what would you do

[sampath312]

hey all the people with a open minds what would you do in this kind of a situation

your ex girl friend who you trully loved and get apart for some reason begun to loose her self and trying destroy her self doing the shit...who begin to belive getting drunk is the best thing....ruin up all the things and behave like as she never used to be...just imagine she forget you because of some one elese but she just finds she is just cheated .....so she try to hurt her self. how you would help her if she doesn't like face you as she knows its she who did the mistake


sampath writes

 

[icreations]

hmm machoo tawa tikak pahadiliwa kiwot... prasne nam terenawa.. et.. thawa tikak...

 

[nwnbs]

hmmm...ane manda...kalpana karala balanna one...

 

[icreations]

if i ( the boy ) really loved her... and if she knows that she who did da wrong thing and now she is disappointed abt it..... even though she doesnt like to meet me

i'll go and talk with her coz I really loved her... and as i ( if the love is pure) only wants her to b happy every moment of her life....

 

[G.R.E.A]

kinda difficult situation... it depends if u still like that girl/guy.
then i would: go to him and talk, let him hear that drinkin isnt the situation, and that this girl wasnt worth him.
I know that this might hurt maself too, coz he's ur ex who u trully loved.
But if u love him, no matter as a friend or still secretly as a lover, i would do something to help, atleast let him know that he's not alone.

 

[sampath312]

mm lets tell it like this if she is a eropian and ur a asian macho,,,,mm lets say cant meet each other but all the other comunicating devices are available

 

[sampath312]

kinda difficult situation... it depends if u still like that girl/guy.
then i would: go to him and talk, let him hear that drinkin isnt the situation, and that this girl wasnt worth him.
I know that this might hurt maself too, coz he's ur ex who u trully loved.
But if u love him, no matter as a friend or still secretly as a lover, i would do something to help, atleast let him know that he's not alone.

mm lets see lets say the guy still likes her some how...

 

[icreations]

Hmm ehemada?... Thn machoo U'll have to comm. neda?.. coz any way it's a Life.. ne?..
even as a friend even must talk to her... and make her Mind Up..

any way that's wat'll i do.. Hav 2 go mcahoo i'll rep tomorrow further... oki
bye

 

[virajvithanage]

Hmmm... knda srs situation to gv an aprpriate answer... but X-pert will gv the bst advce... jst for nw as i thnk... boy mst communicate and try to make her feeel ok... forgveness is smetimes the best cure machan... and if the boy is an asian & the gal is an europian then it will be easier for him to forgive....!!!! if cnt forgive at least he can try and talk and save her from the stupid track she is in....!!!!! well daz wat if it happens to me ill do!!!!

 

[sampath312]

Hmm ehemada?... Thn machoo U'll have to comm. neda?.. coz any way it's a Life.. ne?..
even as a friend even must talk to her... and make her Mind Up..

any way that's wat'll i do.. Hav 2 go mcahoo i'll rep tomorrow further... oki
bye

ok ok macho ..sleep well,,even at last hats off for ur sigi..it ll become a trend u see

 

[G.R.E.A]

mm lets see lets say the guy still likes her some how...

if the guy still likes the girl (who broke up with him) ...
hmm...its more about what is the intention
of this guy, does he want to help her or also wants get her back.
When both, then its up to the girl, there is not much u can do then, i guess.
I would say, try to help her getting out of the shit, nd then hopefully she will
see what kind of a good guy she broke up with...then she might realise how stupid she was....(maybe this is too black nd white) but this is all i can think of
with the details u gave...

 

[sampath312]

if the guy still likes the girl (who broke up with him) ...
hmm...its more about what is the intention
of this guy, does he want to help her or also wants get her back.
When both, then its up to the girl, there is not much u can do then, i guess.
I would say, try to help her getting out of the shit, nd then hopefully she will
see what kind of a good guy she broke up with...then she might realise how stupid she was....(maybe this is too black nd white) but this is all i can think of
with the details u gave...

better say he got the both but its some thing he has given up when he get to know she is such a stupid track...but after all he need to help her without closing his eyes and throwing as old stuff.but the thing is she believes she sholud get ppunished her self,as she doesnt like to come back to his ex boy freind as she thinks ...he might think she is coming when things went wrong for her ...

 

[icreations]

ok ok macho ..sleep well,,even at last hats off for ur sigi..it ll become a trend u see

Hmm Thx.. Machooo.. Thaama giyee na
balamu neda?...

this is d 2nd one of this kind
http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?goto=lastpost&t=52568

also as told X-pert is D best to this prob..
i'll post tomorrow oki... bye thn..

 

[sampath312]

Hmm Thx.. Machooo.. Thaama giyee na
balamu neda?...

this is d 2nd one of this kind
http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?goto=lastpost&t=52568

also as told X-pert is D best to this prob..
i'll post tomorrow oki... bye thn..

no macho u didnt got it macho.....its just not it what i was talking in sigi...those flower arts i meant ...which appears to be like creeping out of the sigi and get entangled with the background


never mind it macho....u ll see it in sooner then i ll show it how ur sigi has become a trend

 

[icreations]

better say he got the both but its some thing he has given up when he get to know she is such a stupid track...but after all he need to help her without closing his eyes and throwing as old stuff.but the thing is she believes she sholud get ppunished her self,as she doesnt like to come back to his ex boy freind as she thinks ...he might think she is coming when things went wrong for her ...

Hmm eeka atta...

any way machoo Ppl do many bad thing whn they are in love.. i know i did.. but the main thing is the present..
i'm talking in another side.. ( Value Life by Living it ) if the girl get in more trouble... ... i'm not telling that the guy should start the love again.. but i think he should do some thing as for just one day even he loved her... and she did too.. ( i dont know ) so my idea is the guy must do some thing (Not every thing ) to Get her frm that Sh!t... coz if she ruins her self as she was fooled & she has did the wrong thing to her ex-BF ...

it'll be hell to the gut (it might ) coz he had some kind of a chance to save her...

i know i dont like to be that person at all...

 

[icreations]

no macho u didnt got it macho.....its just not it what i was talking in sigi...those flower arts i meant ...which appears to be like creeping out of the sigi and get entangled with the background


never mind it macho....u ll see it in sooner then i ll show it how ur sigi has become a trend...

he i got it now machoo also i started it from the Round from the old sigi,... like wise.. any way now i really have to goo bye...

 

[xXxHaNzxXx]

kinda difficult situation... it depends if u still like that girl/guy.
then i would: go to him and talk, let him hear that drinkin isnt the situation, and that this girl wasnt worth him.
I know that this might hurt maself too, coz he's ur ex who u trully loved.
But if u love him, no matter as a friend or still secretly as a lover, i would do something to help, atleast let him know that he's not alone.

...try to let her know that you r always there for her no matter what...as a good friend...i guess the best thing which you can do is..listen to her and just be there for her... ...paaaaaaaaaaaw..

 

[sampath312]

Hmm eeka atta...

any way machoo Ppl do many bad thing whn they are in love.. i know i did.. but the main thing is the present..
i'm talking in another side.. ( Value Life by Living it ) if the girl get in more trouble... ... i'm not telling that the guy should start the love again.. but i think he should do some thing as for just one day even he loved her... and she did too.. ( i dont know ) so my idea is the guy must do some thing (Not every thing ) to Get her frm that Sh!t... coz if she ruins her self as she was fooled & she has did the wrong thing to her ex-BF ...

it'll be hell to the gut (it might ) coz he had some kind of a chance to save her...

i know i dont like to be that person at all...

though this is kinda a serious situation i cant imagine why my own self go back wards, how can i say my next step would be the correct one in few years

 

[sampath312]

though this is kinda a serious situation i cant imagine why my own self go back wards, how can i say my next step would be the correct one in few years

should i get in to the same situation i undergo some time back if missed her again....

 

[miuru87]

try to b with her as much as u can. if u are commited then 1st make it aware to gf and then ask 4 her help. let her understan the situation. then she will deffinitly help u. then both go and help her.