Please appreciate "HER"

rajitha_ks

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    To all the guys who read this…..please read fully and understand…………..

    T he woman in your life...very well expressed...


    Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

    Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
    Who is earning almost as much as you do;

    One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
    you have because she is as human as you are;

    One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
    Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
    that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

    One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
    much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

    One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

    One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

    One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
    food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
    and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
    a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
    to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

    One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

    Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
    Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

    One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

    One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
    relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
    and trust her;

    One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your untainted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.


    But not many guys understand this......


    Please appreciate "HER"


    got it through a mail.. thought worth sharing with you all


     

    king_pandukabaya

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    Very good post bro. What I understood from this is Women can have their freedom as men. Actually women work more than men. They work very hard and they are sacrificing their entire life for the family.
    If you can't appreciate Her, don't marry her. Marriage if the greatest and most challenging responsibility of a person. If you are not matured enough for that responsibility, It is better to be single without making some nice girl's life miserable
     

    rajitha_ks

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    Very good post bro. What I understood from this is Women can have their freedom as men. Actually women work more than men. They work very hard and they are sacrificing their entire life for the family.
    If you can't appreciate Her, don't marry her. Marriage if the greatest and most challenging responsibility of a person. If you are not matured enough for that responsibility, It is better to be single without making some nice girl's life miserable

    i agree with you 100%
     

    Silver bird

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    Great Post !
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    Sorry to say that girls are undervalued in our society.:nerd:

    Very good post bro. What I understood from this is Women can have their freedom as men. Actually women work more than men. They work very hard and they are sacrificing their entire life for the family.
    If you can't appreciate Her, don't marry her. Marriage if the greatest and most challenging responsibility of a person. If you are not matured enough for that responsibility, It is better to be single without making some nice girl's life miserable

    :yes::yes::yes::yes:
     
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    hansi_party

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    To all the guys who read this…..please read fully and understand…………..

    T he woman in your life...very well expressed...


    Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

    Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
    Who is earning almost as much as you do;

    One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
    you have because she is as human as you are;

    One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
    Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
    that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

    One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
    much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

    One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

    One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

    One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
    food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
    and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
    a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
    to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

    One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

    Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
    Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

    One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

    One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
    relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
    and trust her;

    One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your untainted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.


    But not many guys understand this......


    Please appreciate "HER"


    got it through a mail.. thought worth sharing with you all



    so correctly thought... :yes:
    but most of the people dont think like this or dont LIKE to think in this way..very good post friend! thanx for sharing...


    Very good post bro. What I understood from this is Women can have their freedom as men. Actually women work more than men. They work very hard and they are sacrificing their entire life for the family.
    If you can't appreciate Her, don't marry her. Marriage if the greatest and most challenging responsibility of a person. If you are not matured enough for that responsibility, It is better to be single without making some nice girl's life miserable

    totally agree... greatly thought... ;)

    I felt sad reading this ..dunno for whom, but I just did lolz...thanks man.

    same here.... felt soo sad... :(
     
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    rajitha_ks

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    so correctly thought... :yes:
    but most of the people dont think like this or dont LIKE to think in this way..very good post friend! thanx for sharing...

    by looking at the replies you can be assured that at least a few girls will be treated nicely in their married lives :)