Please Guys/Girls need a help about a Girl...

NJK4EVER

Well-known member
  • Apr 14, 2009
    1,518
    130
    63
    Colombo
    I have come to know a very beautiful girl through FB... I know what you thinking now, that it's a fake profile... :P Well, it's not she has come to my mom's class in our house.. So she's REAL.

    We can't really talk at our house, because my mom is always around her and she's scared to talk to me infront of her.

    The problem is that she's not my type.
    I listen to mostly kadda songs :P she to sinhala songs...
    Her tastes are different....

    Can that be changed??
    She's interested in me too, I know that and her hints say that well.

    What should I do???? Is it good to start a relationship with this girl just because she's sooooooooooo beautiful???
    :(
     
    Last edited:

    KPZ

    Well-known member
  • Apr 15, 2011
    17,331
    1,622
    113
    where I wanna be
    අයියෝ... ඕවත් ප්‍රශ්නද බං... love එක පටන් ගනිං බං... help දෙනම් අපි
     
    • Like
    Reactions: NJK4EVER

    reaper88

    Junior member
  • Nov 9, 2010
    40
    3
    8
    yeah! macho.. start karapan... umbala dennatama kohe hari mutual understanding ekak thiyey.. I mean dennama like karana monawahari ethi... eken patan ganin anik beri ewa, eyata kemathi widihata hadaganna.. :)
     
    • Like
    Reactions: NJK4EVER

    NJK4EVER

    Well-known member
  • Apr 14, 2009
    1,518
    130
    63
    Colombo
    adoh.... that's the same thing i was thinking....
    Is it a good thing to try to change her??? :)
    Or should I change to her ways????? :(
     

    PitPot

    Banned
    May 8, 2011
    55
    6
    0
    100% එක වගේ අදහස් තියෙන උන් මැරි කාලාම කිසි ගතියක් නැහැ නෙ බන්.. වෙනස් කෙල්ලෙක් උනාම තම ජොලි
     
    • Like
    Reactions: NJK4EVER

    NJK4EVER

    Well-known member
  • Apr 14, 2009
    1,518
    130
    63
    Colombo
    100% එක වගේ අදහස් තියෙන උන් මැරි කාලාම කිසි ගතියක් නැහැ නෙ බන්.. වෙනස් කෙල්ලෙක් උනාම තම ජොලි

    ow ekath aththa thama....
    eth adahas galapenne nathuwa kohomada bun digatama okak karanne????
     

    Rushie510

    Member
    Jan 27, 2011
    1,046
    137
    0
    It's never a good idea to start a relationship just based on a person's looks. I mean, what would you do if she lost her looks due to some illness or something? Try to find some common grounds and interests, because Love without friendship and understanding never lasts. And don't try to change her or yourself. A relationship means that both people adjust
    to eachother's differences. Try to do that through friendship. Good luck bro. :)
     
    • Like
    Reactions: NJK4EVER

    PitPot

    Banned
    May 8, 2011
    55
    6
    0
    ow ekath aththa thama....
    eth adahas galapenne nathuwa kohomada bun digatama okak karanne????
    අදහස් ගැලපෙන්න ඕන නැහැ බන්. ඇත්තට ලව් කරන කොට දෙන්නම අනිත් එක්කෙනා ආස විදිහට නිකම්ම හැඩ ගැහෙනවා
     

    Muzain

    Well-known member
  • Aug 23, 2006
    4,285
    51
    48
    In the hell naaaa.... may be in heaven
    I have come to know a very beautiful girl through FB... I know what you thinking now, that it's a fake profile... :P Well, it's not she has come to my mom's class in our house.. So she's REAL.

    We can't really talk at our house, because my mom is always around her and she's scared to talk to me infront of her.

    The problem is that she's not my type.
    I listen to mostly kadda songs :P she to sinhala songs...
    Her tastes are different....

    Can that be changed??
    She's interested in me too, I know that and her hints say that well.

    What should I do???? Is it good to start a relationship with this girl just because she's sooooooooooo beautiful???
    :(

    Just Start it unless ur sure that you can handle it :):)

    If not leave it because love is not sweet as it seems
     
    • Like
    Reactions: NJK4EVER

    NJK4EVER

    Well-known member
  • Apr 14, 2009
    1,518
    130
    63
    Colombo
    It's never a good idea to start a relationship just based on a person's looks. I mean, what would you do if she lost her looks due to some illness or something? Try to find some common grounds and interests, because Love without friendship and understanding never lasts. And don't try to change her or yourself. A relationship means that both people adjust
    to eachother's differences. Try to do that through friendship. Good luck bro. :)

    wow.. thanks...
    You've just given me more to think... :)
     

    Rushie510

    Member
    Jan 27, 2011
    1,046
    137
    0
    wow.. thanks...
    You've just given me more to think... :)

    seriously, don't ever start anything like this without thinking about every aspect of it, (if one or both of the couple is intending it to be serious) you may think you can just stop if it doesn't work out. but trust me, it really causes a lot of pain you, even if you are the person stopping it. If neither person intends the affair to become serious, then it's fine. But usually you become emotionally involved even without intending to. So think carefully. :)
     

    NJK4EVER

    Well-known member
  • Apr 14, 2009
    1,518
    130
    63
    Colombo
    seriously, don't ever start anything like this without thinking about every aspect of it, (if one or both of the couple is intending it to be serious) you may think you can just stop if it doesn't work out. but trust me, it really causes a lot of pain you, even if you are the person stopping it. If neither person intends the affair to become serious, then it's fine. But usually you become emotionally involved even without intending to. So think carefully. :)

    ya exactly, that's what i am afraid of...
    However much we try we finally end up falling for her...
    So I don't wanna see this end in utter failure and pain for both of us, a bigger concern is it's her first love (if this happens) so....
    :(
     

    Prince_ovaro

    Member
    Mar 26, 2011
    131
    12
    0
    it doesnt matter if ur dffrnt does it??dts da whole point of having a girlfriend,accepting someone whose nt mostly like you.... all dat matters in a relatinshp is hw much ur willing to careeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! y r rainbows so precious???? just beacause it has all those colors mixed up and it looks divine....just start the affair and see where it takes you to,and also bro it doesnt mattr what type of songs ur into,ive gt a cousin whse born and raised in UK and guess who he likes the most of the singers...our own sunil edirisinghe...so dun try 2 b all poshy posh and give it a go.......
    :nerd::nerd::nerd::nerd::nerd::nerd::nerd::nerd:
     
    • Like
    Reactions: NJK4EVER