are more into
strong, passionate kisses while others prefer to start off gently. You won't know what style that person
has until you've kissed them a few times, and vice versa. Also, once you've kissed someone a few times
your kisses start to meld together, meaning that your styles start to intertwine with one another's. That
especially happens when one person didn't realize it was enjoyable to kiss a certain way until they tried it
with that person. So then they change their style to this new technique.

How Do a guy approach The First Kiss?
This can be done in one of two ways. You can either just do it or you can ask/demand a kiss. Asking for
a kiss is gentlemanly but not romantic. After the date is over, when the two of you are alone, tell her
what a good time you had. Then say something like, "Is it OK if I give you a kiss good-bye?" Of course
the other person will know what to expect but it's not very romantic. But you can demand a kiss. You
can say something like, "I'd like to kiss you goodnight" or something along that line. More appropriate I
believe.
Just doing it is the best and most romantic way of having the first kiss. It shows that you have enough
feelings for that person that you just HAVE to kiss them! The best approach for this is the slow and
gentle approach. You're standing in front of them as you're saying good-bye. Then take a step or two
towards them, hold their hands in yours and lean towards them. Then give them a gentle, lingering,
close-mouthed kiss. An even more romantic approach is to cup their face in your hands. This is
extremely exciting when the guy does this to the girl.

Is it Ok for a girl to make the first move?
Most certainly! When the two of you are walking just go ahead
and take his hand. Look at him sweetly when you do this to
check his reaction. Then, when you are ready to say good-bye
just go ahead and give him a kiss.

How Long Should A First Kiss Last?
A first kiss should only last a few moments. Don't worry about
the exact time. Once your lips have touched the other person's
lips then give it a few seconds and end the kiss. To end the
kiss just gently close your mouth and pull away gently. If you
get carried away and find that you've lost track of time and the
kiss is still continuing then that is OK. As long as the other
person is reciprocating in the kiss the kiss can continue for as
long as you wish.
What would be the best place or way to really get the moment of the first kiss so we can do it for
awhile and not make it short?
A great first kiss should always be when you're alone with her. A movie theatre is a good place because
it's dark and people won't be paying attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. Somebody
believes that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you're dropping her off at her place or saying
good-bye from seeing one another until the next time, ask her if it's okay if you kiss her. It's not childish
or geeky to ask a woman that. It's respectful and kind.

How should we approach a in the time of our first kiss? Like coming up to him/her and kissing
him/her, how should we do it?
Just act naturally. Walk up to him, put your hands on his shoulders or on his upper arms and kiss him.
There shouldn't be any thought to what is going on. Do what feels comfortable and natural for you. And
you don't need to start off with a huge, open-mouthed kiss, either. Start with a small one and work your
way up, so to speak.
What to do when our lips meet? Somebody feels
fear of messing up when they are going for their
first kiss with a experience partner.
When your lips meet, just gently press yours against
hers. If you wish, you can move your lips a bit back
and forth against hers or in a small circular motion.
The best type of kiss is when you meet hers at a
slight angle. This gives more opportunities to explore,
it feels nicer, and will give you a chance to French
kiss if you wish.

I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend because my nose
is too big, and it might get in the way and that
would be embarrassing. What should I do?
You shouldn't worry about it. Your nose won't get in
the way because your heads will be slightly tilted so
that the noses won't bump straight on. And even
people who have small noses bump occasionally so
don't sweat it. Just enjoy it!

Await "What Type Of Kiss Should We Use The First Time?"
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Manuri · Sep 13, 2006

Kissing is kissing n theres nothing call da first o the last coz all gives the same sensational experience.I jus love kissing ma boyfriend coz hes got so wet lips and it makes me, u know sort of COOL.I think da first kiss should be a tongue touching kiss.neththan kisi gathiyak ne.
if its da first time try to be normal without being abnormal.i know dat it is a bit scary.u will be comfortable with his arms around you,it'll make u cozy.
and also kissing doesn't at all mean dat you r in love coz love is totally different than kissing.kissing is jus temptation and love is da innermost feeling of ur heart.