LAPD said:
bt machan, im talkin abt online chattin, she promised me that she wont do that again, but still shes doing that, when i asked she said i jst cnt stop that, what shud i do bro, i dnt like it, but coz of that i cant leave her
machan. I had the same problem. and what i can say is, understanding is the most important thing. when you get used to chatting, special if you spend ur time alone, its hard to stop it. Kinda addiction. But its nothing bad. addicted to being socialized is not a bad thing. If it is just being socialized, its nothing wrong as i see.
cos me too do chatting and i hve a lot of friends in chat rooms, forums etc. both girls and guyz.
so if u guyz really dont like each other chatting, you can work together to stop it. btw, showing a big resistance towards her behavior will cause her to be afraid to tell you her real situation. so never be mad, just try to be helpful to her