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Message: <blockquote data-quote="sirajstc" data-source="post: 8582723" data-attributes="member: 91140"> <a href="http://fight4allah.blogspot.com/2008/06/by-looking-at-biography-of-prophet.html" target="_blank">The Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) Love For His Wives</a>    <a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CnVyMfxW-wc/SFiDY-u8zjI/AAAAAAAAAEk/h7to-YQCW3o/s1600-h/Two_flowers_by_tina_p.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CnVyMfxW-wc/SFiDY-u8zjI/AAAAAAAAAEk/h7to-YQCW3o/s320/Two_flowers_by_tina_p.jpg" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></a>By  looking at the biography of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), you will find  that the Messenger of humanity, (PBUH), appreciated women (wives), and  gave them intensive care and proper love.   He demonstrated wonderful examples during his daily life. He was the  first person to stay by her side and stop her from crying, care about  her feelings, not making fun of her words, listen to her, and ease her  grief.   Perhaps many would agree with me that modern Western books which talk  about martial life don’t have a real example. They are just empty  slogans on papers.   Even though, the bestsellers in this matter were unable to reach to  what the Prophet of mercy, (PBUH) reached in his life. These are some of  precise situations in his life: Drinking and eating from one place: A’isha  (RA) reported : I would drink then I would hand it “ the vessel” to the  Prophet (PBUH ) and he would put his mouth where mine had been and  drink and I would eat the meat from a bone and he would put his mouth  where mine had been. Narrated by Muslim. Laying in the wife's lap:A’isha (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) would recline in my lap when I was menstruating. Narrated by Muslim. Combing his hair: A’isha  (RA) reported: When the messenger of Allah (PBUH) was in the mosque he  put his head in to my place and I combed his hair. Narrated by Muslim. Outings with his wife at night: -The prophet (PBUH) used to go walking with Aisha (RA) at night while talking with each other. Narrated by Bukhari. Assisting her in the housework: A’isha  (RA) was asked: “What did the Prophet use to do in his house?” She  replied, “He used to keep himself busy serving his family." Narrated by  Bukari Giving gifts to her friends:-When  the prophet (PBUH) slaughtered a sheep he said "send it to Khadija’s  friends." Narrator by Muslim. (Khadija is the Prophet's {PBUH} first  wife) Praising her: -The  Prophet (PBUH) said that value of Aisha (RA) among women was the same  value of thareed (bread soaked in soup) compared to other foods.  Narrated by Muslim He was pleased when she met her friendsAisha  (RA) said "My friends used to visit me but they were feeling shy from  the Prophet, (PBUH), and they started to come less. So the Prophet,  (PBUH), used to send for them so that I could meet them. Narrated by  Muslim. Declaring his love :-The Prophet (PBUH) said about Khadija (RA) “I have been given her love.” Narrated by Muslim.The Prophet (PBUH) said “O, Allah, the things which are in my control (i.e. justice and equality betweendifferent wives) I always do justice (with them), but forgive me for that which isbeyond my control (i.e. my love with Ayesha)”.‘Amr bin Al-‘Aas (RA) asked the Prophet (PBUH):“O, Prophet of Allah whom do you love the most”.“Ayesha”, he replied.“And whom do you love the most among the men”, ‘Amr bin A’-‘Aas further asked.“Her father”  (Abu Bakr RA), the Prophet (PBUH)said. Looking at her beautiful manners:The  Prophet (PBUH), "A male believer should not shun a female believer. If  he hated one manner from her, he would accept other." Narrated by Muslim Sleeping with his wife if he saw a woman by mistake that made him want to fulfill his desire:The Prophet (PBUH) said: " If one of you saw a woman he should go to his wife to fulfill his desire. “ Narrated by Muslim Does not talk about her private matters :He  said (PBUH): The worst of place with Allah on the judgment day is the  man who exchanges secrets with his wife and she with him then he spreads  her secrets." Narrated by Muslim Kissing: -The Prophet, (PBUH), used to kiss his wives while he was fasting: Narrated by Muslim Using perfume all the time Aish’a  (RA) said: "It is as if I am looking at the glitter of scent in the  part of the Prophet’s hair while he was Muhrim ". Narrated by Muslim Giving her gifts:Aisha  (RA) said: The people were waiting for Aisha’s (RA) day to give their  gifts wanting by this to please the Prophet (PBUH)." Narrated by Muslim. Knowing her feelings: The  Prophet (PBUH), said to Aisha (RA): I know when you are angry with me  or not … if were content with me you say no and by the God of Mohammad.  And if you were angry with me you say: no and by the God of Ibrahim."  Narrated by Muslim. Patience with her angerOmar  Ibn Al Katab said: My wife was mad at me and she reprimanded me and I  rejected that from her! She said: Why do you reject it from me? I swear  by Allah that the wives of the Prophet (PBUH) reprimanded him and one of  them ignored him all the day long until the night." Narrated by al  Bukari. Not beating herAisha  (RA) said that “The Prophet didn’t strike a servant or a woman and he  did beat anything with his hands." Narrated by Ibn Majah Consoling her when she criesSafiya  (RA) was on a journey with the Prophet, (PBUH), and that day was her  day and she was late so the Prophet (PBUH) received her while she was  crying. She said you make me ride a slow camel so the Prophet wiped her  tears and tried to make her stop crying." Narrated by Al Nisaee.To be continued inshaAllah...      Posted by Nany<a href="http://sharingknowledgeofislam.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">http://sharingknowledgeofislam.blogspot.com/</a> </blockquote>

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