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Message: <blockquote data-quote="sirajstc" data-source="post: 6340465" data-attributes="member: 91140"><img src="http://islamgreatreligion.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/bism01.jpg?w=180&h=62" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />Tips on How to Treat Our Mothers I have seen many peoples treating there mother not well,have lots of conflicts with mother…so,Here is a list of tips on how to treat your mothers..These include the tips which can be done by son and daughter.. <img src="http://islamgreatreligion.files.wordpress.com/2010/01/motherlove.jpg?w=480&h=599" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /> Allah says in Quran :And We have enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years give thanks to Me and to your parents, unto Me is the final destination. [Noble Quran 31:14] They carried us in their wombs for nine months, then endured the pain of labor, and then nurtured us and did everything for us when we were helpless babies and children; they bear the teenage years with patience and advice.  I hope this compilation of ways on how to treat our mothers will put a smile on the faces of your mothers, and let them know we have not forgotten what they go through. A smile with a warm embrace. <ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Saying thanks often.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">An offer to wash up the dishes.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">A cup of tea without her asking.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Recite her favorite Surah,</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Tidy round after she goes to bed, so that when she wakes up the house is tidy.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Buy her little ornaments for round the house so when she sees them she remembers you.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Rub her feet (after all, that’s where Paradise is).</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Phone your mum just to tell her you love her.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Buy her surprise gifts.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Go to her when she calls you.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Write a poem for her.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">If you’re on the phone, and your mother is asking something tell the person to wait.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Cook for her.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Let her teach you to cook even if you know, she will enjoy the fact that you’re coming to her to ask.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Bring your wife to her to learn how to cook, she will enjoy teaching her your favorite recipes, and both of you praise her cooking.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Clean the house without your mum having to ask.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Tell her how happy you are that she is a part of your life and your own families.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Always take your mothers side in front of your wife and mother over differing opinions; you can appease your wife later on out of sight.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Give her money to treat herself.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Make breakfast for her.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Go to get the shopping for her.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">If your mother likes to get the shopping, in then be patient with her as she goes up and down the aisles.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Do your own washing and ironing.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Spread the salaam when you leave and return from the home.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Comb her hair.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Massage her shoulders.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Do well in school</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Pray all your prayers on time</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Help with your younger siblings so she can put her feet up.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Teach your younger siblings to also help around the house, a mother needs time for her Ibadah too; her Ibadah should not have to fit around housework all the time.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Look good and smell nice and be polite so that you’re a good example of her upbringing.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Don’t always have your mum waking you up for prayer; try to wake her up instead.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Help her with new technology, this stimulates her brain and keeps her mentally fit.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Take an interest in her hobbies. If its sewing making sure she has all the things she needs. Ooo and ahhh, at her creations.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Listen to lectures together; watch programs together this is what makes the bond stronger between you.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Take the bins out and remember to bring them in, once they are emptied, this chore is something Muslim mums don’t like as they have to cover them selves all up to take it out.</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">If affordable, try to buy her the best and freshest food at the supermarket</li> </ul><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Take her out for drives in the car, especially if you live in the city take her to the countryside, go with the whole family and take a picnic.</li> </ul></blockquote>

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