Misconceptions about women in Islam (Mature Answer to All Question)

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Misconceptions about women in Islam

There are some misconceptions that have been widely propagated about women and their rights in Islam. These misconceptions are often repeated by some that maliciously seek to defame Islam and Muslims. Women throughout the past centuries of Islam have been honored, respected, and dignified. The crimes of some who deviate do not reflect upon the principles and laws on which Islam is based. We shall present some answers to these common misconceptions that have been publicized about women's rights in Islam and the position of women in Islam in general. In this presentation I will try to clarify the position of the true Islam (Submission) From my Authentic Religious Material on the status of women.

 
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  • මෙන්න එහෙනං මේවටත් උත්තර දෙමු බලන්න

    1. කාන්තාවකට සිය ස්වාමි පුරුෂයා දික්කසාද කළ හැකිද? හැකි නම් ඒ කෙසේද? එය පුරුෂයකු සිය බිරිද දික්කසාද කිරීමේ ක්‍රියාවලිය සමග සන්සන්දනය කර පෙන්වන්න

    2. හිජාබ් නොඅදින / මුස්ලිම් නොවන කාන්තාවක් මුස්ලිම් පිරිමියකු අතින් දූෂණයට ලක් වූවොත් ඇයට දඩුවම් ලැබෙනවාද නැද්ද? ඒ සදහා අවශ්‍ය සාක්ෂි මොනවාද?

    කට් ඇන්ඩ් පේස්ට් වික්‍රමය නැතිව, අදාල කුරාන පාඨ එක්ක උත්තර දෙමු බලන්න. වැල්වටාරම් එපා. ප්‍රශ්නෙට විතරක් උත්තරේ දෙන්න.
     

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    yes a women can divorce her husband.,
    "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best" (Quran 4:128).

    if a muslim did that no matter she is a muslim or non muslim definitely get the punishment.in Islam no law differentiate for Muslims and non Muslims because the islamic law for all the mankind.
    and laws of modesty for man in quran;

    "Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do." [Al-Qur’an 24:30]

    for women;
    "And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons...." [Al-Qur’an 24:31]

    Sûrah al An'am 6.120
    ”Abandon all harm (ithm), whether committed openly or in secret.”

    Sûrah al 49:11-12 points out categorically that emotionally abusive language and behavior is not acceptable.
    "You who believe do not let one (set of) people make fun of another set. Do not defame one another. Do not insult by using nicknames. And do not backbite or speak ill of one another."

    Sûrah an Nâs 4.119
    'O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will...'


    http://www.islamcalling.com/islam/faqislam/why_islam.htm
     

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    yes a women can divorce her husband.,
    "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best" (Quran 4:128).

    if a muslim did that no matter she is a muslim or non muslim definitely get the punishment.in Islam no law differentiate for Muslims and non Muslims because the islamic law for all the mankind.
    and laws of modesty for man in quran;

    "Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do." [Al-Qur’an 24:30]

    for women;
    "And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons...." [Al-Qur’an 24:31]

    Sûrah al An'am 6.120
    ”Abandon all harm (ithm), whether committed openly or in secret.”

    Sûrah al 49:11-12 points out categorically that emotionally abusive language and behavior is not acceptable.
    "You who believe do not let one (set of) people make fun of another set. Do not defame one another. Do not insult by using nicknames. And do not backbite or speak ill of one another."

    Sûrah an Nâs 4.119
    'O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will...'


    http://www.islamcalling.com/islam/faqislam/why_islam.htm

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    Wal Bada

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  • yes a women can divorce her husband.,
    "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best" (Quran 4:128)
    Give us the process. Perhaps it's not simple as saying or messaging "Thalaq" thrice.


    if a muslim did that no matter she is a muslim or non muslim definitely get the punishment.
    I am asking about the part of women. Will she be punished for adultery or not?

    Sûrah an Nâs 4.119
    'O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will...'
    But you can inherit women if their husbands are killed at war or if they are slaves. Isn't it?
     

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    Another cut and paste job. Yanne koheda malle pol.

    the Material i pasted here, has not protected under any copyright law. we muslim in every matter use the references and experience of our elders. Not we all other also use material for their support.

    Honest people Don't see who is presenting but they see what he is presenting. I think if you will be honest in removing your confusion and misconception about islam you will stop confusing and misleading other peoples also in your thread "Top 10 Quotes from Quran about Women"

    i am expecting good from you.


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    Give us the process. Perhaps it's not simple as saying or messaging "Thalaq" thrice.

    One of the most natural and logical ways to help maintain a successful marriage is to let the man have more control over the divorce process than the woman because it is the man who is financially obliged to take care of his wife, household and family, and has ultimate responsibility of their welfare. Therefore, he must rationally assess the situation, grave consequences, and huge financial and emotional loss that will result from a divorce. The husband will lose the dowry he spent for the marriage, and will have to pay the alimony and child support, as well as any newly acquired expenses from a new marriage on top of that. Thus, with all these considerations, he will not act just out of quick anger, fickleness or passing emotion.

    A man is more capable - at least theoretically - of controlling his flitting emotions and personal reactions when upset about the smaller issues in life, especially in terms of disputes with his wife. Divorce should never be a quick reaction for some suffering, misunderstandings, or differences of viewpoints, but only as a last resort and final solution when life becomes dangerously problematic and intolerable, wherein both spouse are afraid that they will not be able to abide by the limits set by Allah and His Prophet about respectable behavior with one another.

    Islamic jurisprudence permits the wife to have her marriage nullified upon her request if the husband abuses her physically or verbally. She is also entitled to have the marriage nullified for the following general reasons:

    if the husband is impotent and cannot perform his marital duties,

    or if the husband for any reason, refuses to have sexual relations with his wife and fulfill her lawful needs,

    or is afflicted with a disabling terminal illness after the marriage,

    or contracts any type of venereal or reproductive disease that may harm the wife or make her lose her desire to be with her husband. Thus, we see that the woman is given the right to seek separation from her husband for legitimate reasons in many situations, exactly as the man has the right to seek divorce. If a wife reaches the extreme limits of patience and abhors her husband, feeling that life is unbearable, then she has the right to divorce. This form of divorce is called annulment, or "Khula", wherein she pays compensation by returning her dowry or some other property. A competent Muslim judge will look into the individual case if the husband refuses to accept the wife's request and if the request is considered sound and valid, will pass a judgment in favor of the woman.



    I am asking about the part of women. Will she be punished for adultery or not?

    In the case of adultery, Islam requires four witnesses to testify that they have seen the offence, or else, a clear and confirmed confession by the perpetrators.

    Islamic law (Sharee'ah) prescribes a very heavy penalty for adultery. However, Islam does not legislate such a penalty without first putting in place sufficient legislation that protects people against falling in sin. It also ensures that the punishment is not enforced except in cases where there is certainty about the offence and its perpetrators. Islam is a complete code of living that is not based on punishment. Its basis is to provide all that promotes a clean and morally pure life. If some individuals then abandon such a clean and easy life in order to deliberately submerge themselves into filth, they incur such heavy penalty.

    Allaah Almighty Says in the Noble Quran (what means):

    "The [Unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse— lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion [i.e. law] of Allaah, if you should believe in Allaah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment. The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that [i.e. marriage to such persons] has been made unlawful to the believers. And those who accuse chaste women (of adultery) and then do not produce four witnesses — lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed Allaah is Forgiving and Merciful." [Quran 24: 2-5]


    But you can inherit women if their husbands are killed at war or if they are slaves. Isn't it?

    in any case A woman has her set share of inheritance, as will be discussed in more detail later, which was a right unthinkable in many societies.

    Allah (The Almighty) says:

    (There is a share for men from what is left by parents and those closely related, and there is a share for women from what is left by parents and those closely related, whether the wealth be small or large: a legal mandatory share.)
     

    Wal Bada

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  • One of the most natural and logical ways to help maintain a successful marriage is to let the man have more control over the divorce process than the woman because it is the man who is financially obliged to take care of his wife, household and family, and has ultimate responsibility of their welfare.
    That is the very reason that women should be allowed more control over divorce as woman will only seek divorce when the above things are not fulfilled. When above things are not fulfilled there's no use in beating about the bush talking about the things that does not happen.

    Therefore, he must rationally assess the situation, grave consequences, and huge financial and emotional loss that will result from a divorce. The husband will lose the dowry he spent for the marriage, and will have to pay the alimony and child support, as well as any newly acquired expenses from a new marriage on top of that. Thus, with all these considerations, he will not act just out of quick anger, fickleness or passing emotion.
    Once again යන්නෙ කොහෙද, මල්ලෙ පොල් answer. I am seeing the problem in women's viewpoint, but you keep on answering from man's viewpoint. Maybe there's nothing called woman's viewpoint in Islam, and that may be the reason for you to keep on putting rubbish.

    A man is more capable - at least theoretically - of controlling his flitting emotions and personal reactions when upset about the smaller issues in life, especially in terms of disputes with his wife.
    Bollocks. The number of women admitting the hospitals beaten (even Muslim ones) testify otherwise.

    Divorce should never be a quick reaction for some suffering, misunderstandings, or differences of viewpoints, but only as a last resort and final solution when life becomes dangerously problematic and intolerable, wherein both spouse are afraid that they will not be able to abide by the limits set by Allah and His Prophet about respectable behavior with one another.
    Once again යන්නෙ කොහෙද, මල්ලෙ පොල් answer. I am seeing the problem in women's viewpoint, but you keep on answering from man's viewpoint. Maybe there's nothing called woman's viewpoint in Islam, and that may be the reason for you to keep on putting rubbish.

    Islamic jurisprudence permits the wife to have her marriage nullified upon her request if the husband abuses her physically or verbally. She is also entitled to have the marriage nullified for the following general reasons:

    if the husband is impotent and cannot perform his marital duties,

    or if the husband for any reason, refuses to have sexual relations with his wife and fulfill her lawful needs,

    or is afflicted with a disabling terminal illness after the marriage,
    Give the Quran quote please.


    In the case of adultery, Islam requires four witnesses to testify that they have seen the offence, or else, a clear and confirmed confession by the perpetrators.
    Male or female?

    And do you think that a rape will happen with four people watching it?


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    The [Unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse— lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion [i.e. law] of Allaah, if you should believe in Allaah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment. The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that [i.e. marriage to such persons] has been made unlawful to the believers. And those who accuse chaste women (of adultery) and then do not produce four witnesses — lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed Allaah is Forgiving and Merciful." [Quran 24: 2-5]
    Don't run away from the question. I am not asking about adultery. My question is will a rape victim charged for adultery if she's not wearing hijab or if she's a kafir. Be specific and answer the question.

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    i don't need to answer your question and self interpretition because a person if read the whole topic can easily understand the matter theme..
    but i answer for more explaination


    That is the very reason that women should be allowed more control over divorce as woman will only seek divorce when the above things are not fulfilled. When above things are not fulfilled there's no use in beating about the bush talking about the things that does not happen.

    In islamic society all these things fullfilled therefore command it also to muslim peoples not you....


    Once again යන්නෙ කොහෙද, මල්ලෙ පොල් answer. I am seeing the problem in women's viewpoint, but you keep on answering from man's viewpoint. Maybe there's nothing called woman's viewpoint in Islam, and that may be the reason for you to keep on putting rubbish.

    Bollocks. The number of women admitting the hospitals beaten (even Muslim ones) testify otherwise.

    why you are not quoting full paragraph with reference.
    why you are seeing the problem in women's viewpoint...have you a NGO for women rights..

    boy islam has given so much care and attention to the women which no other religion and nation has given..you can read my other articles given on women situation in other nation in history...if you read quran you will see the Quran has given more attention and give relaxation to general women then men ...ALas this require a neutral search...

    hafizsaad said:
    Divorce should never be a quick reaction for some suffering, misunderstandings, or differences of viewpoints, but only as a last resort and final solution when life becomes dangerously problematic and intolerable, wherein both spouse are afraid that they will not be able to abide by the limits set by Allah and His Prophet about respectable behavior with one another.

    Once again යන්නෙ කොහෙද, මල්ලෙ පොල් answer. I am seeing the problem in women's viewpoint, but you keep on answering from man's viewpoint. Maybe there's nothing called woman's viewpoint in Islam, and that may be the reason for you to keep on putting rubbish.

    what you have problem with the statement given ,Divorce should never be a quick reaction for some suffering, misunderstandings, or differences of viewpoints


    hafizsaad said:
    Islamic jurisprudence permits the wife to have her marriage nullified upon her request if the husband abuses her physically or verbally. She is also entitled to have the marriage nullified for the following general reasons:

    if the husband is impotent and cannot perform his marital duties,

    or if the husband for any reason, refuses to have sexual relations with his wife and fulfill her lawful needs,

    or is afflicted with a disabling terminal illness after the marriage,


    Give the Quran quote please.
    The Qur'an thus states:

    "And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them, and men are a degree above them." (Qur'an 2:228).

    According to Islamic Law, women cannot be forced to marry anyone without their consent.

    Ibn Abbas reported that a girl came to the Messenger of God, Muhammad (P.), and she reported that her father had forced her to marry without her consent. The Messenger of God gave her the choice . . . (between accepting the marriage or invalidating it). (Ibn Hanbal No. 2469). In another version, the girl said: "Actually I accept this marriage but I wanted to let women know that parents have no right (to force a husband on them)" (Ibn Maja, No. 1873).

    The Qur'an states:

    "...But consort with them in kindness, for if you hate them it may happen that you hate a thing wherein God has placed much good." (Qur'an 4: l9).

    Prophet Muhammad. (P) said:

    The best of you is the best to his family and I am the best among you to my family.

    The most perfect believers are the best in conduct and best of you are those who are best to their wives. (Ibn-Hanbal, No. 7396)

    Behold, many women came to Muhammad's wives complaining against their husbands (because they beat them) - - those (husbands) are not the best of you.

    As the woman's right to decide about her marriage is recognized, so also her right to seek an end for an unsuccessful marriage is recognized. To provide for the stability of the family, however, and in order to protect it from hasty decisions under temporary emotional stress, certain steps and waiting periods should be observed by men and women seeking divorce. Considering the relatively more emotional nature of women, a good reason for asking for divorce should be brought before the judge. Like the man, however, the woman can divorce her husband with out resorting to the court, if the nuptial contract allows that.

    More specifically, some aspects of Islamic Law concerning marriage and divorce are interesting and are worthy of separate treatment.

    When the continuation of the marriage relationship is impossible for any reason, men are still taught to seek a gracious end for it.

    The Qur'an states about such cases:

    When you divorce women, and they reach their prescribed term, then retain them in kindness and retain them not for injury so that you transgress (the limits). (Qur'an 2:231). (See also Qur'an 2:229 and 33:49).




    In the case of adultery, Islam requires four witnesses to testify that they have seen the offence, or else, a clear and confirmed confession by the perpetrators.


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    Male or female?

    And do you think that a rape will happen with four people watching it?

    "Don't run away from the question. I am not asking about adultery. My question is will a rape victim charged for adultery if she's not wearing hijab or if she's a kafir. Be specific and answer the question.

    what you mean for rape ,we say is adultery from men without women permission and intention..

    i have given the answer see it again

    The [Unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse— lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion [i.e. law] of Allaah, if you should believe in Allaah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment. The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that [i.e. marriage to such persons] has been made unlawful to the believers. And those who accuse chaste women (of adultery) and then do not produce four witnesses — lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed Allaah is Forgiving and Merciful." [Quran 24: 2-5]

    no rape victim charged for adultery if she's not wearing hijab or if she's a kafir.
     

    Wal Bada

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  • what you mean for rape ,we say is adultery from men without women permission and intention..
    What I get from your post is rape <> adultery. Adultery can be done if only one of the parties is unmarried. Rape is sexual act without consent, and it does not care if the woman is married, unmarried, wife or slave.

    The [Unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse— lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion [i.e. law] of Allaah, if you should believe in Allaah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment. The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that [i.e. marriage to such persons] has been made unlawful to the believers. And those who accuse chaste women (of adultery) and then do not produce four witnesses — lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed Allaah is Forgiving and Merciful." [Quran 24: 2-5]
    It says nothing of Married man having sex with his wife with her consent, which is equal to rape in modern society.
     

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    It says nothing of Married man having sex with his wife with her consent, which is equal to rape in modern society.

    what you are saying " Married man having sex with his wife with her consent is equal to rape in modern society"

    is this a reality
     
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    no rape victim charged for adultery if she's not wearing hijab or if she's a kafir.
    I guess this settles alot of things

    My mean to upper statement was a women if she don't commit adultry and not wearing hijab or she is kafir women just will not be punished like punish given to adultery.
    no punishment for not wearing hijaab in this world but hearafter.

    punishment for adultery are only for who commit that.
     

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    What I get from your post is rape <> adultery. Adultery can be done if only one of the parties is unmarried. Rape is sexual act without consent, and it does not care if the woman is married, unmarried, wife or slave.

    It says nothing of Married man having sex with his wife with her consent, which is equal to rape in modern society.

    Rape in Islam - Quranic perspective and its misconceptions


    Rape is a sexual, social, and violent crime that has been continuously on the rise as the morals of the society decline and the religious values deteriorate. The religion of Submission (Islam in Arabic), like all the monotheistic religions, looks down with disgrace on all kinds of crimes, including of course sexual crimes. Rape, being a combination of several kinds of crimes wrapped in one name is therefore, one of the worst.

    As we all know, rape is different than adultery or fornication where there is a consensual agreement on having sex. It is also different than prostitution where sex out of marriage is paid for. Rape involves an attempt to empower a weaker or a threatened person to accept unwillingly the sexual advance of the attacker. Most sociologists look at rape as a violent crime based on oppression of another person. God in the Quran , condemns all the elements that constitute the crime of rape, i.e. Sex, violence, and oppression.

    God strongly condemns any kind of sexual relationships out side of marriage.

    [5:5] …….. You shall maintain CHASTITY, not committing adultery, nor taking secret lovers. Anyone who rejects faith, all his work will be in vain, and in the Hereafter he will be with the losers.

    [24:30] Tell the believing men that they shall subdue their eyes (and not stare at the women), and to maintain their CHASTITY. This is purer for them. GOD is fully Cognizant of everything they do.

    [24:31] And tell the believing women to subdue their eyes, and maintain their CHASTITY.

    About the believers; God teaches us;

    [23:5] And they maintain their CHASTITY.

    And in Sura (Chapter) 70, again

    [70:29] They keep their CHASTITY.

    In addition to condemnation of the sexual crime involved in rape as we can see above, God strongly condemns the oppression element of rape in the strongest possible language. God, in the Quran, describes oppression as "worse than murder." This puts rape among the worst crimes committed by a human being in the sight of God.

    [2:191] …….. OPPRESSION is worse than murder. See also, [2:217]

    God in the Quran also did not save the words to condemn prostitution, especially when oppression and forcing the young girls is a factor and this makes it different than a prostitution practiced by consenting adults, and it would place it in the category of rape. Of course both kinds are condemned but adding the oppression factor changes its nature into a rape with its consequence of higher need for a stronger punishment.

    [24:33] ……..You shall not force your girls to commit prostitution, seeking the materials of this world, if they wish to be chaste. If anyone forces them, then GOD, seeing that they are forced, is Forgiver, Merciful.

    From the above Quranic position we see that Rape is one of the hideous crimes and one of the worst in the sight of God. It is considered a complicated crime that involves violence, oppression and sex.

    The punishment for such crime however was not assigned any one specific punishment to allow every case to be judged individually and according to every community standard keeping in mind that it is one of the worst crimes and therefore expected to be given the worst punishment permitted under the civil law allowed in every community.

    There has been a misconception and confusion regarding rape and its relation to another sexual crime, adultery. The confusion connecting rape and adultery should not exist as both are two different crimes and their circumstances and punishments cannot be the same. They are not looked at them as the same nor given an equal treatment in Submission (Islam). The need for four witnesses in case of adultery when no other evidence exists does not apply in cases of rape where modern science allows the use of advanced techniques to identify the rapist with the highest accuracy. The victims of rape, if they notify the authority immediately, will have enough proofs to convict most, if not al,l the accused rapists, as the physical facts including semen, saliva, blood, hair, fibers, skin scraps, bite marks,.....etc. are so many and easy to identify to convict the rapist. There is no truth to the claimed rumor that the rape victim has to present four witnesses to prove the rape when there are so many other physical proofs. This requirement is needed only if a person who has no other proof accused an un-expected person of such a crime. In our modern society, no one will be convicted with no proof or any person can accuse any person at any time with no proof and gets away with it. Islam is justice, for both the victim and the accused. The least of the proofs is eyewitness, and God sees to it that the four witnesses (who do not have to be men) , will be a better guarantee against a deliberate plot to scheme an innocent person. The wrong application and/or understanding of the Quranic law related to rape in Submission (Islam) is but a reflection of the desertion of these so called "Islamic" countries" to the law of the Quran in favor for their man made laws, or corrupted religious laws originated from sources other than the Quran. Anti Islamic campaigners try to take advantage of these wrong application of the law and to slander Submission (Islam) in the eyes of the ignorant public who do not educate themselves about the true nature of Islam.

    Other lies and misconceptions about Submission (Islam) and rape/sexual assault:

    *Islam (Submission) treats both men and women equally and a woman victim of rape cannot be blamed for the crime that happened to her. There is no where in the Quran any indication to blame the rape victim instead of blaming the rapist. When and if this happens, it does not represent Islam but represents cultural understanding and man made laws, not God's commands in the Quran.

    *The so called sex slaves, or captives of wars are not permitted in Islam, nor the rape of women captured during war. No slaves are allowed any more in Islam. All the stories circulating around and found on some sites on the Internet or missionaries' books are derived from the corruption deliberately spread in the books called Hadith and Sunna which were written about 200 years after the death of the prophet Muhammad. These books do not represent Islam nor the Islamic law, but rather represent man made laws written against the commands of the prophet Muhammed and the commands of God in the Quran. None of these Hadith stories and its corruption represent Islam, and should never be used to represent Submission(Islam). Submission is represented by God's law (Quran alone) and it is very clear in the Quran. A book, that God called complete, perfect and fully detailed. Islam holds the highest moral values when it comes to the prisoners of wars and their rights. Women captured during war time are not possession of the victorious army as some claim, but they are to be treated like all prisoners of wars with respect and dignity. Islam does not give any permission to abuse these women, use them as sex slaves, rape them or force them to marry anyone. If any Muslim army broke these laws at any time during the old days or recent days, they were only representing their own failure and they never represented Islam (Submission). Their action cannot be considered representing Islam as much the action of Adolf Hitler cannot be considered as representing the peaceful loving side of Christianity.

    We have an obligation to educate the public and increase their awareness of this crime and how it is handled in a just manner in Submission (Islam). We should make every effort to try to move the people back to the beautiful moral values called for by God in the scripture. Only then we will see this crime diminishing and the safety of our loved ones increased by the protection of God.
     

    senator

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    Sometimes, it is easier for a Muslim wife to divorce her husband than for a Buddhist/Hindu wife to get a divorce.

    One example - If a Muslim husband is sent to jail for life, then his wife can get a divorce on that ground in our country. But that privilege is not available to a Buddhist/Catholic/Hindu wives.

    That is only in our country. I don't know about other countries.