1. Consider why it is you broke up in the first place. Do you just want her back just because you feel that you can't have her? Or maybe you just like the idea of having a girlfriend? Or you really do like her? Were one (or both) of you abusive, controlling, mean, or possessive? Did one (or both) cheat? If any of these things happened, you'll want to think long and hard about going back to that kind of relationship.
2.Be the person she fell in love with. She was attracted to you because she felt good with you, and you were fulfilling her emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around her. Laugh and smile. Always stay positive to feel good about yourself and make friends around you.
3.Don't look like you're stuck in the past, though. Let her know you're moving on wearing different clothes than you normally would. This will definitely make them think you are moving on with your life.
4.Prepare your first words. The first thing that you say to your ex girlfriend is extremely important. If you say the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get your ex gf back. Do not respond to your ex request for a breakup by crying and begging her to come back. This will not work. You are just going to make her feel more irritated and drive her further away. You need to understand that even though she initiates the breakup, there is a good chance that she still harbors good feelings for you.
5.Use the past to your advantage. If she's ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with her. If you have a chance to meet her, do it at a familiar place you used to hang out together.
6.Listen carefully to her choice of words. she may say something unusual like If she ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into the conversation again. This subconsciously tells she that she and you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.
7.Find out if your ex still cares. Before you start doing anything to try and win back your ex’s heart, you need to know for sure that she still cares or not. If she doesn’t and you are still desperate to get her back, then you need to know the most subtle ways to get her start to care, even the slightest. You will learn the most obvious clues on how to tell whether you still hold a special place in her heart or not. Knowing if your ex still cares about you is the first most important clue and hint that things can still be mended. You should not start on anything before you are sure that your ex has some percentage of concern when it comes to you. That is simply your small but fast closing window
8.Casually ask if she'd like to do something non-committal, like have a treat with friends, play pool, play bowling, etc. Something friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun. Skip out on the serious talks for now. You'll have plenty of time to talk about that later. That's very threatening to a lot of guys. If she initiates it, follow her lead. But don't go heavy.
9.Let her know you were thinking about her. Remember that one time you two went to lunch or a date at agreat restaurant or a place and had a fabulous time? Leave her a short email/sms telling her you ate there recently and thought of her. And, by the way, how is she doing? This is a non-threatening way to have a light conversation, and also, a small request for a reply back.
10.Invite her to talk to you. Express regret things weren't working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you've been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective!
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11.If all else fails, move on. Agree with the break-up.
12.Find other things to focus on. If you focus your attention on a new activity, you will have less time to miss your ex-gf. You feel stronger and more in control of your life. And if you are still in contact, your ex gf will notice that you have "moved on"
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2.Be the person she fell in love with. She was attracted to you because she felt good with you, and you were fulfilling her emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around her. Laugh and smile. Always stay positive to feel good about yourself and make friends around you.
3.Don't look like you're stuck in the past, though. Let her know you're moving on wearing different clothes than you normally would. This will definitely make them think you are moving on with your life.
4.Prepare your first words. The first thing that you say to your ex girlfriend is extremely important. If you say the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get your ex gf back. Do not respond to your ex request for a breakup by crying and begging her to come back. This will not work. You are just going to make her feel more irritated and drive her further away. You need to understand that even though she initiates the breakup, there is a good chance that she still harbors good feelings for you.
5.Use the past to your advantage. If she's ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with her. If you have a chance to meet her, do it at a familiar place you used to hang out together.
6.Listen carefully to her choice of words. she may say something unusual like If she ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into the conversation again. This subconsciously tells she that she and you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.
7.Find out if your ex still cares. Before you start doing anything to try and win back your ex’s heart, you need to know for sure that she still cares or not. If she doesn’t and you are still desperate to get her back, then you need to know the most subtle ways to get her start to care, even the slightest. You will learn the most obvious clues on how to tell whether you still hold a special place in her heart or not. Knowing if your ex still cares about you is the first most important clue and hint that things can still be mended. You should not start on anything before you are sure that your ex has some percentage of concern when it comes to you. That is simply your small but fast closing window
8.Casually ask if she'd like to do something non-committal, like have a treat with friends, play pool, play bowling, etc. Something friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun. Skip out on the serious talks for now. You'll have plenty of time to talk about that later. That's very threatening to a lot of guys. If she initiates it, follow her lead. But don't go heavy.
9.Let her know you were thinking about her. Remember that one time you two went to lunch or a date at agreat restaurant or a place and had a fabulous time? Leave her a short email/sms telling her you ate there recently and thought of her. And, by the way, how is she doing? This is a non-threatening way to have a light conversation, and also, a small request for a reply back.
10.Invite her to talk to you. Express regret things weren't working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you've been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective!
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11.If all else fails, move on. Agree with the break-up.
12.Find other things to focus on. If you focus your attention on a new activity, you will have less time to miss your ex-gf. You feel stronger and more in control of your life. And if you are still in contact, your ex gf will notice that you have "moved on"
Good Luck Ela Kiri Boys !!
dont forget to drop your precious comments in here Thank you
