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Message: <blockquote data-quote="sudunone" data-source="post: 4821650" data-attributes="member: 205934">I used to think about suicide when I felt trapped in a situation, and all the ways out seemed to be less desirable/ challenging/needing more effort.Like you, those ideas didn't go beyond thinking "How good it would be if I'm gone?" and imagining all those who caused my suffering would feel guilty when they find out that I've committed suicide!<img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/growl.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":growl:" title="Growl    :growl:" data-shortname=":growl:" />But that was a long time ago-when I was much younger, less experienced about the world. Now I know better. <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/nerd.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":nerd:" title="Nerd    :nerd:" data-shortname=":nerd:" /> Certain things in life are inconvenient; it's up to us to make it worse, maintain it that way or improve. And improving the situation for self is viewed by others in the society as a bad characteristic in us-this is what we fear, social scrutiny. <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/sad.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":(" title="Sad    :(" data-shortname=":(" /> Take for example: we failed in a relationship; the best option would be to move on. But we feel the society would label us as "fast", that they'd think we didn't have true love/fooled around with the guy, otherwise how could she forget it like that and enjoy life as if nothing happened? And we feel trapped.<img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/no.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":no:" title="No    :no:" data-shortname=":no:" />These are just stages in life. Somewhere during growing up, (that's well into my twenties!) I decided that I don't care what the others think about me, as long as I'm not doing anything wrong and what I do makes me happy.And I haven't felt suicidal since then. <img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/default/happy.gif"  class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":)" title="Happy    :)" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

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