THE ART OF BODY LANGUAGE
You don’t have to be male-model good looking, incredibly smart, or incredibly rich to be
attractive. But you need to have something that’s far more important than any of those
things. Something that is always with you and always projecting definitive signals which
are imperative for a romantic encounter with a woman.
The right Body Language.
With the right body language, when you enter a room, you will signal the “I’m available,
I’m masculine, I’m aggressive, and I know what I’m doing” vibe to every woman there.
And when you have your target in your sights, you can quickly and easily communicate
to her “I’m interested in you, you attract me, and I want to get to know you better.”
Women pick up on the subtle signals men put out. It’s time you learned how best to use
them to your advantage. And the best way to do this is to learn how to use your body.
This is something everyone can learn how to do, and can help put you on equal footing
with guys who are better looking than you are!
What Your Body Language Should Be
Your appearance is part of your Body Language. Not the appearance you’re born with,
however, but the way you shape how you look. It is through how you rearrange your
appearance that you transmit your sexuality to others.
When you see a beautiful woman with an average or below-average guy, and you ask her
why she finds him attractive, she may say something along the lines of “I don’t know.
It’s just something about him that he has… like an energy or an aura.”
Actually, it’s nothing of the sort. In part, it’s how a man dresses that communicates
certain things to a woman: the type of shirt you wear, the pants you put on, the jackets
and ties you don, your hairstyle, the way you shape your facial hair if you have any, the
length of your sideburns, your tan, the whiteness of your teeth – all these factors
contribute to the immediate image people get of you when they first see you. But even
more important than these things is how you stand and how you walk.
When you move, move with grace. I’m not talking about a ballerina type of grace here,
but rather an “arrogant” sort of grace that will garner attention. In fact, you can directly
translate arrogant grace into “macho swagger.” Think of the way Russell Crow, Bruce
Willis, Brad Pitt, and Mel Gibson walk, and you’ll get an idea of what this is. Its
standing straight, shoulders slightly back (not hunched over), walking and moving with
an easy confidence that’s sure to get people’s attention.
Keep your hands out of your pockets. When you put hands in your pockets, you look like
you have something to hide. By the same token, don’t cross your arms. Crossed arms
make you look guarded and stand-offish.
If you’re looking for something to do with your hands, lock your thumbs in your belt
above your pants pockets, with your fingers pointing down to your crotch. If you lean up
against a wall or a bar, thrust your hips forward slightly (not too much, remember to be
subtle!). This is a stance meant to communicate male sexuality.
You may think this is funny, me giving you advice witch is basically the equivalent of
“Point to your dick!!!!” But look at the psychology behind it.
How many times have you seen this type of pose on TV or in the movies? Not by the
hero, of course, but by the sexy bad boys that women so often swoon for? When the bad
boys do it, it signals to everyone who sees them “I’m a sexual threat. I am a dangerous
man for a woman to want to be with. I am a man and I make no apologies for what I
want!”
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How to meet AMAZING women without fear of rejection!
On a smaller scale, this is exactly what you are communicating as well. But in the bigger
picture, your goal should be to cultivate an aura of sexuality that will fascinate the
available women around you.
Don’t be afraid to take up space. Especially if you’re in a crowded area. You can
communicate this in how you stand and how you sit. Stand straight up, shoulders back,
legs shoulder-length apart, and hold your ground. Don’t let others crowd you. Too often,
men will shrink their personal bubble in crowded areas so as not to touch others. Don’t
do this. Make physical contact with those around you and take up space. This
communicates a type of dominance to others, when they see others giving you the space
you want.
When you sit, lounge. Be comfortable. Sling your arm around the back of the chair.
Expose your crotch. Lean back. Show you’re at home with where you are. (Note: This
doesn’t mean you have to sit like this constantly. Just communicate that you’re
comfortable).
Part of doing this is learning how to read a woman’s body language as well as projecting
yours. Learn to size up the women around you and figure out who’s interested. Look at
the way they stand or sit. Make your choice and catch her eye. If she’s interested, you’ll
see her respond to you in some fashion. If she doesn’t, you might want to consider
moving on to a different target.
Be aware of how her body responds to you while you’re talking. Are her arms clasped
defensively? Open your arms up in response. Is her posture stiff and rigid? Relax your
body as you talk to her. Is her face drawn tight? Smile at her and relax your look.
In other words: Answer her body signals with opposite and complimentary signals of
your own.
This works because you are essentially brushing aside her bad body language and
intruding with your own. Unconsciously, other people want to open up with you, you
just need to make them feel comfortable enough to do so. When you respond with the
opposite body language, you communicate to the woman you’re with that you’re relaxed
and open, and that it’s safe for her to do the same.
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You don’t have to be male-model good looking, incredibly smart, or incredibly rich to be
attractive. But you need to have something that’s far more important than any of those
things. Something that is always with you and always projecting definitive signals which
are imperative for a romantic encounter with a woman.
The right Body Language.
With the right body language, when you enter a room, you will signal the “I’m available,
I’m masculine, I’m aggressive, and I know what I’m doing” vibe to every woman there.
And when you have your target in your sights, you can quickly and easily communicate
to her “I’m interested in you, you attract me, and I want to get to know you better.”
Women pick up on the subtle signals men put out. It’s time you learned how best to use
them to your advantage. And the best way to do this is to learn how to use your body.
This is something everyone can learn how to do, and can help put you on equal footing
with guys who are better looking than you are!
What Your Body Language Should Be
Your appearance is part of your Body Language. Not the appearance you’re born with,
however, but the way you shape how you look. It is through how you rearrange your
appearance that you transmit your sexuality to others.
When you see a beautiful woman with an average or below-average guy, and you ask her
why she finds him attractive, she may say something along the lines of “I don’t know.
It’s just something about him that he has… like an energy or an aura.”
Actually, it’s nothing of the sort. In part, it’s how a man dresses that communicates
certain things to a woman: the type of shirt you wear, the pants you put on, the jackets
and ties you don, your hairstyle, the way you shape your facial hair if you have any, the
length of your sideburns, your tan, the whiteness of your teeth – all these factors
contribute to the immediate image people get of you when they first see you. But even
more important than these things is how you stand and how you walk.
When you move, move with grace. I’m not talking about a ballerina type of grace here,
but rather an “arrogant” sort of grace that will garner attention. In fact, you can directly
translate arrogant grace into “macho swagger.” Think of the way Russell Crow, Bruce
Willis, Brad Pitt, and Mel Gibson walk, and you’ll get an idea of what this is. Its
standing straight, shoulders slightly back (not hunched over), walking and moving with
an easy confidence that’s sure to get people’s attention.
Keep your hands out of your pockets. When you put hands in your pockets, you look like
you have something to hide. By the same token, don’t cross your arms. Crossed arms
make you look guarded and stand-offish.
If you’re looking for something to do with your hands, lock your thumbs in your belt
above your pants pockets, with your fingers pointing down to your crotch. If you lean up
against a wall or a bar, thrust your hips forward slightly (not too much, remember to be
subtle!). This is a stance meant to communicate male sexuality.
You may think this is funny, me giving you advice witch is basically the equivalent of
“Point to your dick!!!!” But look at the psychology behind it.
How many times have you seen this type of pose on TV or in the movies? Not by the
hero, of course, but by the sexy bad boys that women so often swoon for? When the bad
boys do it, it signals to everyone who sees them “I’m a sexual threat. I am a dangerous
man for a woman to want to be with. I am a man and I make no apologies for what I
want!”
The Art of Approaching –
How to meet AMAZING women without fear of rejection!
On a smaller scale, this is exactly what you are communicating as well. But in the bigger
picture, your goal should be to cultivate an aura of sexuality that will fascinate the
available women around you.
Don’t be afraid to take up space. Especially if you’re in a crowded area. You can
communicate this in how you stand and how you sit. Stand straight up, shoulders back,
legs shoulder-length apart, and hold your ground. Don’t let others crowd you. Too often,
men will shrink their personal bubble in crowded areas so as not to touch others. Don’t
do this. Make physical contact with those around you and take up space. This
communicates a type of dominance to others, when they see others giving you the space
you want.
When you sit, lounge. Be comfortable. Sling your arm around the back of the chair.
Expose your crotch. Lean back. Show you’re at home with where you are. (Note: This
doesn’t mean you have to sit like this constantly. Just communicate that you’re
comfortable).
Part of doing this is learning how to read a woman’s body language as well as projecting
yours. Learn to size up the women around you and figure out who’s interested. Look at
the way they stand or sit. Make your choice and catch her eye. If she’s interested, you’ll
see her respond to you in some fashion. If she doesn’t, you might want to consider
moving on to a different target.
Be aware of how her body responds to you while you’re talking. Are her arms clasped
defensively? Open your arms up in response. Is her posture stiff and rigid? Relax your
body as you talk to her. Is her face drawn tight? Smile at her and relax your look.
In other words: Answer her body signals with opposite and complimentary signals of
your own.
This works because you are essentially brushing aside her bad body language and
intruding with your own. Unconsciously, other people want to open up with you, you
just need to make them feel comfortable enough to do so. When you respond with the
opposite body language, you communicate to the woman you’re with that you’re relaxed
and open, and that it’s safe for her to do the same.
ill put one by one.. Today is this lesson. Read it completely
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