Ubala Lamai Kiyak hadanna plan karanwa da?

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    ගෙදර බන් !!
    Btw, I remember I've answered one of the questions you've asked in a Dhamma discussion. If I am correct. If you've went through that thread, you know what I mean by 'I don't want to'

    Oh...machan mama dan dakke e uba kiyala.
    Now I can understand why.

    Bro, oyage uda reply eken mean wenne me thread eka open karapu ekage idea eka.
    ekai mama e vidiye reply ekak dunne.

    machan oyage story eka wenama deyak machan.
    ay uba bande?
     

    +Tamer

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    // Ubata lamayek hadanna ba kiyala hithenawa nam eka ube ponna kama machan.
    Lamayek nathi jivithe wadak na. Uba pirimiyek vashyen e wagakima ganna one pimpiyek novi.

    wife unath lamayage thaththa kiyana deta godak garu karanawa.

    That's just your opinion. live your life the way you choose but don't try to make other people live their lives based on your views.
     
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    mr90486

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    Oh...machan mama dan dakke e uba kiyala.
    Now I can understand why.

    Bro, oyage uda reply eken mean wenne me thread eka open karapu ekage idea eka.
    ekai mama e vidiye reply ekak dunne.

    machan oyage story eka wenama deyak machan.
    ay uba bande?
    Haha, no worries. Anyway, after seeing some of the replies I thought I was kinda stupid to make that post in this thread. Anyway, what you've asked was an interesting question bro. My parents also ask the same question at times. The answer is, the realization of the true meaning of Dhamma came after the marriage. One day I suddenly landed on a Dhamma sermon which changed my whole life eversince and I've never looked back. I do believe being in this life makes it a good playing field for practicing Dhamma. The challenges, obstacles etc keeps teaching you things that you've got to eliminate in order to become enlightened. If there's some luck of course.
     
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    hodakolla

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    Badapu gaman nam hadanna epa. Life eka enjoy karapan wife ekka 2years wath.
    Yanna puluwan hama thanama palayan machan. Rata tours unath lamayek hadanna kalin gihin waren.

    Ithin hama dama jivithe enjoy kara kra inna puulwan uba raja kenek ge hari hoda salli karayek ge puthek nam.
    ehema newei nam pahala step ekata aniwa enna one.

    Hari, ita passe aurudu 2k 3k giyama aniwa 1ka lamayek hadapan mulin.
    Balapan kohomada ubata/wife ta handle kara ganna puluwan da kiyala economy/social eka paththen.
    Ayeth aurudu 2k vithara balapan.

    palaweni lamaya boy kenek nam 2ni lamaya girl kenek wenna wish karagena hadapan.
    Mokada boy / girl innawa nam e family eka 100% satisfied machan.

    Ubala 2nai balala dennai.
    Meka thamai jivithe.

    // Ubata lamayek hadanna ba kiyala hithenawa nam eka ube ponna kama machan.
    Lamayek nathi jivithe wadak na. Uba pirimiyek vashyen e wagakima ganna one pimpiyek novi.

    wife unath lamayage thaththa kiyana deta godak garu karanawa.


    sira kathwa
     

    Butter Gel

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    Badapu gaman nam hadanna epa. Life eka enjoy karapan wife ekka 2years wath.
    Yanna puluwan hama thanama palayan machan. Rata tours unath lamayek hadanna kalin gihin waren.

    Ithin hama dama jivithe enjoy kara kra inna puulwan uba raja kenek ge hari hoda salli karayek ge puthek nam.
    ehema newei nam pahala step ekata aniwa enna one.

    Hari, ita passe aurudu 2k 3k giyama aniwa 1ka lamayek hadapan mulin.
    Balapan kohomada ubata/wife ta handle kara ganna puluwan da kiyala economy/social eka paththen.
    Ayeth aurudu 2k vithara balapan.

    palaweni lamaya boy kenek nam 2ni lamaya girl kenek wenna wish karagena hadapan.
    Mokada boy / girl innawa nam e family eka 100% satisfied machan.

    Ubala 2nai balala dennai.
    Meka thamai jivithe.

    // Ubata lamayek hadanna ba kiyala hithenawa nam eka ube ponna kama machan.
    Lamayek nathi jivithe wadak na. Uba pirimiyek vashyen e wagakima ganna one pimpiyek novi.

    wife unath lamayage thaththa kiyana deta godak garu karanawa.

    Ney palayan ban.. ubata ochara amaruwak thiyanwa namm ube gani dipan hukala lamai ekata dekakma dila penanam.. ponnayak da nadda proof karanda..

    පොපියුලේශන් කේස් නිසා නම් නොහද ඉන්න එපා මොකෝ හම්බයො දුසිම් ගහන්නේ... උඹට ආතල්1 නිදහසේ ඉන්න ඕන නම් හදන්න එපා ඉතින්... හරි නීතියක් එන්න ඕන ජනගහන පාලනය වෙන්න නම්.. අර චීනේ කලේ ඒ කාලේ. අ වගේ ලොකු කන්ට්‍රෝල්1ක් ඕන..

    population seen eka hinda newei. oya magul hithala life eka geniyanda puluvin da ban .. Just personally nathuwa hitiyoth hodai kiyala hithanwa..


    Uba lankawe inna balaporottu wenawanam oka tikak amaru wedak
    kohe hari hoda ratakata migrate wiyan :D

    Siravatama .. Corona iwara unama try ekak denda oney..

    ළමයිට හරියට කන්න බොන්න දෙන්න, උගන්වන්න පුලුවන් ශක්තියක් තියනව නම් ළමයි 10ක් උනත් හදපන්,
    දුක් විදින්න, රටට පේන්න නම් ළමයි ගොඩක් හදන්න එපා
    දෙන්නා කතා කරලා හොද තිරනයක් ගනින්


    Uba kiyana kathawa waraddak naa.. epa kiyala hithenawa nam hadanna epa, echcharai.. Anik un kiyana labbawal walin wadak naa..

    Habai kaaleth ekka apita hithena dewal wenas wenna puluwan. Ubalata wadi wayasak naththam thawa tika kaalayak indala balapan..

    10k wath hadapan bn.nattan sinhalu adu wela muslim wedi wei.ratata adare nan 10k wath hadapan aduma gane

    I don't want. anyway she wants. parents wants. bla bla bla. tried but it doesn't work either. hell

    1 mco
    ape jiwithema ape podi eka tamai

    මම නම් බඳින්නේ වත් නෑ ලමයි හදන්නෙත් නෑ.

    Ubala Okotama kiyanney.. Just think for while ..think about your life .. its not about rich or poor and its not about where you really live and how you living.. whats the purpose of this fucking life ?? Just running somwher without knowing where we all going since we born ..podak hithapan machan ..

    podi kale ammala kapan kapan kiyanwa
    ita passe grade 5 exam ekata padam karapan karapan kiyanwa
    ita passe grade o/l thami life ekey next chapter eka .. eka goda damoth thama life eka thiyanney kiyala mari mari okata padam karanwa.
    ita passe a/l thamai life eka .. uba campus giya nath namm.. sadahatama goda eymak naha kiyaa okata padam karanwa..
    ita passe campus apu wama thami therenney meka thama amaruma step eka meka goda unama hari kiyala..
    ita passe graduate wela job ekak karanda giyama thawa kattak ..
    ita passe marry karala save karapu okama salli viyadam karala wedding eka ganda oney
    ita passe ammala lamayak hadapan layamak hadapan kiyana.. podi yekak hadumapa uth mey hutha life cycle ekata mattu wela mang wage hithai dawasaka monavada mey hutha jeewithe theruma kiyala.. mang methana agamak ho kiyala deyak katha karanney naha .. podak hithapan ban ..

    Mey life eka ubage lemayak ta siravatama denda oney da ??
     

    Lahiru120

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    Ney palayan ban.. ubata ochara amaruwak thiyanwa namm ube gani dipan hukala lamai ekata dekakma dila penanam.. ponnayak da nadda proof karanda..



    population seen eka hinda newei. oya magul hithala life eka geniyanda puluvin da ban .. Just personally nathuwa hitiyoth hodai kiyala hithanwa..




    Siravatama .. Corona iwara unama try ekak denda oney..














    Ubala Okotama kiyanney.. Just think for while ..think about your life .. its not about rich or poor and its not about where you really live and how you living.. whats the purpose of this fucking life ?? Just running somwher without knowing where we all going since we born ..podak hithapan machan ..

    podi kale ammala kapan kapan kiyanwa
    ita passe grade 5 exam ekata padam karapan karapan kiyanwa
    ita passe grade o/l thami life ekey next chapter eka .. eka goda damoth thama life eka thiyanney kiyala mari mari okata padam karanwa.
    ita passe a/l thamai life eka .. uba campus giya nath namm.. sadahatama goda eymak naha kiyaa okata padam karanwa..
    ita passe campus apu wama thami therenney meka thama amaruma step eka meka goda unama hari kiyala..
    ita passe graduate wela job ekak karanda giyama thawa kattak ..
    ita passe marry karala save karapu okama salli viyadam karala wedding eka ganda oney
    ita passe ammala lamayak hadapan layamak hadapan kiyana.. podi yekak hadumapa uth mey hutha life cycle ekata mattu wela mang wage hithai dawasaka monavada mey hutha jeewithe theruma kiyala.. mang methana agamak ho kiyala deyak katha karanney naha .. podak hithapan ban ..

    Mey life eka ubage lemayak ta siravatama denda oney da ??

    Your choice mco
    api middle class familyak a unata api happy kiayyne patta happy eke inne
    Ehema hituwanam ape ammala thattala apith na kawruth na his world ekak mco

    Mama reply kere friendly idea ekak ganda charter reply keranda epa .elakiriye idea share keragattama balu widihata gedara aya adala baninda epa .
     
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    RLT4U

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    ගෙදර බන් !!
    Haha, no worries. Anyway, after seeing some of the replies I thought I was kinda stupid to make that post in this thread. Anyway, what you've asked was an interesting question bro. My parents also ask the same question at times. The answer is, the realization of the true meaning of Dhamma came after the marriage. One day I suddenly landed on a Dhamma sermon which changed my whole life eversince and I've never looked back. I do believe being in this life makes it a good playing field for practicing Dhamma. The challenges, obstacles etc keeps teaching you things that you've got to eliminate in order to become enlightened. If there's some luck of course.

    I always respect your thoughts machan. One day you will see the truth of nature.
    Thumps up!
     

    Butter Gel

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    Your choice mco
    api middle class familyak a unata api happy kiayyne patta happy eke inne
    Ehema hituwanam ape ammala thattala apith na kawruth na his world ekak mco

    Mama reply kere friendly idea ekak ganda charter reply keranda epa .elakiriye idea share keragattama balu widihata gedara aya adala baninda epa .
    Ehema hituwanam ape ammala thattala apith na kawruth na his world ekak mco = SIravatama mata nam hithenawa ei api ipaduney kiyala..

    anika machan bududahameth kiyana mey life cycle eken exit wenda. Anika api aluth life ekka haduwe naha kiyana mata labana athmayak thibata magen ehata thawa kenak naha :confused2:

    mang methana bududahama hinda newei . Just hinking like a layman.. whats the purpose and DO we really want to give same life cycle to our kids :|
     

    Emios

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    It's time to think beyond our own likes.If we keep the same rate earth will not be able to handle the population.It will take very aggresive steps to control the population if we did not.
     

    Butter Gel

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    I always respect your thoughts machan. One day you will see the truth of nature.
    Thumps up!
    Much appreciate if you could share your opinion and thoughts ..
    Are you really want to see your kids to face the same life like you?? Or you want to end with you?
     

    RLT4U

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    ගෙදර බන් !!
    Ney palayan ban.. ubata ochara amaruwak thiyanwa namm ube gani dipan hukala lamai ekata dekakma dila penanam.. ponnayak da nadda proof karanda..

    Uba valige paga gena bn.
    Mama ponnayek kiyala kiuwe thaththa kenek kiyana e responsibility ganna bari kamata. Naththam lamai hadanna ube dathu pita wena bari kamata newei. Mulin kiyana idea eka therum ganin bro.


    Much appreciate if you could share your opinion and thoughts ..
    Are you really want to see your kids to face the same life like you?? Or you want to end with you?

    Its depend machan.
    I wedded and have a kid too. So I will go with them.