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Djpata

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Lich, Pata >

You can't force any member to come and post in ElaKiri.
It is their decision.

Some people must be doing their A/Ls or O/Ls, some must have got jobs. Some don't come coz of broken love affairs within ElaKiri.
I reckon I don't need to give exapmples but you people know about whom I'm referring.

And some are doing their last semester in Uni.

Likewise many old members are now sort of busy as I can see.

Even pata.. you also were not here in the last few months when you were working. isn't it?
Anyway as per what I can see, when an old member stops posting, 10 new members start. That's why we have 40% member activity now instead of 20% earlier. (posting)
So it's not a huge issue whether the old members are posting or not as far as I can see... Coz ElaKiri is growing.. So EK is getting good new members.
This is a community, when new people are here old people backs off. Even I myself limited posting coz to give new guys a chance to chat and know each other. And there are different people in an community with different attitudes. So you can't argue with all the members. It's their life style.
In the begining all post a hell lot of stuff. Coz they have joined ElaKiri when they were free. But after starting a job, studies etc they usually slow down. That's the nature. So you can't stop or ask anything from anybody.

Think, stay and enjoy OR think, leave and suffer.... It's your call ;)
agreed and thats what im tellin too...
agreed macho bt there are old members who doing da same job they were hee before N posting and enjoying da site...u weren't here @ dat time ne so u might not knw ryt?:P and da quez is r they realli bc to post or they got bored wit EK?:rolleyes:,eka unath issara okkoma enne EK:P passe mehedi ayth couple wenawa:lol:
yeah i wsn't here like before cz da real reason is i din got i-net connection to log in...but when i came home in da weekends and i logged in to da site...errrr:baffled:...its totally mess!!:dull:even i got bored to make threads and post here..:yes:
ya ya i agree we hv more than 40% member activity in posting..but wht??spam?? same thing again and again?? jst chatting around inside one or two threads??:confused:what is the point of postin in da site like psoting junkies to increase their post count??dear bro X , this compete of posting was here before of our good old days...but nyone din post lie those new junkies...they post smething meaningfull or important to others(yh they did chat/jokes etc inside and it count as spam..bt nt always like this)even you start postin so lately ryt??so u cnt imagine abt how EK was before...ask from NEO ;) he will tell u hv we post here and how we had fun:D
yh how could it be a big issue? ElaKiri is growing and getting new members but loosing old members...so whts da point of saying "Old is Gold"?:P
why those old members back off when new members are here??:confused:why can't we retain them??that means as much as new members we got we loose old members ne?:confused: ithin athi wedak nahane ban? we hv to keep the old and make new?ehema nemei da?:rolleyes:

we always think and enjoy when we can cz we hv to enjoy lyf when we live...inna kale nethuwa malata passe fun gannada?:P about leave and suffer..hmm why would us suffer cz we leave?:P we din lost nything...we make frineds from EK i admit bt leave EK dsnt mean we forget our friends and we break our relationship with them;)
 

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    malkavi said:
    mama danna scn wala hatiyata nam methana awulak wela thiyenawa.........samahara case mamath nodannawa nemei.........eth meka kelinma katha karala wisanda gaththoth hondai machan......aparade mechchara fit eke hitapu set eka nikan kadila yana eka honda ne.........

    kadila yhanneth kauru nisada kiyala umba dannawaneeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
     

    blackroses

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    maleemsg said:
    me Balcky mama kiuwa de thamai karanna wenne
    hemotama eka paara Gt ekka cnference ekak danan kiyala GT ta kiyamu

    wena wenam pm kara kara chat kara kara meka wisa denne nehe. yaluwo hathuro oya seratama thama thamnge hith wala thiyana dewal kiyana kiyamu.

    open heart prashne wisadamu

    ehema muun kata karanne naa neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
     

    blackroses

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    Djpata said:
    we always think and enjoy when we can cz we hv to enjoy lyf when we live...inna kale nethuwa malata passe fun gannada?:P about leave and suffer..hmm why would us suffer cz we leave?:P we din lost nything...we make frineds from EK i admit bt leave EK dsnt mean we forget our friends and we break our relationship with them;)

    menna katawaaaaaaaaaa............. :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
     

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    maleemsg said:
    bala bala idala hari yanne nehe kiyala penne nedda??

    katha karanan beri kauru hari innawanam balen hari katha karawala meka wisadala daamu blacky..!

    mokada me podi un wage randu wenne!

    aiyoooooo maleeeeeeeee......

    api randu une naa............. ( anika podi unuth nemei neeeeeeeeeee )

    api mechchar ke gahanne Ek ekata mokakhari ape hith athule tiyena nisaneeeeeeeee...........

    metanin ehata kegahanne naa..........

    online inawa................... nop posting......... as other members..............

    83,156 memberslagen active keeyada? ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)
     

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    blackroses said:
    aiyoooooo maleeeeeeeee......

    api randu une naa............. ( anika podi unuth nemei neeeeeeeeeee )

    api mechchar ke gahanne Ek ekata mokakhari ape hith athule tiyena nisaneeeeeeeee...........

    metanin ehata kegahanne naa..........

    online inawa................... nop posting......... as other members..............

    83,156 memberslagen active keeyada? ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)
    dan oyath post danne nadda etha kota??? :confused::eek: e mokada e dan?? :S:S
     

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    GTRZ said:
    I was not in Colombo for 2 days and its all mess. I never deleted any thread and if i delete them i surely let the owners know the reason. So whats going on and what made problems to each person? Please let me know.
    as always;):P if u ain't here it's always mess;):D:yes:
     

    Djpata

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    blackroses said:
    un kiwwoth macahn........... :P :P :P :P :P :P :P
    kiyai machan konda pana thiyena hangi hora weda nokarana depethtata bola pass karanne nethi...loku talk dala muna penanna akamathiwa inna ya arenna anik hamoma;):yes:
     

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    අගනගරේ කිට්ටුව
    mokak unath me wena deewalnam hoda nee....... ekata duka satuta bedagatta aya prasna ati karagattama hitata ridenawa wadei.... eeth matat teruna, mata denuna deyak tamai parana kattiya tika tika konwenawa kiyala..... mamat kaalayak log novi idala meethakadi tamai apahu log une...... eeth issara denuna ape elakiri kiyana feeling eka dan danen nee hitata...... issara gewapu kaale elakiri eke aaye enne nee kiyalanam hodatama sure........ kaale wenas kattiya aluth........