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Message: <blockquote data-quote="twisted" data-source="post: 16228602" data-attributes="member: 82108">Never said you were a brother <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/happy.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":)" title="Happy    :)" data-shortname=":)" />.all I'm saying is you live in a culture where you from the very beginning are conditioned to believe you won't be happy unless you share your life with a partner..I don't think making compromises at the workplace quite come close to doing it on a daily basis at  home to make a partner happy and to make yourself happy with that partner..marriage or love aren't thing you can take a break from. I don't know about you, I myself sometimes want to take a break and be myself. but if you will, you can take comfort in your misery. I bet in your years of marriage you wanted at least once or twice to be free from all that didn't you. the point is, you don't have to make above mentioned sacrifices and compromises if you are not depending on other people like you do in a marriage. it's sort of freaky that you all think making sacrifices is actually ok where it is not. people need people, I'm not talking about total isolation, but in love, you pay for things you didn't bargain for in the first place...that's just not good business..and now don't tell me love or marriage isn't business..cos it is. you give them something, they give you something.</blockquote>

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