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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Dewrangi" data-source="post: 16228522" data-attributes="member: 465964">I am not a brother, a sister here, 35 years old and who is happily married for several years. There is no special tension or any strain, this is the reality of the life as long as you haven't attained NIRVANA. මේ සංසාරෙම දුකක් කියල ඔයා බුද්ධාගමේ  නම් අහල ඇතිනේ. Everyday, in every moment,... you compromise, you sacrifice, you love, you wait being patient, you cry, you get angry, you do all these things without any effort to live your life. For an example, In your work place,sometimes, you have to tolerate a really selfish (or person who is cheating) colleague, if you want to be a good team player, so you compromise and try to achieve the target without leaving the job. Same simple theory apply for the marriage. The difference is your perspective, the way you look at it. The thing is, you cannot be the same person,that who you have been in your work place, to secure your family life. Instead, you'd say, oh it is really stressful, strain, no independence,.... you name it and you'd give up. The difference is, if you want it, there is no stress (actually you just ignore it), if you don't want it, of course, it is a hell, and you'll find thousands of reasons to complain.Nothing in this world is not so convenient, unless you adapt yourself accordingly. Each moment of life is a challenge for any living thing, only the way of perceiving it, differs from one person or animal to another, so then it becomes convenient or inconvenient. It is your responsibility to live in a convenient way, and cherish each and every moment in the life. It is just your attitude. If you really want to be free, go and follow the path to NIRVANA,  මුළු ජිවිතයම අට ලෝ දහමට අවනතයි..<img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/yes.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":yes:" title="Yes    :yes:" data-shortname=":yes:" /><img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/yes.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":yes:" title="Yes    :yes:" data-shortname=":yes:" /> </blockquote>

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