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Message: <blockquote data-quote="gunemalli" data-source="post: 10082085" data-attributes="member: 243932">Why do you wanna change her? Opposites attract and that's what  gives a relationship the beauty. Me and my girlfriend is the same, kind of opposites as you have described. I liked it about her. It gives me a whole new perspective. Once i got to know her more and more we found more and more common things between us. That made our relationship strong.Never try to change the other person, once you go on both of you will automatically adapt to each others tastes IF both of you put your effort into it. The most important thing is trust and understanding. If one of it breaks then it's gonna be a bumpy ride.Let her know that what ever happens you are there for her. You care for her more than anything. Be a friend, a good listener, a shoulder to cry on. Once you start you will get these automatically.And one last thing don't ever put rules and regulations into a relationship. It only ruins it. If she does something you don't like, just tell her that you don't like what she's doing and it hurts your feelings. Don't be the dominating person. I hope both of you are at least 16/17+. Both of you should know right from wrong hence the above. You are not children to say don't do this and that. Remind her about that.I say these things from my experience. This my 1st crush/love from 2003/04 and still going strong and we'll be getting married in a couple of years.</blockquote>

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