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Message: <blockquote data-quote="twisted" data-source="post: 16229061" data-attributes="member: 82108">you make it sound too personal. I couldn't get past the first few lines of your post cos I'm not interested in your personal information. but from what I gathered, you take my view as a personal attack which I promise it was not. I addressed you assuming you were regular which you may not be, still I stand corrected where it is applied to the masses. I can totally appreciate the fact that you can enjoy your marriage, man, I'm even glad for you, yet, the fact that it puts unnecessary weight on ones shoulders is not to be ignored. kinda in the same league as your overstressful job. it could have been your marriage fortunate for you which it wasn't. both require a normal human being do something he/she wasn't meant to in the first place. your a research scientist doing rather stressful work why?cos it satisfies you in a sense of duty to your fellow human beings? or you contrive for greater goodness at the cost  of your own freedom? or is it for money? I know not. but the way I see things, it achieves nothing however important to world it may seem to you, it changes nothing. world will be what it is, people will be who they are...same as in your ability to raise a family in love, though it worked for you, somebody else will try to do it for other reasons, love change, what if you wake up next morning to find yourself not anymore in love with your husband anymore? it happens doesn't it. or what if your husband couldn't love you anymore? what'd you do then? these are all practical problems that come with holy matrimony <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/happy.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":)" title="Happy    :)" data-shortname=":)" /> too much to deal with when you are emotionally involved. same with your profession and your marriage.amendment..I later did read your whole post twice. you have pulled through many a point that could have gone wrong, that other people get wrong. lucky you. you think if they went thru the hardship and failed, (hardship don't guarantee perfect success, you had other good counterparts working for you like your husband), you think it would've still been worthwhile? in another time, another place, your hubby might not have waited for you asleep or awake at the railway station...you might not have gotten your academic qualifications. and in this time and place, it happens to majority, all in the name of love, good future according to todays standards and marriage. rare and lucky(?) are the ones who get all these. <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/happy.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":)" title="Happy    :)" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

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